Is she faking it?

[ex-boyfriend]

I recently exited a relationship where by all accounts I thought we were happy.
I was then abruptly told the relationship was over and according to her has been for almost 15 months.
Apparently she found another man and was developing a relationship with him behind my back for all those many months.

Hence my question, Was she faking it?

Are there any other members, muslim or not that are/were in a relationship where the reality you thought existed was completely different from what your partner believed it to be?
I'm perplexed at how a person could FAKE being in a close loving relationship while all along they were not happy.
I believe this topic is something that could be, and should be discussed in this Marriage thread.

[Al-Irhaab]

I recently exited a relationship where by all accounts I thought we were happy.
I was then abruptly told the relationship was over and according to her has been for almost 15 months.
Apparently she found another man and was developing a relationship with him behind my back for all those many months.

Hence my question, Was she faking it?

Are there any other members, muslim or not that are/were in a relationship where the reality you thought existed was completely different from what your partner believed it to be?
I'm perplexed at how a person could FAKE being in a close loving relationship while all along they were not happy.
I believe this topic is something that could be, and should be discussed in this Marriage thread.

by relationship u mean marriage or u mean ur girlfriend?

[ex-boyfriend]

by relationship u mean marriage or u mean ur girlfriend?

Well, we lived together yet were not married.
I fully intended to marry her in the next year or two.

[insomniac]

Well, we lived together yet were not married.
I fully intended to marry her in the next year or two.

As Muslims we refrain from cohabitation before marriage as it is a sin.

[ImaanSeeker]

by relationship u mean marriage or u mean ur girlfriend?

i think his username kind of gives it away bro.

[.: Anna :.]

brother I dont think this topic about boyfriend/girlfriends is really relevant here... as muslims we dont do this practise so im not sure what you are hoping people will be able to contribute in this discussion?