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SheikhOnDeRun
12-04-07, 01:37 AM
saalamalaikum,
The best solution for two people who love each other is marriage. This interesting excerpt is for anyone who falls in love but cannot marry for whatever reasons and yet do not involve in any sin. This is an excerpt from The Maidens of Paradise by Sheikh Zubair.

Ibn Abbas (rad) narrates that Prophet Muhammed (saw) said, “The person who falls in love, remains chaste, conceals this [from others], and dies is a martyr (shahid).”
[Some scholars have classified this hadith as weak. The famous scholar, Imam Nawawi in his introduction to the ‘arbain’ (40 hadith) that the scholars have agreed on the permissibility of using weak hadith for describing the virtues of actions. And Nothing is difficult to Allah]

Munawi explains that the love mentioned in the above hadith refers to a love with someone with whom marriage is possible and it is such a severe love that it affects the state of mind. Although this love could occur because of looking and hearing, this is not necessary because Allah can place this love in a person’s heart without any apparent cause. The person who remains chaste despite being afflicted by this severe love and thereafter dies will receive the reward of a martyr in the hereafter. The rank of a person who remains chaste is similar to the rank of a person who dies in fighting in the path of Allah because both have sacrificed their pleasure for the sake of Allah. Just as a fighter sacrificed his life for the upliftment of the religion of Allah, the chaste person strived against his desires for the sake of Allah. The youth especially should strive to remain chaste in order to gain this virtue.
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Asma_Here
12-04-07, 04:16 AM
Might be a weak hadith, sounds like it, unless you broaded its context. You shouldn't put up weak Ahadith you know, tht would lead to misguidance anyhow.

One should marry if he is able to do so, otherwise should fast. o.o

Tht would be more like it..

Jzak Allah for posting.

moderrator
12-04-07, 04:21 AM
saalamalaikum,
The best solution for two people who love each other is marriage. This interesting excerpt is for anyone who falls in love but cannot marry for whatever reasons and yet do not involve in any sin. This is an excerpt from The Maidens of Paradise by Sheikh Zubair.

Ibn Abbas (rad) narrates that Prophet Muhammed (saw) said, “The person who falls in love, remains chaste, conceals this [from others], and dies is a martyr (shahid).”
[Some scholars have classified this hadith as weak. The famous scholar, Imam Nawawi in his introduction to the ‘arbain’ (40 hadith) that the scholars have agreed on the permissibility of using weak hadith for describing the virtues of actions. And Nothing is difficult to Allah]

Munawi explains that the love mentioned in the above hadith refers to a love with someone with whom marriage is possible and it is such a severe love that it affects the state of mind. Although this love could occur because of looking and hearing, this is not necessary because Allah can place this love in a person’s heart without any apparent cause. The person who remains chaste despite being afflicted by this severe love and thereafter dies will receive the reward of a martyr in the hereafter. The rank of a person who remains chaste is similar to the rank of a person who dies in fighting in the path of Allah because both have sacrificed their pleasure for the sake of Allah. Just as a fighter sacrificed his life for the upliftment of the religion of Allah, the chaste person strived against his desires for the sake of Allah. The youth especially should strive to remain chaste in order to gain this virtue.
(If you have benefited from this article, raise your hands and pray for me and send it to others)


sounds to me like passionate love wich is no good :nono:

SheikhOnDeRun
12-04-07, 04:24 AM
Might be a weak hadith, sounds like it, unless you broaded its context. You shouldn't put up weak Ahadith you know, tht would lead to misguidance anyhow.
Jzak Allah for posting.

Regarding the weak hadith, Imam Nawawi who wrote Riyadh us Saliheen would surely know better regarding the stance on weak hadith. InshAllah, if time permits me I will put up a post regarding weak hadith.
That hadith was also quoted by Ibn Taymiyyah also.
saalam

Asma_Here
12-04-07, 04:32 AM
Brother, I think tht “The person who falls in love, remains chaste, conceals this [from others], and dies is a martyr (shahid).”

has been written instead of Marriage..

SheikhOnDeRun
12-04-07, 02:08 PM
Brother, I think tht

has been written instead of Marriage..

saalam,
No it hasnt. That means that Sheikh Zubair is accused who has written the book of altering the meaning. This hadith again I have seen in Ibn Taymiya's book translated as such. Besides this is a simple post and the message is clear. Dont make it complicated as such.
saalam