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Sis Sabiha
13-04-07, 12:00 AM
What is everyone's criteria when they are looking for a partner? It can be Islamic, education, personality etc.
umm_yusuf
13-04-07, 12:17 AM
He has to be of those who holds the Qur'an in his right hand and holds the sunnah in his left.
He should be of those who are deeply concerned with the plight of the muslims and should try all his best to do whatever he can to help the muslims.
He should be kind to the muslims and harsh to the disbelievers.
He should be willing to make Jihad in the path of Allah.
He should have a certain level of education (prefferable degree) so that he can help the ummah in that way if Allah does not bless him to go in the path of Jihad.
ur_yusra
13-04-07, 12:54 AM
Commitment to the deen.
peace2u
13-04-07, 04:49 AM
He has to be of those who holds the Qur'an in his right hand and holds the sunnah in his left.
He should be of those who are deeply concerned with the plight of the muslims and should try all his best to do whatever he can to help the muslims.
He should be kind to the muslims and harsh to the disbelievers.
He should be willing to make Jihad in the path of Allah.
He should have a certain level of education (prefferable degree) so that he can help the ummah in that way if Allah does not bless him to go in the path of Jihad.
along with these...
He should be financially capable of supporting his wife and future family
He should be a hard worker, not afraid to work
Peace
tall, dark and handsome:D
sunrise
13-04-07, 10:35 AM
He has to be of those who holds the Qur'an in his right hand and holds the sunnah in his left.
He should be of those who are deeply concerned with the plight of the muslims and should try all his best to do whatever he can to help the muslims.
He should be kind to the muslims and harsh to the disbelievers.
He should be willing to make Jihad in the path of Allah.
He should have a certain level of education (prefferable degree) so that he can help the ummah in that way if Allah does not bless him to go in the path of Jihad.
yeah but where would you ever find such a man *sighs* LOL (and no don't be getting ne ideas:D )
also don't forget kindmess, generousity and gentleness inshAllah :)
2 arms, 2 legs, 2 eyes, 2 ears...the standard things :nerdsis:
Regular in salah, sunnah and charity.
people who give and give and give and endure with patience and forbearance and a smile on their face because they know the worth of their difficulties :love:.
and if he looks like this then its a plus :nerdbro:
and can he be funny too pls :o and yah al have fries with that :D
ibn suleman
13-04-07, 11:33 AM
2 arms, 2 legs, 2 eyes, 2 ears...the standard things :nerdsis:
thats limbist :p
Ruprecht
13-04-07, 11:50 AM
Low standards :D
ideally ...inteligent, good sense of humour but knows when to be serious, serious about his deen and good basic knowledge of its principles which shoud be firmly embedded in his heart and deeds and speech, and not just his ideals in his head. young at heart regardless of his age ..but not immature, responsible, a leader not a follower, has no problem marrying other women in fact he should see that as his duty to this ummah and not as a chore.
hardworking, should have no issues with race or nationaities or so called "racial preferences" should have no issues about children, in fact he should want to take in more muslim children, regardless of whoose they are, he should provide me with a place to live, and food and clothing and shelter ( yea well some wont beleive it or not) should have enough trust in Allah to not moan about how much money we do, or dont have.
should be cool headed in a crisis, should be man enough to escort me to the police station and not let me go alone when they come to harass me and my sons, should not expect me to go out to work or to leave the house alone except in necessity.
he should know how to be the amir of a family without becoming arrogant and opressive, should take me out for nice walks and picnics and swimming in the sea after fajr, should be kind and gentle,should take me horseriding, should be willing to give his life for the deen, should want to live in a muslim land and make hijrah...well all that should come from him following his deen anyway, and theres a few more things i could add but that would do me..
however i think he probably exists only in my daydreams *sigh*
Muhammad2
13-04-07, 12:32 PM
So... When do you hope to meet the Gulf States millionaire of your dreams? :p
blue rose
13-04-07, 12:35 PM
tall, dark and handsome:D
haha
Muhammad2
13-04-07, 12:59 PM
Indecisiveness? :p
Salman Al-Farsi
13-04-07, 01:21 PM
Gsoh
ibn suleman
13-04-07, 01:35 PM
Gsoh
is its an acronym ???
good shoulders on head :p
ibnKathir27
13-04-07, 01:36 PM
good sense of humour
souljaa
13-04-07, 01:38 PM
Gsoh
General sense of humour
Freshie
13-04-07, 01:44 PM
British Passport
:1peace:
insomniac
13-04-07, 01:45 PM
British Passport
:1peace:
:rolleyes:
:p
good sense of humour - gsoh
blue rose
13-04-07, 02:44 PM
good sense of humour - gsoh
really?
blue rose
13-04-07, 02:44 PM
British Passport
:1peace:
LOL
really?
i was repsonding to salmans Post dear!
I've already found my wifey to be so this thread dotn apply :D
blue rose
13-04-07, 02:48 PM
i was repsonding to salmans Post dear!
I've already found my wifey to be so this thread dotn apply :D
so u sayin i dnt hav a gsoh? :p
so u sayin i dnt hav a gsoh? :p
lol u do alhumdulillah :)
urban_rose
13-04-07, 02:49 PM
for future reference; Good knowledge of deen, being committed to their faith, someone who does active da'wah work, someone who goes out for Jamaat regularly; intelligent, good looking, someone who has a good sense of humour, erm...shares the same way of thinking as me...i dont really ask for much :p
urban_rose
13-04-07, 02:50 PM
so u sayin i dnt hav a gsoh? :p
lol u do alhumdulillah :)
aww, your posts are so sweet, mashAllah :D
blue rose
13-04-07, 02:50 PM
for future reference; Good knowledge of deen, being committed to their faith, someone who does active da'wah work, someone who goes out for Jamaat regularly; intelligent, good looking, someone who has a good sense of humour, erm...shares the same way of thinking as me...i dont really ask for much :p
no u dnt... do u :p only the best:D
blue rose
13-04-07, 02:51 PM
aww, your posts are so sweet, mashAllah :D
o u makin me blush :o
urban_rose
13-04-07, 02:52 PM
no u dnt... do u :p only the best:D
lol, of course ;)
o u makin me blush :o
aww :love:
muslimah85
13-04-07, 02:55 PM
Gsoh and and good morals
That will Do it for me anyday :love:
blue rose
13-04-07, 02:55 PM
Gsoh and and good morals
That will Do it for me anyday :love:
insha'allah :)
blue rose
13-04-07, 02:56 PM
lol, of course ;)
aww :love:
:)
salaam
the number one most important thing to me is... *drum roll please*
he has to be TALL. yes. tall. not average. tall. taller than average is fine.
why? because im tall. i'd like to be able to wear heels and not be taller than him.
oh wait, im already hooked up with someone. oh well... :rolleyes:
blue rose
13-04-07, 03:04 PM
salaam
the number one most important thing to me is... *drum roll please*
he has to be TALL. yes. tall. not average. tall. taller than average is fine.
why? because im tall. i'd like to be able to wear heels and not be taller than him.
oh wait, im already hooked up with someone. oh well... :rolleyes:
is he tall?
muslimah85
13-04-07, 03:06 PM
salaam
the number one most important thing to me is... *drum roll please*
he has to be TALL. yes. tall. not average. tall. taller than average is fine.
why? because im tall. i'd like to be able to wear heels and not be taller than him.
oh wait, im already hooked up with someone. oh well... :rolleyes:
LOL, my friend has the same issue :p. Im tall but dosn't matter to me! Heels are way too uncomfy unless its an occasions. You can get loads of nice flat shoes and boots nowdays! :D
LOL, my friend has the same issue :p. Im tall but dosn't matter to me! Heels are way too uncomfy unless its an occasions. You can get loads of nice flat shoes and boots nowdays! :D
salaam
for sure u can ive been sticking to flats lately, the new ones that are in now are sooo cute!
heels arent uncomfy, u just hav to get used to them. it took me awhile to get used to flats haha :inlove:
oh and if he can do this, id be well impressed:
http://drinkingliberally.org/blogs/oakland/archives/chimpanzee-glock.gif
heaven2002
13-04-07, 03:39 PM
someone who practises islam
he can cook
he is kind
thats about it
Muhammad2
13-04-07, 03:41 PM
I try
I can
I hope i am
But I'm not the one you're looking for.
someone who practises islam
he can cook
he is kind
thats about it
salaam
oh yaaa COOK.. thats a good one! i dont wanna cook :torture:
What is the point in wanting this or that, when the person we end up with is already written in our fate.
Redmist
13-04-07, 05:15 PM
oh and if he can do this, id be well impressed:
http://drinkingliberally.org/blogs/oakland/archives/chimpanzee-glock.gif
Does he have to look like that as well :p :rubeyes:
Its allrite im just teasing.......in one of them moods today!
Abu Mus'ab
13-04-07, 05:57 PM
Erm ... :D .
Ditto.
by the way what's erm?
Nasibah
13-04-07, 08:01 PM
1. Someone who loves the quran and sunnah more then anyone and anything. But also implements it in every aspect of his life.
2. He must be able to understand and implement al-wala wal-bara.
3. Is kind yet stern.
4. hungers for Jihad ul saif, and is working towards fulfilling this role Emotionally/physically/socially and financially.
5. Mature/sincere/educated/ from good family/ and is able to look after his household.
6. Wishes to make hijra asap.
ALL IN ALL, QURAN AND SUNNAH.
Not much is it??? :)
salaam,wow i iv noticed my criterias change,wen i was in colleg it was all abt looks,now its a person who is pious,kind and gentle,with manners,who know thier deen,i wud prefer a revert so we can learn n devote our life to islam together,dont care abt race,but i hav to b attracted too!Allah Knows Best
aurorascopic
13-04-07, 09:05 PM
salaam,wow i iv noticed my criterias change,wen i was in colleg it was all abt looks,now its a person who is pious,kind and gentle,with manners,who know thier deen,i wud prefer a revert so we can learn n devote our life to islam together,dont care abt race,but i hav to b attracted too!Allah Knows Best
is your username a name- fArida thats spelt fOrida or is it supposed to be fLorida and you missed out the L by accident? :s
Does he have to look like that as well :p :rubeyes:
Its allrite im just teasing.......in one of them moods today!
contrary to popular thought i dont care what he looks like :p
as long as he has gowjussness on the inside bits inshallah :coolbro: i love the shahabah Julaybeen Ra :love:
*whirl*
*IslamicGirl*
13-04-07, 10:06 PM
:start:
:salams
What is everyone's criteria when they are looking for a partner? It can be Islamic, education, personality etc.
My criteria seems like a life insurance policy :p
:wswrwb:
Sis Sabiha
14-04-07, 01:17 AM
1. Someone who loves the quran and sunnah more then anyone and anything. But also implements it in every aspect of his life.
2. He must be able to understand and implement al-wala wal-bara.
3. Is kind yet stern.
4. hungers for Jihad ul saif, and is working towards fulfilling this role Emotionally/physically/socially and financially.
5. Mature/sincere/educated/ from good family/ and is able to look after his household.
6. Wishes to make hijra asap.
ALL IN ALL, QURAN AND SUNNAH.
Not much is it??? :)
some interesting answers. im quite surprised this topic has not been brought up before!
with the above quote:
can you please explain what is al-wala wal-bara.
and where would you like to migrate to?
also, i read someone here saying if its written in our fate why ask these questions. well simply brother/sister: when we start looking we need to find the ideal partner. allah knows who is best for us and what is written in our fate but in order to achieve this we have to prepare. i hope i make sense.
also, not everything in our fate is finalised. dua'a is the only thing that will change our fate.
peace2u
14-04-07, 10:55 AM
Gsoh
is its an acronym ???
good shoulders on head :p
good sense of humour
General sense of humour
Nah! I think he just mispelled "gosh" at another marriage thread :p :D
Peace
peace2u
14-04-07, 10:56 AM
tall, dark and handsome:D
Would be an added plus :inlove:
Peace
is your username a name- fArida thats spelt fOrida or is it supposed to be fLorida and you missed out the L by accident? :s
MY NAME IS FORIDA!!!!y wud i b named after a state??!!!lol
Nasibah
14-04-07, 12:38 PM
[QUOTE=Sis Sabiha;1793639]
with the above quote:
can you please explain what is al-wala wal-bara.
The Definition of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' in the Islamic Belief The legal meaning of Al-Wala' (love, support, help, follow, etc.) is to totally agree with the sayings, deeds and beliefs which please Allah and the persons whom He likes. Al-Bara' (despise, desert, keep innocent of, etc.) is the complete opposite of Al-Wala' and it is to disagree with everything that Allah hates and condemns.
Hence, there are four issues related to the belief in Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara', those being: the sayings, the deeds, the beliefs and the individual persons. Some of the things that pleases Allah (s.w.t.) are the saying of Dhikr, the deed of Jihad, the belief in His Oneness and the love of the believing person. Backbiting, fornication, Shirk and disbelief are some of the things that are hated by Allah (s.w.t.) and must also be hated by the Believer.
The Rank of the Belief in Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' The belief in Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' occupies a meritorious rank in the Islamic Aqeedah. This can be understood from the following reasons:
- Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' is part of the Shahadah (testimony of faith) that being 'La ilaha' which is the portion from 'La ilaha illallah'. This means to be free and immune from all that is worshiped besides Allah (s.w.t.) as He the Almighty states: "And verily, We have sent among every Ummah (community, nation) a Messenger (proclaiming): 'Worship Allah (alone), and avoid (or keep away from) Taghut (all false deities, ie. do not worship Taghut besides Allah)" (16:36).
- The eminent creed of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' is the strongest bond of Iman. Al-Barra' bin A'aazeb (r.a.a.) narrates that the Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "The strongest bond of Iman is the love for Allah's sake and the hatred for Allah's sake" (Reported by Imam Ahmad).
- It is one of the basis by which the heart can experience the beauty of Iman and absolute assurance. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "Whoever possesses the following three (qualities) will have the sweetness (delight) of faith: The one to whom Allah and His Messenger become dearer than anything else, who loves a person and he loves him only for Allah's sake, and who hates to revert to atheism (disbelief) as he hates to be thrown into the fire".
- It is the foundation by which all relationships and dealings in a Muslim community is built upon as described by the Prophet (s.a.w.): "None of you will have faith till he likes for his (Muslim) brother what he likes for himself" (Bukhari), and by Wisdom of the Almighty: "The believers are nothing else than brothers (in Islamic religion)" (49:10).
- The great and abundant reward is due to those who are characterised by the love of each other for the sake of Allah (s.w.t.). The Prophet (s.a.w.) articulates: "Those who love me will be (standing) upon pulpits made of light on the day of Resurrection". He (s.a.w.) also said: "There will be seven (categories of people) for whom Allah will Shed (Protect) under His Shade, when there will not be any shade except His", one of those categories is "Two men who loved each other for Allah's sake. They congregate for His Sake, and they separate for His Sake".
- It is the most powerful tie or relationship that links between people. Allah (s.w.t.) has given it the precedence and priority over all types of ties by Asserting: "Say: If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your kindred, the wealth that you have gained, the commerce in which you fear a decline, and the dwellings in which you delight ... are dearer to you than Allah and His Messenger, and striving hard and fighting in His Cause, then wait until Allah brings about His Decision (torment). And Allah guides not the people who are Fasiqun (the rebellious, disobedient to Allah)" (9:24).
- It is by the means of the creed of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' that Allah grants His Walayah (the protection, power, authority and kingdom). Ibn Jareer reports the saying of Ibn Abbas (r.a.a.): "He who loves for Allah's sake and hates for Allah's sake, he who gives Muwalat (support, help, etc.) for Allah's sake and exhibits enmity for Allah's sake, will attain Allah's Walayah".
- The relationship of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' will be theonone to remain on the Day of Reckoning as foretold by Allah the All-Knowing: "When those who were followed, disown (declare themselves innocent of) those who followed (them), and they see the torment, then all their relations will be cut off from them" (2:166).
- He who loves other than Allah and His Religion and hates Him (s.w.t.), His Religion or followers is a definite disbeliever, "And if any amongst you takes them (Jews and Christians) as Awliya', then surely he is one of them" (5:51).
- The Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' is an integral part of Iman and is necessary for its perfection. In a Hadith: "He who loves for Allah's pleasure, hates for Allah's pleasure, donates for Allah's sake and deprives for Allah's sake, then that person has perfected his Iman" [Sound Hadith related by Ahmad and Tirmithi]
118. O you who believe! Take not as (your) Bitanah (advisers, consultants, protectors, helpers, friends, etc.) those outside your religion (pagans, Jews, Christians, and hypocrites) since they will not fail to do their best to corrupt you. They desire to harm you severely. Hatred has already appeared from their mouths, but what their breasts conceal is far worse. Indeed We have made plain to you the Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses) if you understand.
119. Lo! you are the ones who love them but they love you not, and you believe in all the Scriptures [ie. you believe in the Taurat (Torah) and the Injeel (Gospel), while they disbelieve in your Book, the Qur'an]. And when they meet you, they say, "We believe". But when they are alone, they bite the tips of their fingers at you in rage. Say: "Perish in your rage. Certainly, Allah knows what is in the breasts (all the secrets )."
120. If a good befalls you, it grieves them, but if some evil overtakes you, they rejoice at it. But if you remain patient and become Al-Muttaqun (the pious and righteous persons), not the least harm will their cunning do to you. Surely, Allah surrounds all that they do.
The Occasion of Revelation Allah warned the Muslims to guard against the hypocritical attitude of the Jews who lived in the suburbs of Al-Madinah. The two clans, 'Aus and Khazraj, had been on friendly terms with them from very ancient times and kept sincere relations with them even after embracing Islam. In contrast to this, the Jews, who had turned into the enemies of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) and his Mission, could not be friendly with anyone who had joined the new Movement. Accordingly, they kept up an outward show of friendship with the Ansaar, but in their hearts they had become their bitter enemies. They, however, exploited this outward friendship and tried to sow seeds of dissension and create chaos in the Muslim community. They also tried to draw out secrets from the Muslims and pass them on to their enemies. That is why Allah has warned the Muslims that they should not take such people into their confidence.
The General Meaning of the Verses In the discourse preceding these verses, Allah (s.w.t.) clearly describes the miscreant behaviour and false arguments of the People of the Book and how they conceal hatred to Muslims and try their best to fight them. After this, comes the Eternal and Divine Warning; to take not those outside our religion into our confidence by revealing our secrets to them and regarding them as our Bitanah (advisers, consultants, protectors, helpers, friends, etc.) since they will never miss an opportunity to exploit any of our weakness and they ever desire our harm. We have seen and are seeing this malice so many times from their speech, but what they conceal in their hearts is far worse.
This Qur'anic insight into the nature of the dark souls and the hidden feelings of our enemies, casts a light for our consciousness pertaining to every time and place in order that we learn from these signs and become wise and cautious in our relations with them. Yet, the people of this living Qur'an are still in inadvertence and negligence, while their hostile enemy continues to deceit and conspire against them during the night anday. It is strange and ironic that we show love to people, who reject our Book and proclaim their grievance against us!
The Rights of Al-Wala' Any Muslim who claims to have Iman must fulfil its conditions and requirements in order to deserve that title.
Undoubtedly, fulfilling the rights of Al-Wala' (to love, support, help, follow, defend, etc. Islam and Muslims) and fulfilling the rights of Al-Bara' (to despise, desert, denounce, maintain innocence of and immunity from, etc. Kufr and Kuffar) is the true manifestation of the Muslim's adherence to this Deen. The rights of Al-Wala' towards Islam and Muslims can be concisely presented by the following:
- The migration from a non-Musilm land to a Muslim land to safeguard the Religion, with exception to those who are weak and oppressed, and those who cannot migrate due to geographical and contemporary political reasons. Also in strict exemption are those who migrate to a Disbelievers land to spread Islam, seek medical treatment, business or necessary knowledge provided that that Muslim is knowledgeable in Islam and is able to preserve his religion, openly practice Islamic rituals without compromise and maintain the rights of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara'.
- Supporting and helping any Muslim community, whether it is by our sayings, souls or wealth in all matters of Deen and Dunia. Allah (s.w.t.) Says: ".. but if they seek your help in religion, it is your duty to help them except against a people with whom you have a treaty of mutual alliance." [8:72]
- Sharing the times of joy and the times of agony with other fellow Muslims. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "The believers in their mutual love, are like the human body where when the eye is in agony, the entire body feels the pain; when the head aches, all the body will suffer." [Muslim] Showing concern in Muslims' issues and circulating their news in the media is included in this category.
- The Muslim must like for his brethren the acquiring of good and repelling of evil, in the same way that he loves these for himself. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "None amongst you (truly) believes till he loves for his brother that which he loves for himself." [Muslim]
- The abstinence from abusing, mocking or backbiting other Muslims. Allah (s.w.t.) has likened this to eating the flesh of the Muslim [49:11-12].
- To belong to the Muslim Jama'a (community) in unity and to avoid division as Allah Orders "And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allah (ie. this Qur'an), and be not divided among yourselves." [3:103] and by the Prophets (s.a.w) saying: "Whoever dissociates oneself from the Jama'a by the span of the hand will die a Jahili (the age of ignorance) death."
The Rights of Al-Bara' To become a Mu'min, it is not sufficient for the Muslim to merely fulfil the rights of Al-Wala' towards Islam and Muslims, he must also sincerely fulfil the rights of Al-Bara' towards Kufr and Kuffar. The most important of these rights include:
- Despising Kufr (disbelief), Shirk (polytheism), and their people; and to maintain your enmity towards them as stated in Allah's Words: "Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in Ibrahim (Abraham) and those with him, when they said to their people: 'Verily, we are free from you and whatever you worship besides Allah, we have rejected you, and there has started between us and you, hostility and hatred for ever, - until you believe in Allah Alone'." [60:4]
- Taking not the Kuffar as Awliya' (supporters, helpers, etc.), dealing with them in affection because Allah (s.w.t.) commands: "O you who believe! Take not my enemies and your enemies (ie. disbelievers and polytheists, etc.) as friends, showing affection towards them." [60:1]
- Migrating from their lands and not travelling to it except in necessity. Narrated Samurah bin Jundub (r.a.a.): Allah's Messenger (s.a.w.) said: "Anybody (from among the Muslims) who meets, gathers together, lives, and stays (permanently) with a Mushrik (polytheist or a disbeliever in the Oneness of Allah, etc.) and agrees to his ways, opinions, etc. and (enjoys) his living with him (Mushrik) then he (that Muslim) is like him (Mushrik). [Abu Dawud]
- Not to imitate the Kuffar in their religious rituals or their way of life as stated by the Prophet (s.a.w.): "Whoever imitates a (group of) people, then that person is one of them." The Prophet (s.a.w.) taught us that: "Jews and Christians do not dye their hair so you should do the opposite of what they do." [Bukhari]
- Avoiding their company and friendship as Stated by Allah: "And incline not toward those who do wrong, Lest the Fire should touch you , and you have no protectors other than Allah, nor you would then be helped." [11:113], especially with those who mock and ridicule Islam.
- In dealing with the Kuffar, no compromise in religion for the sake of courtesy and respect should be offered. Allah (s.w.t.) Said: "They wish that you should compromise (in religion out of courtesy) with them, so they (too) would compromise with you." [68:9] Furthermore, the Monotheist must not ask Allah forgiveness and mercy for the Kafir as Commanded by Allah: "It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allah's Forgiveness for the Mushrikun even though they may be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the dwellers of the Fire (because they died in a state of disbelief)." [9:113]
It should be remembered, that our enmity for the Kuffar as regulated by Al-Bara' does not mean that the Muslim can be unjust and offend those Kuffar who are not transgressors. Allah (s.w.t) Commands justice and beneficence, "Allah does not forbid you to deal justly and kindly with those who fought not against you on account of religion and did not drive you out of your homes. Verily Allah loves those who deal with equity." [60:8] Notice that Allah Said 'to deal justly and kindly' with them and did not Say, 'to show them love and take them as Awliya'.
Finally, we should be amongst those who Allah Praises: "You will not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day, making friendship with those who oppose Allah and His Messenger, even though they were their fathers, or their sons, or their brothers or their kindred (people). For such he has written Faith in their hearts, and strengthened them with Ruh (proofs, light and true guidance) from Himself. And We will admit them to Gardens (Paradise) under which rivers flow, to dwell therein (forever). Allah is pleased with them, and they with Him. They are the Party of Allah. Verily, it is the Party of Allah that will be the successful." [58:22].
By Khalid Al-Gharib
[B]and where would you like to migrate to?
Yemen Insha-ALLAH.
Insha-ALLAH if you wish to learn more about this topic ( al wala wa bara) I recommend you read al wala wal-bara-according to the aqeedah of the salaf vol 1-3. Written by: Muhammed Saeed Al-Qahtani.
Insha-ALLAH this information will be useful for both you and your
family.
Your sister in Islam
Nasibah.
aurorascopic
14-04-07, 12:38 PM
MY NAME IS FORIDA!!!!y wud i b named after a state??!!!lol
oh right ok. Sometimes people have their username of the country/state theyre from like xxxUK or whatever so it is a possibility you could have been from Florida. Anyway im sorry for my mistake
Ive heard of the name fArida but not fOrida. Maybe its a tweaked version of Farida or something lol
Abu Baraa
14-04-07, 09:38 PM
1. Someone who loves the quran and sunnah more then anyone and anything. But also implements it in every aspect of his life.
2. He must be able to understand and implement al-wala wal-bara.
3. Is kind yet stern.
4. hungers for Jihad ul saif, and is working towards fulfilling this role Emotionally/physically/socially and financially.
5. Mature/sincere/educated/ from good family/ and is able to look after his household.
6. Wishes to make hijra asap.
ALL IN ALL, QURAN AND SUNNAH.
Not much is it??? :)
Well said uktii. Make dua,have sabr and Allaah willing you will get such a husband. May Allaah grant u and all the ummah un married sisters such husbands.Allahumma amin. Remember to stay true to Allaah.,muslims and YOU.And Prince charming will come along your way bi'ithnilaah.
umm_yusuf
14-04-07, 10:18 PM
[QUOTE=Sis Sabiha;1793639]
with the above quote:
can you please explain what is al-wala wal-bara.
The Definition of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' in the Islamic Belief The legal meaning of Al-Wala' (love, support, help, follow, etc.) is to totally agree with the sayings, deeds and beliefs which please Allah and the persons whom He likes. Al-Bara' (despise, desert, keep innocent of, etc.) is the complete opposite of Al-Wala' and it is to disagree with everything that Allah hates and condemns.
Hence, there are four issues related to the belief in Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara', those being: the sayings, the deeds, the beliefs and the individual persons. Some of the things that pleases Allah (s.w.t.) are the saying of Dhikr, the deed of Jihad, the belief in His Oneness and the love of the believing person. Backbiting, fornication, Shirk and disbelief are some of the things that are hated by Allah (s.w.t.) and must also be hated by the Believer.
The Rank of the Belief in Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' The belief in Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' occupies a meritorious rank in the Islamic Aqeedah. This can be understood from the following reasons:
- Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' is part of the Shahadah (testimony of faith) that being 'La ilaha' which is the portion from 'La ilaha illallah'. This means to be free and immune from all that is worshiped besides Allah (s.w.t.) as He the Almighty states: "And verily, We have sent among every Ummah (community, nation) a Messenger (proclaiming): 'Worship Allah (alone), and avoid (or keep away from) Taghut (all false deities, ie. do not worship Taghut besides Allah)" (16:36).
- The eminent creed of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' is the strongest bond of Iman. Al-Barra' bin A'aazeb (r.a.a.) narrates that the Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "The strongest bond of Iman is the love for Allah's sake and the hatred for Allah's sake" (Reported by Imam Ahmad).
- It is one of the basis by which the heart can experience the beauty of Iman and absolute assurance. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "Whoever possesses the following three (qualities) will have the sweetness (delight) of faith: The one to whom Allah and His Messenger become dearer than anything else, who loves a person and he loves him only for Allah's sake, and who hates to revert to atheism (disbelief) as he hates to be thrown into the fire".
- It is the foundation by which all relationships and dealings in a Muslim community is built upon as described by the Prophet (s.a.w.): "None of you will have faith till he likes for his (Muslim) brother what he likes for himself" (Bukhari), and by Wisdom of the Almighty: "The believers are nothing else than brothers (in Islamic religion)" (49:10).
- The great and abundant reward is due to those who are characterised by the love of each other for the sake of Allah (s.w.t.). The Prophet (s.a.w.) articulates: "Those who love me will be (standing) upon pulpits made of light on the day of Resurrection". He (s.a.w.) also said: "There will be seven (categories of people) for whom Allah will Shed (Protect) under His Shade, when there will not be any shade except His", one of those categories is "Two men who loved each other for Allah's sake. They congregate for His Sake, and they separate for His Sake".
- It is the most powerful tie or relationship that links between people. Allah (s.w.t.) has given it the precedence and priority over all types of ties by Asserting: "Say: If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your kindred, the wealth that you have gained, the commerce in which you fear a decline, and the dwellings in which you delight ... are dearer to you than Allah and His Messenger, and striving hard and fighting in His Cause, then wait until Allah brings about His Decision (torment). And Allah guides not the people who are Fasiqun (the rebellious, disobedient to Allah)" (9:24).
- It is by the means of the creed of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' that Allah grants His Walayah (the protection, power, authority and kingdom). Ibn Jareer reports the saying of Ibn Abbas (r.a.a.): "He who loves for Allah's sake and hates for Allah's sake, he who gives Muwalat (support, help, etc.) for Allah's sake and exhibits enmity for Allah's sake, will attain Allah's Walayah".
- The relationship of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' will be theonone to remain on the Day of Reckoning as foretold by Allah the All-Knowing: "When those who were followed, disown (declare themselves innocent of) those who followed (them), and they see the torment, then all their relations will be cut off from them" (2:166).
- He who loves other than Allah and His Religion and hates Him (s.w.t.), His Religion or followers is a definite disbeliever, "And if any amongst you takes them (Jews and Christians) as Awliya', then surely he is one of them" (5:51).
- The Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara' is an integral part of Iman and is necessary for its perfection. In a Hadith: "He who loves for Allah's pleasure, hates for Allah's pleasure, donates for Allah's sake and deprives for Allah's sake, then that person has perfected his Iman" [Sound Hadith related by Ahmad and Tirmithi]
118. O you who believe! Take not as (your) Bitanah (advisers, consultants, protectors, helpers, friends, etc.) those outside your religion (pagans, Jews, Christians, and hypocrites) since they will not fail to do their best to corrupt you. They desire to harm you severely. Hatred has already appeared from their mouths, but what their breasts conceal is far worse. Indeed We have made plain to you the Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses) if you understand.
119. Lo! you are the ones who love them but they love you not, and you believe in all the Scriptures [ie. you believe in the Taurat (Torah) and the Injeel (Gospel), while they disbelieve in your Book, the Qur'an]. And when they meet you, they say, "We believe". But when they are alone, they bite the tips of their fingers at you in rage. Say: "Perish in your rage. Certainly, Allah knows what is in the breasts (all the secrets )."
120. If a good befalls you, it grieves them, but if some evil overtakes you, they rejoice at it. But if you remain patient and become Al-Muttaqun (the pious and righteous persons), not the least harm will their cunning do to you. Surely, Allah surrounds all that they do.
The Occasion of Revelation Allah warned the Muslims to guard against the hypocritical attitude of the Jews who lived in the suburbs of Al-Madinah. The two clans, 'Aus and Khazraj, had been on friendly terms with them from very ancient times and kept sincere relations with them even after embracing Islam. In contrast to this, the Jews, who had turned into the enemies of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) and his Mission, could not be friendly with anyone who had joined the new Movement. Accordingly, they kept up an outward show of friendship with the Ansaar, but in their hearts they had become their bitter enemies. They, however, exploited this outward friendship and tried to sow seeds of dissension and create chaos in the Muslim community. They also tried to draw out secrets from the Muslims and pass them on to their enemies. That is why Allah has warned the Muslims that they should not take such people into their confidence.
The General Meaning of the Verses In the discourse preceding these verses, Allah (s.w.t.) clearly describes the miscreant behaviour and false arguments of the People of the Book and how they conceal hatred to Muslims and try their best to fight them. After this, comes the Eternal and Divine Warning; to take not those outside our religion into our confidence by revealing our secrets to them and regarding them as our Bitanah (advisers, consultants, protectors, helpers, friends, etc.) since they will never miss an opportunity to exploit any of our weakness and they ever desire our harm. We have seen and are seeing this malice so many times from their speech, but what they conceal in their hearts is far worse.
This Qur'anic insight into the nature of the dark souls and the hidden feelings of our enemies, casts a light for our consciousness pertaining to every time and place in order that we learn from these signs and become wise and cautious in our relations with them. Yet, the people of this living Qur'an are still in inadvertence and negligence, while their hostile enemy continues to deceit and conspire against them during the night anday. It is strange and ironic that we show love to people, who reject our Book and proclaim their grievance against us!
The Rights of Al-Wala' Any Muslim who claims to have Iman must fulfil its conditions and requirements in order to deserve that title.
Undoubtedly, fulfilling the rights of Al-Wala' (to love, support, help, follow, defend, etc. Islam and Muslims) and fulfilling the rights of Al-Bara' (to despise, desert, denounce, maintain innocence of and immunity from, etc. Kufr and Kuffar) is the true manifestation of the Muslim's adherence to this Deen. The rights of Al-Wala' towards Islam and Muslims can be concisely presented by the following:
- The migration from a non-Musilm land to a Muslim land to safeguard the Religion, with exception to those who are weak and oppressed, and those who cannot migrate due to geographical and contemporary political reasons. Also in strict exemption are those who migrate to a Disbelievers land to spread Islam, seek medical treatment, business or necessary knowledge provided that that Muslim is knowledgeable in Islam and is able to preserve his religion, openly practice Islamic rituals without compromise and maintain the rights of Al-Wala'u wa Al-Bara'.
- Supporting and helping any Muslim community, whether it is by our sayings, souls or wealth in all matters of Deen and Dunia. Allah (s.w.t.) Says: ".. but if they seek your help in religion, it is your duty to help them except against a people with whom you have a treaty of mutual alliance." [8:72]
- Sharing the times of joy and the times of agony with other fellow Muslims. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "The believers in their mutual love, are like the human body where when the eye is in agony, the entire body feels the pain; when the head aches, all the body will suffer." [Muslim] Showing concern in Muslims' issues and circulating their news in the media is included in this category.
- The Muslim must like for his brethren the acquiring of good and repelling of evil, in the same way that he loves these for himself. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: "None amongst you (truly) believes till he loves for his brother that which he loves for himself." [Muslim]
- The abstinence from abusing, mocking or backbiting other Muslims. Allah (s.w.t.) has likened this to eating the flesh of the Muslim [49:11-12].
- To belong to the Muslim Jama'a (community) in unity and to avoid division as Allah Orders "And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allah (ie. this Qur'an), and be not divided among yourselves." [3:103] and by the Prophets (s.a.w) saying: "Whoever dissociates oneself from the Jama'a by the span of the hand will die a Jahili (the age of ignorance) death."
The Rights of Al-Bara' To become a Mu'min, it is not sufficient for the Muslim to merely fulfil the rights of Al-Wala' towards Islam and Muslims, he must also sincerely fulfil the rights of Al-Bara' towards Kufr and Kuffar. The most important of these rights include:
- Despising Kufr (disbelief), Shirk (polytheism), and their people; and to maintain your enmity towards them as stated in Allah's Words: "Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in Ibrahim (Abraham) and those with him, when they said to their people: 'Verily, we are free from you and whatever you worship besides Allah, we have rejected you, and there has started between us and you, hostility and hatred for ever, - until you believe in Allah Alone'." [60:4]
- Taking not the Kuffar as Awliya' (supporters, helpers, etc.), dealing with them in affection because Allah (s.w.t.) commands: "O you who believe! Take not my enemies and your enemies (ie. disbelievers and polytheists, etc.) as friends, showing affection towards them." [60:1]
- Migrating from their lands and not travelling to it except in necessity. Narrated Samurah bin Jundub (r.a.a.): Allah's Messenger (s.a.w.) said: "Anybody (from among the Muslims) who meets, gathers together, lives, and stays (permanently) with a Mushrik (polytheist or a disbeliever in the Oneness of Allah, etc.) and agrees to his ways, opinions, etc. and (enjoys) his living with him (Mushrik) then he (that Muslim) is like him (Mushrik). [Abu Dawud]
- Not to imitate the Kuffar in their religious rituals or their way of life as stated by the Prophet (s.a.w.): "Whoever imitates a (group of) people, then that person is one of them." The Prophet (s.a.w.) taught us that: "Jews and Christians do not dye their hair so you should do the opposite of what they do." [Bukhari]
- Avoiding their company and friendship as Stated by Allah: "And incline not toward those who do wrong, Lest the Fire should touch you , and you have no protectors other than Allah, nor you would then be helped." [11:113], especially with those who mock and ridicule Islam.
- In dealing with the Kuffar, no compromise in religion for the sake of courtesy and respect should be offered. Allah (s.w.t.) Said: "They wish that you should compromise (in religion out of courtesy) with them, so they (too) would compromise with you." [68:9] Furthermore, the Monotheist must not ask Allah forgiveness and mercy for the Kafir as Commanded by Allah: "It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allah's Forgiveness for the Mushrikun even though they may be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the dwellers of the Fire (because they died in a state of disbelief)." [9:113]
It should be remembered, that our enmity for the Kuffar as regulated by Al-Bara' does not mean that the Muslim can be unjust and offend those Kuffar who are not transgressors. Allah (s.w.t) Commands justice and beneficence, "Allah does not forbid you to deal justly and kindly with those who fought not against you on account of religion and did not drive you out of your homes. Verily Allah loves those who deal with equity." [60:8] Notice that Allah Said 'to deal justly and kindly' with them and did not Say, 'to show them love and take them as Awliya'.
Finally, we should be amongst those who Allah Praises: "You will not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day, making friendship with those who oppose Allah and His Messenger, even though they were their fathers, or their sons, or their brothers or their kindred (people). For such he has written Faith in their hearts, and strengthened them with Ruh (proofs, light and true guidance) from Himself. And We will admit them to Gardens (Paradise) under which rivers flow, to dwell therein (forever). Allah is pleased with them, and they with Him. They are the Party of Allah. Verily, it is the Party of Allah that will be the successful." [58:22].
By Khalid Al-Gharib
[B]and where would you like to migrate to?
Yemen Insha-ALLAH.
Insha-ALLAH if you wish to learn more about this topic ( al wala wa bara) I recommend you read al wala wal-bara-according to the aqeedah of the salaf vol 1-3. Written by: Muhammed Saeed Al-Qahtani.
Insha-ALLAH this information will be useful for both you and your
family.
Your sister in Islam
Nasibah.
Boi nas nas (:p) the sister asked for a DEFINITION not an ESSAY!!!
ps - Ok people please don't comment on this post cos my sister here knows I love her for the sake of Allah.
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 04:01 AM
1. HANDSOME!!!! Thats the # 1 :p
2. sweet
3. 50 50 share for the cooking and cleaning! :D
3. FUN
4. of course knows the religion!
Perfect guy :inlove:
(o wait there no such thing) :D
o0o0o well :torture: :rolleyes:
Lambo5688
15-04-07, 04:38 AM
1. HANDSOME!!!! Thats the # 1 :p
2. sweet
3. 50 50 share for the cooking and cleaning! :D
3. FUN
4. of course knows the religion!
Perfect guy :inlove:
(o wait there no such thing) :D
o0o0o well :torture: :rolleyes:
shouldn't number 4 be number 1? :coolbro:
Songbird
15-04-07, 04:59 AM
Low standards :D
:there:
Songbird
15-04-07, 05:03 AM
What is everyone's criteria when they are looking for a partner? It can be Islamic, education, personality etc.
1. Humility.
2. Iman.
3. Compassion.
4. Love of felines :inlove:
5. Sharp wit.
6. Nice arms.
7. Nice smile.
8. Nice feet.
9. Nice...erm... :ban:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 05:49 AM
1. HANDSOME!!!! Thats the # 1 :p
2. sweet
3. 50 50 share for the cooking and cleaning! :D
3. FUN
4. of course knows the religion!
Perfect guy :inlove:
(o wait there no such thing) :D
o0o0o well :torture: :rolleyes:
Dream on cause i'm already taken :cool:
Peacenik
15-04-07, 02:48 PM
:rofl1:
:D
Ibn Khattab
15-04-07, 02:56 PM
when i marry i look for deen,
check their salah, check if theyr keen.
beauty also plays a part,
but the real beauty is in the heart.
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 05:08 PM
shouldn't number 4 be number 1? :coolbro:
LOL its part of the criteria! Without 1 there is none!
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 05:09 PM
Dream on cause i'm already taken :cool:
*cough *cough :rolleyes:
yeah good arms is really really important :embar:
http://bestsmileys.com/exercising/6.gif
Al-Irhaab
15-04-07, 05:13 PM
yeah good arms is really really important :embar:
http://bestsmileys.com/exercising/6.gif
thats a chest workout not arms :rolleyes:
thats a chest workout not arms :rolleyes:
and how the cotton pickin hell would you know :confused:
peace2u
15-04-07, 05:40 PM
Dream on cause i'm already taken :cool:
I don't think big-headed was on her list:rubeyes:
:D :outta:
Peace
Dream on cause i'm already taken :cool:
salaam
most girls arrogance no like :torture:
rather hav a short guy than arrogant :torture: ...
......
......... actually, no i wouldnt. height too important for me :hidban:
Abu Mus'ab
15-04-07, 06:13 PM
and how the cotton pickin hell would you know :confused:
erm maybe he's done it before and therefore knows which part it's for.
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 06:47 PM
*cough *cough :rolleyes:
lol thats exactly what i thought, coughing isn't going to get you anywhere :1popcorn:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 06:50 PM
salaam
most girls arrogance no like :torture:
rather hav a short guy than arrogant :torture: ...
......
......... actually, no i wouldnt. height too important for me :hidban:
lol quit talking like a fob and yes height is very important to me as well.
miss-islamic
15-04-07, 07:36 PM
You should marry when you are physically, financially, mentally and religiously ready to somebody who you are attracted to religiously, mentally, financially and physically.
And dua, istikhira, tawfeek, rizk e.t.c are not enough. Tie thy camel.
Tranquillity
15-04-07, 07:42 PM
You should marry when you are physically, financially, mentally and religiously ready to somebody who you are attracted to religiously, mentally, financially and physically.
And dua, istikhira, tawfeek, rizk e.t.c are not enough. Tie thy camel.
Well said!!
lol quit talking like a fob and yes height is very important to me as well.
salaam
i love being a fob :hidban: its so much fun :D
on a serious note, arrogance is not good :)
but ya wat else do i look for.... someone who understands the importance of fancy weddings for sure :up:
erm maybe he's done it before and therefore knows which part it's for.
:rubeyes:
your a funna guy :rotfl:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 08:25 PM
salaam
i love being a fob :hidban: its so much fun :D
on a serious note, arrogance is not good :)
but ya wat else do i look for.... someone who understands the importance of fancy weddings for sure :up:
yeah it is actually fun sometimes lol
I'm not arrogant pearl is, she put religion last and being handsome #1.
Hmmmm fancy weddings i've been to way to many, i told my mom i want to get married on a cruise ship she said we'll think about it, my dads fine with it as well.
yeah it is actually fun sometimes lol
I'm not arrogant pearl is, she put religion last and being handsome #1.
Hmmmm fancy weddings i've been to way to many, i told my mom i want to get married on a cruise ship she said we'll think about it, my dads fine with it as well.
salaam
a cruise? the thought never even occured to me. i am actually dying for a horse drawn carriage :hidban: i wanna be a princess :inlove:
i also wanted a palkhi. but i want the horses more!!! other than im not being too demanding about the little details cuz i know my dad will never allow any kind of music :torture:
but im very picky about the material of bridal clothes and type of jewellry.. im even more pickier about the mehendi sari :torture:
i better get a lot of jewellry :torture:
hey my old attitude is back :D
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 08:37 PM
yeah it is actually fun sometimes lol
I'm not arrogant pearl is, she put religion last and being handsome #1.
Hmmmm fancy weddings i've been to way to many, i told my mom i want to get married on a cruise ship she said we'll think about it, my dads fine with it as well.
I am arrogant!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock: Most of us here can agree that UR the arrogant one. :up:
Ps: If one of the criteria is not there there is NONE. I said that b4 just to show how arrogant u really are . :torture:
salaam
all right kids, u both get a time out. and its also nap time.
now bak to my wedding planning.... should hair be up or down? :inlove:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 08:40 PM
I am arrogant!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock: Most of us here can agree that UR the arrogant one. :up:
Ps: If one of the criteria is not there there is NONE. I said that b4 just to show how arrogant u really are . :torture:
I hope your kiddin pearl because i'm not the one who puts my religion last :rolleyes:
Nobody thinks i'm arrogant here except you maybe but anyways don't take it to seriously :D
heaven2002
15-04-07, 08:40 PM
so gucci if a guy wasnt tall but he was good in every other way wud u turn him down for that sole reason?
so gucci if a guy wasnt tall but he was good in every other way wud u turn him down for that sole reason?
salaam
thats a tough one cuz height is just SOO important for me.
i think i wouldnt reject him right away. i'd put him on hold :(
does that make me a bad person?
i hate being tall :(
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 08:46 PM
salaam
a cruise? the thought never even occured to me. i am actually dying for a horse drawn carriage :hidban: i wanna be a princess :inlove:
i also wanted a palkhi. but i want the horses more!!! other than im not being too demanding about the little details cuz i know my dad will never allow any kind of music :torture:
but im very picky about the material of bridal clothes and type of jewellry.. im even more pickier about the mehendi sari :torture:
i better get a lot of jewellry :torture:
hey my old attitude is back :D
Yeah cruise ship marriages are the best, i've been to one last summer it was so cool :inlove:. horse drawn carriage hmmmm are you getting married back home???? Of course i know all the sisters want to look good on their wedding day but who wouldn't want to???
p.s. Your old attitude was never gone, you always had it :D
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 08:47 PM
salaam
thats a tough one cuz height is just SOO important for me.
i think i wouldnt reject him right away. i'd put him on hold :(
does that make me a bad person?
i hate being tall :(
how tall are you like in between 5'7 and 5'10????
p.s. heaven is always asking you these tricky questions, don't fall for them lol
Yeah cruise ship marriages are the best, i've been to one last summer it was so cool :inlove:. horse drawn carriage hmmmm are you getting married back home???? Of course i know all the sisters want to look good on their wedding day but who wouldn't want to???
p.s. Your old attitude was never gone, you always had it :D
salaam
ya it is bak home thats why a cruise is not even an option :o
im a classical girl thats y i want horse draawn carriage. its romantic :inlove:
and im pretty sure i lost it somewhere along the after my panic attack abt getting marrid nxt summer
Abu Mus'ab
15-04-07, 08:48 PM
:rubeyes:
your a funna guy :rotfl:
Me? funnay? never *Roll Eyes*
how tall are you like in between 5'7 and 5'10????
p.s. heaven is always asking you these tricky questions, don't fall for them lol
salaam
ya btwn there. bangali guys dont come in very tall most of the time :torture: and bangali girls typically around 5'5" :rolleyes:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 08:54 PM
salaam
ya btwn there. bangali guys dont come in very tall most of the time :torture: and bangali girls typically around 5'5" :rolleyes:
Nice i don't like short girls maybe because i'm tall and big. My fiance is 5'8-5"9 perfecttttt height in my case :hidban:
heaven2002
15-04-07, 08:57 PM
well gucci, height isnt really an indicator as to how good a husband a guy is going to be for you
i can understand if a guy is really short and that means u find him unattractive, but if hes only a bit shorter or the same height but hes good in every other way then dont turn him down, u may not find a nicer person, or may find someone taller who isnt as nice
heaven2002
15-04-07, 09:00 PM
and another tip
dont marry someone who places alot of emphasis on physical things like height, beauty etc
they may not apprecaite ur charcter enough or beauty in others might attract them to look
always safer to marry someone who is uglier than you are :up:
(not that u r ugly!)
always safer to marry someone who is uglier than you are :up:
That is gold material right there ahahahaha
salaam
lol thanx heaven i will definitely keep that in mind and yes i agree with u. :hidban: why reject someone just because hes half an inch shorter or the same height as u? if hes a realllyyy good person inside and out i dont think i would. i dont hav it in me to be THAT superficial. but height really is a preference and my hubbytobe isnt even 6'1" so hes not THAT much taller than me but decent.
HUGO: showofff :rolleyes: there u go bragging about urself again :torture:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:04 PM
and another tip
dont marry someone who places alot of emphasis on physical things like height, beauty etc
they may not apprecaite ur charcter enough or beauty in others might attract them to look
always safer to marry someone who is uglier than you are :up:
(not that u r ugly!)
:rotfl: :rotfl:
salaam
why is everyone laughing?
is it cuz heaven thinks im ugly??? :crying: :(
heaven2002
15-04-07, 09:06 PM
the thing ive noticed is that guys and girls who place too much emphasis on looks can be shallow
in the long run that might not equal a long, happy content marriage as they might wake up one day , look at you, and think 'actually she/he isnt that good looking any more' or 'so and so is much more beautiful/handsome'
whereas if u marry someone who is uglier than u then u never have to worry about that
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:07 PM
:rotfl:
you made it your signature hahahahha :rofl1: :rofl1:
i got to tell everyone i know heavens marriage tip, my stomach is killing me :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
heaven2002
15-04-07, 09:08 PM
hold it right there
i never said anyone here was ugly!
just warning folks on putting too much emphasis on beauty, height etc
hold it right there
i never said anyone here was ugly!
just warning folks on putting too much emphasis on beauty, height etc
It's advice im gonna give to everyone i know :D
"A wise woman once said "marry someone who is uglier than you"
That is comic genius lol
heaven2002
15-04-07, 09:09 PM
you made it your signature hahahahha :rofl1: :rofl1:
i got to tell everyone i know heavens marriage tip, my stomach is killing me :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
u have to ask permission to quote me and i want royalties and the like;)
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:09 PM
whereas if u marry someone who is uglier than u then u never have to worry
there she goes again :rotfl: :rotfl:
you made it your signature hahahahha :rofl1: :rofl1:
i got to tell everyone i know heavens marriage tip, my stomach is killing me :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
salaam
so r u gona take her marriage advice? :rolleyes:
salaam
so r u gona take her marriage advice? :rolleyes:
His future wife might :D
salaam
just a thoguht, couldnt the good looking er person in the relationship then feel bad and think that he/she deserves better cuz he/she is better looking and wouldnt that cause their eyes to wander?
guess its not such a fool-proof plan after all :hidban:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:12 PM
you guys want to see a picture of me and my fiance??? She's not wearing a hijab though, so am i allowed to post it????
His future wife might :D
salaam
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:12 PM
I hope your kiddin pearl because i'm not the one who puts my religion last :rolleyes:
Nobody thinks i'm arrogant here except you maybe but anyways don't take it to seriously :D
o0o0o u better be kidding :torture:
you guys want to see a picture of me and my fiance??? She's not wearing a hijab though, so am i allowed to post it????
salaam
is she a hijaabi? if yes, then my question to u is, ARE U CRAZY? :torture:
you guys want to see a picture of me and my fiance??? She's not wearing a hijab though, so am i allowed to post it????
I already saw you on Animal wildlife :D But i dont think you can post her pic, she probably wouldnt us to see her like that anyway. Also against forum rules..but post yours if u want
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:15 PM
His future wife might :D
That was cold but it's not true so have a laugh :D
I already saw you on Animal wildlife :D
salaam
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: x infinity.
ur on a role :hidban:
heaven2002
15-04-07, 09:15 PM
:rotfl:
His future wife might :D
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:15 PM
I already saw you on Animal wildlife :D But i dont think you can post her pic, she probably wouldnt us to see her like that anyway. Also against forum rules..but post yours if u want
:rofl1: thats so mean
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:16 PM
salaam
is she a hijaabi? if yes, then my question to u is, ARE U CRAZY? :torture:
No she isn't but inshallah she told me she will start in the near future :hidban:
salaam
ouch its 4 against 1, hugo plz dont cry :inlove:
heaven2002
15-04-07, 09:18 PM
salaam
just a thoguht, couldnt the good looking er person in the relationship then feel bad and think that he/she deserves better cuz he/she is better looking and wouldnt that cause their eyes to wander?
guess its not such a fool-proof plan after all :hidban:
well the good looking person does not place emphasis on looks and has therefore married uglier person with charming and loving nature and therefore their eyes shall not wander
their eyes will be glued in one direction
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:18 PM
No she isn't but inshallah she told me she will start in the near future :hidban:
Where is the religion number 1 PART??
I think u should follow more of ur own advice :rolleyes: !
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:19 PM
I already saw you on Animal wildlife :D But i dont think you can post her pic, she probably wouldnt us to see her like that anyway. Also against forum rules..but post yours if u want
Yeah i was the guy locking you in a cage :D
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:20 PM
Yeah i was the guy locking you in a cage :D
delayed dis :up:
well the good looking person does not place emphasis on looks and has therefore married uglier person with charming and loving nature and therefore their eyes shall not wander
their eyes will be glued in one direction
salaam
yes but views change. on a forum one time i think it was Trust Islam a brother posted in the councelling section saying that hes religious and he married a woman who was also very religious but she was not attractive but he married her because of her Imaan and looks didnt matter. but after several years his eyes started to wander he said and he wants to be with someone more appealing to the eyes becuz he labeled himself as not bad looking.
things change sis.
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:22 PM
Where is the religion number 1 PART??
I think u should follow more of ur own advice :rolleyes: !
Relax pearl i've already talked to her about it, i can't force her to wear it until we get married. She has to realize it on her own and she has. I put my religion first and you don't so buzz off :dogrun:
heaven2002
15-04-07, 09:23 PM
salaam
yes but views change. on a forum one time i think it was Trust Islam a brother posted in the councelling section saying that hes religious and he married a woman who was also very religious but she was not attractive but he married her because of her Imaan and looks didnt matter. but after several years his eyes started to wander he said and he wants to be with someone more appealing to the eyes becuz he labeled himself as not bad looking.
things change sis.
but if he labels himself as not bad looking then he must have had a high opinion of himself to think like that
best to marry uglier person with low self esteem
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:24 PM
delayed dis :up:
Do something productive and go look for your handsome husband, why bother coming on this site when you envy looks more than islam :rolleyes:
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:26 PM
Relax pearl i've already talked to her about it, i can't force her to wear it until we get married. She has to realize it on her own and she has. I put my religion first and you don't so buzz off :dogrun:
Well how do u know i dont put my religion to practice? You act as if you have known me for like the longest time.
Ps: i am not the one who went for beauty without thinking of religion! Its a criteria for the man to be religious. Without religion or any of ones i mentioned above its NONE!! do i have to explain that to u again!
my hubbbys gotta be good looking and tall.
ahehheemm
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:27 PM
Do something productive and go look for your handsome husband, why bother coming on this site when you envy looks more than islam :rolleyes:
cuz its not ur fathers site!
Yeah i was the guy locking you in a cage :D
Yea disease infected baboons often have dreams of their masters, but they dream that events happened the other way around than it actually did..hence your description.
Don't worry pet, i'll up your dosage of "the good stuff" tomorrow when I flood your cage to wake you.
salaam
brothers and sisters in Islam. let us unite and be freinds and stop arguing and insulting each other inshallah :)
gucci = peacemaker :hidban:
i promote love and peace and equality.
*group hug sisters*
salaam
brothers and sisters in Islam. let us unite and be freinds and stop arguing and insulting each other inshallah :)
gucci = peacemaker :hidban:
i promote love and peace and equality.
*group hug sisters*
*everyone throws banana's at her*
*Hugo goes for the banana's*
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:33 PM
Well how do u know i dont put my religion to practice? You act as if you have known me for like the longest time.
Ps: i am not the one who went for beauty without thinking of religion! Its a criteria for the man to be religious. Without religion or any of ones i mentioned above its NONE!! do i have to explain that to u again!
whatever!!
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:34 PM
cuz its not ur fathers site!
how do you know???
*everyone throws banana's at her*
*Hugo goes for the banana's*
salaam
:( always attack the peacemaker. im trying to make sure we all get along as brothers and sisters in islam because thats wat matters most.
ur all thickheaded weirdos :torture:
ur all thickheaded weirdos :torture:
I thought you typed "warriors" and had a smile on my face..but then i realised what it actually said...
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:35 PM
salaam
brothers and sisters in Islam. let us unite and be freinds and stop arguing and insulting each other inshallah :)
gucci = peacemaker :hidban:
i promote love and peace and equality.
*group hug sisters*
awwwwwwwwww :there:
awwwwwwwwww :there:
salaam
the brothers will never understand :rolleyes:
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:36 PM
I thought you typed "warriors" and had a smile on my face..but then i realised what it actually said...
I would rep u just cuz u made me laugh so many times but i cant!!
but if he labels himself as not bad looking then he must have had a high opinion of himself to think like that
best to marry uglier person with low self esteem
salaam
could be true.... may allah grant us with pious loving spouses inshallah
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:37 PM
salaam
the brothers will never understand :rolleyes:
Or never did ;)
Muhammad2
15-04-07, 09:38 PM
I thought you typed "warriors" and had a smile on my face..but then i realised what it actually said...
I'm not sure "thick headed warriors" is really that much more of a compliment :p
Or never did ;)
salaam
lol. i just want everyone to live in harmony :up:
no, not the Harmony from PAssions :inlove: :hidban:
I'm not sure "thick headed warriors" is really that much more of a compliment :p
salaam
lol... :D
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:42 PM
Pearl you said you wanted to marry someone funny right well bro Kal has made you laugh so many times so i see a connection. Too bad he isn't handsome though :D
Pearl you said you wanted to marry someone funny right well bro Kal has made you laugh so many times so i see a connection. Too bad he isn't handsome though :D
salaam
so wat if he makes her laugh.... he made me laugh too and some of ur posts make me laugh tooooo and so does Pearl's and other people in the forum. i make myself laugh :rolleyes:
does that mean we should all marry each other :rolleyes: dont be silly :torture:
Pearl you said you wanted to marry someone funny right well bro Kal has made you laugh so many times so i see a connection. Too bad he isn't handsome though :D
not cool :nono:
not cool :nono:
salaam
exactly.
let us all forgive each other and make up :hidban:
Pearl you said you wanted to marry someone funny right well bro Kal has made you laugh so many times so i see a connection. Too bad he isn't handsome though :D
Looking at yourself in the mirror doesn't count bro. And you aint see me pssh
not cool :nono:
PMS i need to PM you you old crow but its dissabled
*bangs on her door* let me in :(
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 09:56 PM
Looking at yourself in the mirror doesn't count bro. And you aint see me pssh
I've seen your pic in the brothers section, you look like your 14 years old man, grow some facial hair girly boy :rotfl:
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 09:56 PM
Pearl you said you wanted to marry someone funny right well bro Kal has made you laugh so many times so i see a connection. Too bad he isn't handsome though :D
You are a complete AIRHEAD
:torture:
Ps: Dont talk this way. Are you forgetting we are MUSLIMS.
I've seen your pic in the brothers section, you look like your 14 years old man, grow some facial hair girly boy :rotfl:
14 year old man with facial hair, girly boy?
Sounds like your describing three different people :D
PMS i need to PM you you old crow but its dissabled
*bangs on her door* let me in :(
oh no not another proposal :smack:
this is why i turned it off in the first place :nuts:
okay ima turn it on for limited time only
oh no not another proposal :smack:
this is why i turned it off in the first place :nuts:
okay ima turn it on for limited time only
yeah you bleedin wish PMS :smack:
fine your loss, you'll never ever know what goss i had to tell you @)
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 10:12 PM
You are a complete AIRHEAD
:torture:
Ps: Dont talk this way. Are you forgetting we are MUSLIMS.
I'll take that as a compliment and no i think your forgetting your a muslim because your showing favouritism. Whenever bro kal says something (me and kal are cool he knows that) you laugh and laugh even though it sounds bad to me but when i say something i'm the devil and i forgot i'm muslim right :rolleyes:
p.s. grow up pearl seriously
I'll take that as a compliment and no i think your forgetting your a muslim because your showing favouritism. Whenever bro kal says something (me and kal are cool he knows that) you laugh and laugh even though it sounds bad to me but when i say something i'm the devil and i forgot i'm muslim right :rolleyes:
p.s. grow up pearl seriously
It's cos she doesn't like you. And it's cos your jokes aren't funny. And you dont find them funny cos they're all about you
Your lucky, i get neg reps when people dont like me :rotfl:
perfectpearl
15-04-07, 10:17 PM
I'll take that as a compliment and no i think your forgetting your a muslim because your showing favouritism. Whenever bro kal says something (me and kal are cool he knows that) you laugh and laugh even though it sounds bad to me but when i say something i'm the devil and i forgot i'm muslim right :rolleyes:
p.s. grow up pearl seriously
Your not Funny! Look bro, we are muslims, i dont favor one over the other. You are not the devil. You are my Muslim brother and so is Kal. I take pride and that. You know you like to tease me. You enjoy it. Look bro, you are my brother and i wouldnt want to hurt you. :)
salaam
yaaay my peacemaking worked! :hidban:
chai anyone? :inlove:
$HugoBoss$
15-04-07, 10:30 PM
Your not Funny! Look bro, we are muslims, i dont favor one over the other. You are not the devil. You are my Muslim brother and so is Kal. I take pride and that. You know you like to tease me. You enjoy it. Look bro, you are my brother and i wouldnt want to hurt you. :)
Ok i had enough of this, i don't like it how certain jokes can get so serious and i agree with all of what you have said. Kal is a really cool brother and your a great sister :up:
p.s. i only tease people that i like, in a friendly manner of course, just ask brother abu musab :D
salaam
the peacemaker never gets recognition for her efforts :rolleyes:
chai anyone?
Ok i had enough of this, i don't like it how certain jokes can get so serious and i agree with all of what you have said. Kal is a really cool brother and your a great sister :up:
p.s. i only tease people that i like, in a friendly manner of course, just ask brother abu musab :D
:inlove::inlove:
salaam
the peacemaker never gets recognition for her efforts :rolleyes:
chai anyone?
*silence*
*crickets chirp*
random is looking for anything that is breathing :o
random is looking for anything that is breathing :o
*Chokes on glass of water and falls off chair laughing hard*
lool
*chokes on her imaginary cuppa chai and falls off the chair :rubeyes:*
^^^^^ - after reading kal-el's siggie
:D I haven't laughed this much in ages
random is looking for anything that is breathing :o
PMS is looking for anyone with a few spare pennies in his pocket
Is money the only reason women want to get married?
random is looking for anything that is breathing :o
:salams
looooooool cow :torture:this comin from a freshy pimpstress?? :rolleyes:
anyway at least in my house we CAN breathe :D ;) *wink wink nudge nudge jihan* :rofl1:
Is money the only reason women want to get married?
not emaan masha'Allah shes the nicest girl u will ever meet and she shall have the nicest husband who will be rich too but thats just a coincidence :o
Is money the only reason women want to get married?
no the size of his biceps is also a big push factor
:salams
looooooool cow :torture:this comin from a freshy pimpstress?? :rolleyes:
anyway at least in my house we CAN breathe :D ;) *wink wink nudge nudge jihan* :rofl1:
oh jihan been telling u about her socks :rubeyes:
Is money the only reason women want to get married?
no :)
he should have a heart of gold
a smile to behold
with kindness in his eyes
and a bank account that never dries!
:up:
:salams
looooooool cow :torture:this comin from a freshy pimpstress?? :rolleyes:
anyway at least in my house we CAN breathe :D ;) *wink wink nudge nudge jihan* :rofl1:
LOLLL :up: :inlove:
oh jihan been telling u about her socks :rubeyes:
ur tht 1 tht wears 2 pairs to sleep:rolleyes:
gosh man bare xcited cuz of the symbol on em init:rubeyes:
ur tht 1 tht wears 2 pairs to sleep:rolleyes:
gosh man bare xcited cuz of the symbol on em init:rubeyes:
so jihaan why dont u tell us what u are looking for?
my babys got ooooooo angel eyes :rofl1::rofl1::rofl1:
rail gaddi rail gaddi :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
You lot are looking for the perfect man.
But he being so amazing, will also be looking for a woman of his requirements - so you should wonder whether or not he'd see you as his perfect woman, before expecting anything.
oh jihan been telling u about her socks :rubeyes:
:salams
lol i feel for jihan and what shes gotta put up with man :(
ur tht 1 tht wears 2 pairs to sleep:rolleyes:
gosh man bare xcited cuz of the symbol on em init:rubeyes:
loooooooool alhamdulillah for jihan :D:D:D:D... n mms u know ur not menta wear all ur clothes at once :rolleyes:
You lot are looking for the perfect man.
But he being so amazing, will also be looking for a woman of his requirements - so you should wonder whether or not he'd see you as his perfect woman, before expecting anything.
:salams
yeh dont worry we're all princesses :rolleyes:
so jihaan why dont u tell us what u are looking for?
my babys got ooooooo angel eyes :rofl1::rofl1::rofl1:
rail gaddi rail gaddi :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
LOLL allow u man
no freshness
:rolleyes:
Sis Sabiha
16-04-07, 12:40 AM
I come to this thread to read serious answers and all I get are chit chat messages. Enough to put anyone off the forum. I think the mods need to do somethin about this.
ex-boyfriend
16-04-07, 01:21 AM
I am not Muslim yet I seek in a partner truthfulness and honesty regarding that which they profess to be their individual faith. Anyone who poses as one thing yet, acts contrary to all the precepts of that claim is someone who I neither can respect nor trust.
I also look for a partner who desires to be my equal and is willing to communicate directly with me on all levels and in all matters.
Someone who hides their true feeling behind acts which run contrary to those feelings is someone who is not trustworthy nor believable.
Personally, I am willing to be a partner with someone who holds different views and beliefs. If only they are forthright and truthful.
Honesty is the most important quality in any relationship IMO.
The second but equally important quality is that they must understand what LOVE actually is.
My EX never understood what true love entails.
Had she understood the concept of LOVE, she would not now be my EX but, my partner for the rest of our lives.
I hope that one day I will find my equal.
I am not Muslim yet I seek in a partner truthfulness and honesty regarding that which they profess to be their individual faith. Anyone who poses as one thing yet, acts contrary to all the precepts of that claim is someone who I neither can respect nor trust.
I also look for a partner who desires to be my equal and is willing to communicate directly with me on all levels and in all matters.
Someone who hides their true feeling behind acts which run contrary to those feelings is someone who is not trustworthy nor believable.
Personally, I am willing to be a partner with someone who holds different views and beliefs. If only they are forthright and truthful.
Honesty is the most important quality in any relationship IMO.
The second but equally important quality is that they must understand what LOVE actually is.
My EX never understood what true love entails.
Had she understood the concept of LOVE, she would not now be my EX but, my partner for the rest of our lives.
I hope that one day I will find my equal.
Inshallah May Allah guide you to the Straight path, the one that leads to Paradise!:D
ps. the Muslims sisters can't marry atheists/agnostics...
ex-boyfriend
16-04-07, 08:35 AM
Inshallah May Allah guide you to the Straight path, the one that leads to Paradise!:D
ps. the Muslims sisters can't marry atheists/agnostics...
ps. the Muslims sisters can't marry atheists/agnostics
Why do you imply I am an atheists/agnostics?
Because I stated I was not a muslim?
Isn't that stretching it a bit too far?
ps. the Muslims sisters can't marry atheists/agnostics
Why do you imply I am an atheists/agnostics?
Because I stated I was not a muslim?
Isn't that stretching it a bit too far?
its ok dont worry its nothing personal he could have added any other religion too , the thing is in Islam a muslim woman is not permitted to marry anyone other than a muslim man. One wisdom that can be seen in this is that a woman in Islam has many rights given to her by Almighty Allah in the Quran.
A man in Islam is the maintainer and protector of women, a non muslim man may not afford his muslim wife what she would expect from a marriage, because a muslims life is based around worshipping Allah in all we do, and following a certain way of life so practically it would be impossible for a woman to be married to a non muslim as he would not beleive what she beleived in so she could not love him, because our love for each other is based on our love for Almighty Allah, and we try to encouarge each to obeidience to almighty Allah throughout our marriages.That wouldnt happen being married to a non muslim man and a man in Islam has a huge responsability towards his family, The Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him said
" All of you are gaurdians and all of you will be questioned concerning those under your care and a man is the gaurdian over his familly, and he will be questioned concerning those under his care " Sahih Al Bukhari and Muslim
so as u can see its a serious matter to be a muslim womans husband, its a trust between a man and almighty Allah.
stephenoskie
16-04-07, 09:15 AM
well i would like a husband who prays five times a day and have a good underdstanding of islam and is good with children and isnt afraid of new challenages and there fore is still fun and isnt over serious because i still wana have a laugh with my husband :)
ps. the Muslims sisters can't marry atheists/agnostics
Why do you imply I am an atheists/agnostics?
Because I stated I was not a muslim?
Isn't that stretching it a bit too far?
are you buddhist...?
Abu Mus'ab
16-04-07, 11:12 AM
oh no not another proposal :smack:
this is why i turned it off in the first place :nuts:
okay ima turn it on for limited time only
You don't have to turn on PM's, just add the people that you want to recieve PM's from to your 'Friends' list and then they'll be able to send you Pm's but others can't.
Say NO to strangers *Roll Eyes*
Abu Mus'ab
16-04-07, 11:17 AM
Ok i had enough of this, i don't like it how certain jokes can get so serious and i agree with all of what you have said. Kal is a really cool brother and your a great sister :up:
p.s. i only tease people that i like, in a friendly manner of course, just ask brother abu musab :D
uh huh we're best of friends enit *Roll Eyes*
strong arms :o
errr..cos someone needs to do the houseowok :up:
strong arms :o
errr..cos someone needs to do the houseowok :up:
lol .. thats not the reason :rotfl: ..
:embar:
go play with your toy cars and dont make a mess in the dining room :mad:
strong arms :o
errr..cos someone needs to do the houseowok :up:
Will this Streetfighter character do? :p
Dhalsim!
Will this Streetfighter character do? :p
Dhalsim!
:o he not a beardo :o
i dont ask for much :(
He got strong LONG arms :p
Nice recitation of the Qur'aan. :up:
He got strong LONG arms :p
not a beardo :nono:
Nice recitation of the Qur'aan. :up:
yah you need storng arms for that so you can belt it out inshallah
Muhammad2
19-04-07, 12:18 PM
I'm a beardo but I have weak flabby* arms :p
*but not fat
yah you need storng arms for that so you can belt it out inshallah
:rotfl:
Nawar me ol duck...how you gonna determine this?
you gonna have elimination rounds :scratch:
Lol. No, when they lead the prayer ofcourse. :smack:
ur_yusra
19-04-07, 12:50 PM
Lol. No, when they lead the prayer ofcourse. :smack:
:rotfl: ;)
ur_yusra
19-04-07, 01:02 PM
:embar:
Do you remember that Cinderella story.. and 'Ahmads' adhaan..
:smack:
Do you remember that Cinderella story.. and 'Ahmads' adhaan..
:smack:
Lol. So lame. :smack:
ur_yusra
19-04-07, 01:08 PM
Lol. So lame. :smack:
Yeh very now that I think about it :S
Abu Baraa
20-04-07, 05:50 PM
My ideal match-What Allaah and His Rasul (salal lahu alaihi wa salam) expect from the ideal half of the deen. She should be an Ahlul Sunna wal Jamaa’ah strictly practicing Muslimah in all aspects of life and one who does not seek dunya only but prefers the Hereafter (The eternal life full of joy and Perfect happiness). She should observe proper hijab and avoid that which is against the Shariah i.e. bad stuff,music,movies,soap operas,clubbing,partying,fruitless activities etc,etc…She should be a muslimah that thinks about death a lot (Rasulilah salal lahu alahi wa salam said: “An intelligent person is the one who constantly is thinking and preparing for death” ). She should not waste time on vain purpose and talks. She seeks useful ilm (knowledge) on a regular basis and gives Dawah feesabililaahi to the other Muslimah’s.She should be very, very romantic, kind, sweet, understanding and loves children and poor people. I also adore a woman’s cleanliness (inner/outer) and physical fitness is essential.
Abu Baraa
20-04-07, 05:51 PM
My ideal match-What Allaah and His Rasul (salal lahu alaihi wa salam) expect from the ideal half of the deen. She should be an Ahlul Sunna wal Jamaa’ah strictly practicing Muslimah in all aspects of life and one who does not seek dunya only but prefers the Hereafter (The eternal life full of joy and Perfect happiness). She should observe proper hijab and avoid that which is against the Shariah i.e. bad stuff,music,movies,soap operas,clubbing,partying,fruitless activities etc,etc…She should be a muslimah that thinks about death a lot (Rasulilah salal lahu alahi wa salam said: “An intelligent person is the one who constantly is thinking and preparing for death”). She should not waste time on vain purpose and talks. She seeks useful ilm (knowledge) on a regular basis and gives Dawah feesabililaahi to the other Muslimah’s.She should be very, very romantic, kind, sweet, understanding and loves children and poor people. I also adore a woman’s cleanliness (inner/outer) and physical fitness is essential.
Abu Mus'ab
20-04-07, 06:56 PM
Everyone looks for the 'perfect one', but the question is, are you perfect to deserve someone perfect?
I'm not referring to anyone, it's just a random question (no not RaNdOm)
perfectpearl
20-04-07, 06:59 PM
Everyone looks for the 'perfect one', but the question is, are you perfect to deserve someone perfect?
I'm not referring to anyone, it's just a random question (no not RaNdOm)
yes :D
Muhammad2
20-04-07, 10:12 PM
A pulse :p
hey big spenderrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr :inlove:
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