Im gona get married....

[Mujaheedah]

One day inshallah. What is up with this new marriage epidemic on Ummah.com? not saying it's something bad it's actually very good mashallah, but wow every time i logg on there's another thread about marriage.

[bint]

lol...no comment..:D

[Nazias]

:rofl1: Alhumdulillah!

[MWarrior]

personally i think its because of the age of most the people on this forum.....late teens and early twenties. so most just like talking about marriage...... but dunno maybe a diff. reason ??

[Abu Mus'ab]

This marriage obsessed lot will get married and a new marriage obsessed lot will join, history has a habit of repeating itself *Roll Eyes*

[Quest]

This marriage obsessed lot will get married and a new marriage obsessed lot will join, history has a habit of repeating itself *Roll Eyes*

:rotfl:

and his-story is never a bore ey abu mus'ab hence why many folks read about it.

[Mujaheedah]

personally i think its because of the age of most the people on this forum.....late teens and early twenties. so most just like talking about marriage...... but dunno maybe a diff. reason ??
maybe

[Niqaabi]

InshaAllah one day soon mujaheedah! :love:

i think people just love to talk about marriage and babies. passes time.

[Nawar]

Personally I think its grand Alhumdulillah. Sooner they get married, sooner they stop doing this forums head in. :rolleyes:

[ur_yusra]

People get married and leave the forum and are then replaced by others. Its a cycle.

So people love talking about marriage, its not really a big deal if they do.

[sunrise]

One day inshallah. What is up with this new marriage epidemic on Ummah.com? not saying it's something bad it's actually very good mashallah, but wow every time i logg on there's another thread about marriage.


i think it's fabulous!!! better than people comitting zinah

[abdusamad]

One day inshallah. What is up with this new marriage epidemic on Ummah.com? not saying it's something bad it's actually very good mashallah, but wow every time i logg on there's another thread about marriage.

its another way of having a lil chit chat with opposite gender.. since 'we' feel bad about doing it out there in open, 'we' try to slap a lil islamic theme on there and all will be good.


I never thought it did harm, but it actually it does more bad for you then good. (for the unmarried lot)

[ur_yusra]

its another way of having a lil chit chat with opposite gender.. since 'we' feel bad about doing it out there in open, 'we' try to slap a lil islamic theme on there and all will be good.


I never thought it did harm, but it actually it does more bad for you then good. (for the unmarried lot)

oh how easily you judge the intention of others..

[abdusamad]

oh how easily you judge the intention of others..

if you think so...

[Freshie]

freshie no make it announcemnt like this.. please no make it generalisation. :rolleyes:

:1peace:

[insomniac]

This marriage obsessed lot will get married and a new marriage obsessed lot will join, history has a habit of repeating itself *Roll Eyes*

lol true,
but honestly some words of advice, marriage is sooo important and if you have an opportunity to get married don't delay insha'Allah

Care about getting married.... but at the same time don't procrastinate so much about it that you go :wacko:

Insha'Allah may all y'all find the bestest of partners. :)

[ibn suleman]

insha'allah






and no, its not all my fault :p

[Mujaheedah]

freshie no make it announcemnt like this.. please no make it generalisation. :rolleyes:

:1peace:
hmm?

[Kal-El]

I'm thinking of creating a new thread..

"Gonna eat some food inshallah"

What do you think?

[Masumah]

One day inshallah. What is up with this new marriage epidemic on Ummah.com? not saying it's something bad it's actually very good mashallah, but wow every time i logg on there's another thread about marriage.


i blame sajid :p

i avent made one thread bwt marriage yet :(

[Abu Mus'ab]

its another way of having a lil chit chat with opposite gender.. since 'we' feel bad about doing it out there in open, 'we' try to slap a lil islamic theme on there and all will be good.


I never thought it did harm, but it actually it does more bad for you then good. (for the unmarried lot)
Well you know people say a person judges according to himself, if that's the case then that must be your reason for being here *Roll Eyes*

And put some sugar in your tea man *Roll Eyes*

[Songbird]

its another way of having a lil chit chat with opposite gender.. since 'we' feel bad about doing it out there in open, 'we' try to slap a lil islamic theme on there and all will be good.


I never thought it did harm, but it actually it does more bad for you then good. (for the unmarried lot)
Abdusamad = religious police :D

[Abu Mus'ab]

hmm?
He says you're generalising by saying everyone is marriage obsessed *Roll Eyes*

[Mujaheedah]

He says you're generalising by saying everyone is marriage obsessed *Roll Eyes*
not saying everyone but quite alot.

[`asiya]

hmm but i think its a good thing that muslims are obsessed with marriage,better that than being obessed with haram matters. In the days of the sahabba radiaallahu anhum they were getting married at the drop of a hat, a woman comes in presents herself for marriage to the prophet salallahu alleyhi wa salam,he turns away and straight away a bro stands up and says i will marry her and they got married masha Allah.

ahhh how about abd al-rahman masha Allah he arrives in the town penniless asks the way to the market makes enough cash to purchase a gold nuggest for the mahr of an ansari woman, and next time rasoolAllahu salallahu alleyhi wa salam sees him, he got married, men then knew that they didnt need a walli to get married , today many seem to think they need permission of their parents to be men. a man doesnt need permission to do anything. and the sahabbas back then werent putting diplomas and phd`s above having marriage and children for the sake of Allah and protecting their deen, the deen was what mattered and protecing the ummah was what mattered today all that matters to many is a fat bank account and a wall full of framed certificates.

Masha Allah, how about when the sahabba migrated for sake of Allah and he arrived and his muslim brother says to him, take half of my wealth and tell me which one of my wives u like best and i will divorce her and marry her to you :love: masha Allah how about the prophet Salallahu alleyhi wa salam he would arrange to get married gather his wives together announce it and go and get married with his wives blessings :love: masha Allah they didnt mess around like we do today when it comes to marriage.

I think the fact that peoples families and cultures all too often make marriage so difficult today, and people have such huge lists and what not of dunya criteria, that theres a lot more discussion than there need be if we just got on with it like the sahabba radiallahu anhum did, and wether it does or doesnt work out, if we still treated each other islamically and respectfully, then this ummah wouldnt be in such a mess insha Allah.

Narrated 'Abdullah:

We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."

[Niqaabi]

JazakaAllahu khair asiya, thats very true, id rather people talk about marriage then unnecessary talk.

[ibn suleman]

:jkk: 'asiya excellent points :up:


ur on a roll today masha'allah :D

[Ebony]

Just because men dont need the permission of their parents/wali to marry doesn't mean they are capable of marrying and should go saunder off wedding whoever they like :rolleyes:

[Muhammad2]

Is this the "declare your intention" thread?

Okay... I'm going to get married too.

[Mujaheedah]

Is this the "declare your intention" thread?

Okay... I'm going to get married too.
^insha'allah.

[RashidD]

Is this the "declare your intention" thread?

Okay... I'm going to get married too.

Man where's Med to taskeel people? :p

[.: Anna :.]

What asiya said is true, i agree :)
Also whats wrong if people are getting married and they announce on the forum, its something good they will get duas from the people and they might just want to share their good news :)

[Mujaheedah]

just noticing so many threads and posts about marriage recently, never did say discussing marriage in Islam was a bad thing though.

[`asiya]

just noticing so many threads and posts about marriage recently, never did say discussing marriage in Islam was a bad thing though.

ya ukhti ur right to notice it, i notice it too there is so much talk of marriage today, and not enough getting on with it and getting married :)

[Ebony]

If they all got married, this section would shut down :p

[Mujaheedah]

freshie no make it announcemnt like this.. please no make it generalisation. :rolleyes:

:1peace:
just an observation of stuff.

[nuraisa]

Dear Everyone,

Thanks for all the replies... but I expect more prayers coming from my brothers and sisters and not disagreements and debate okay its the reason why I created this thread .... i just want to share the good news with you guys!!!. :) .....:inlove:

sister in Islam
nur

[muslima_89]

oh gawwd not another wediing thread :I jeez nah mashallah tis all good congrats to all that are getting married :)

[Raziel]

This marriage obsessed lot will get married and a new marriage obsessed lot will join, history has a habit of repeating itself *Roll Eyes*

what about you? :rolleyes:

when are you going to become one of the 'married lot' ? :D

:jkk:

[Raziel]

Dear Everyone,

Thanks for all the replies... but I expect more prayers coming from my brothers and sisters and not disagreements and debate okay its the reason why I created this thread .... i just want to share the good news with you guys!!!. :) .....:inlove:

sister in Islam
nur


May Allah reward you with a Pious Husband, grant you both and any descendants you may have, Good in this life and the Akhira! enjoin you with the Company of the Saliheen! and make you among the Inheritors of Jannah...

:jkk: sister...

[Abu Mus'ab]

what about you? :rolleyes:

when are you going to become one of the 'married lot' ? :D

:jkk:
I'm not really interested in the whole marriage business.

[urban_rose]

what about you? :rolleyes:

when are you going to become one of the 'married lot' ? :D

:jkk:

Abu M will probably be in the next 'marriage obsessed lot' as he says :D

[Abu Mus'ab]

insha'allah






and no, its not all my fault :p
It's all your fault :nono: you're known as the shaadi don :nono:

[Muhammad2]

I'm going to get married just as soon as I've finished covering my face in shoe polish... Dave

[sunrise]

I'm going to get married just as soon as I've finished covering my face in shoe polish... Dave



erm y need shoe polish 2 get amrried?:confused:

[Kal-El]

Not everyone here will get married. Just a sad reality

[*Al-Qadr*]

^^^ :eek: :(

Its cos they attention seeking :p

[Zesty]

Not everyone here will get married. Just a sad reality


Youre just cynical in your olllddd age! :p

[sunrise]

i want a moving avatar:o how do you get one? like where from?

[Abu Mus'ab]

i want a moving avatar:o how do you get one? like where from?
Ask Te'oma to change your avatar, only a mod can use them gifs, and since a mod is changing your avatar you too can then have a moving one, well atleast that's how i gots mine :outta:

[Muhammad2]

erm y need shoe polish 2 get amrried?:confused:
If you can figure out why I called the previous poster "Dave" you'll know ;)

Dave ;)

[Al-Irhaab]

once you get married the marriage thread sucks *outta*

[Abu Mus'ab]

one you get married the marriage thread sucks *outta*
That's to be expected :smack:

[Kal-El]

Youre just cynical in your olllddd age! :p

I'm rolling on 20, I know :( What will my grandchildren think

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

I'm rolling on 20, I know :( What will my grandchildren think



lol just a thought

what if u get married n keep posting and one day ur kids join ummah read all ur posts, what they gona think? :p

:nervous:

[Abu Mus'ab]

lol just a thought

what if u get married n keep posting and one day ur kids join ummah read all ur posts, what they gona think? :p

:nervous:
"man i can't believe that he was once this immature" :outta:

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

damn! :rotfl:

[junaidb]

:d:d:d