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If you're married, what did you talk about when you were newly married?
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
Al-Irhaab
08-04-07, 01:55 PM
If you're married, what did you talk about when you were newly married?
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
food and why her cooking tastes horrible :outta:
basically you pretend to take a deep and meaningful interest in her life. ask questions
your spouse is supposed to be your best friend, so you talk about what the usual, deen, current affairs, lambition, lipgloss, and the like.
sometimes i suspect you just run out of things to say. :( then its important to just to shut up rather than fill the emopty vacum of space with daft comments. :smack:
i'd probably be too busy disinfecting the new place i have to stay in :crying:
muslimah85
08-04-07, 02:02 PM
It should come naturally Akhi, theres nothing specific you say. It is dependant on where you are and what your doing.
Thats why its good to get away somewhere and be by yourselves. Travel really enables to people to get to know each other properly. Tasks, going out etc they all significantly show you the person for whom they really are and what they like etc.
Depends also how well you know them, if you have known each other before hand (and yes I know br's and sis's are not suppose to, so please don't start throwing digs etc :rolleyes: but FACT is some couples do), if so topic will come naturally if not get to know them. joke about stuff, dicscuss things, discussion is one of the most intimate things I think more then anything :inlove:, it is priceless, free, and can last for ages :p plus its fun :D
Dont worry too much! :)
food and why her cooking tastes horrible :outta:
can't really comment on that yet, but even if her food was not nice, i wouldn't complain.
basically you pretend to take a deep and meaningful interest in her life. ask questions
your spouse is supposed to be your best friend, so you talk about what the usual, deen, current affairs, lambition, lipgloss, and the like.
sometimes i suspect you just run out of things to say. :( then its important to just to shut up rather than fill the emopty vacum of space with daft comments. :smack:
lipgloss... i'll keep that in mind. :D
Al-Irhaab
08-04-07, 02:08 PM
can't really comment on that yet, but even if her food was not nice, i wouldn't complain.
tell hers shes put on weight and that shes turned mean all of a sudden :D
muslimah85
08-04-07, 02:08 PM
can't really comment on that yet, but even if her food was not nice, i wouldn't complain.
Mash'Allah :)
You know encouragement really grows on a woman, its makes her heart more inclined to do better naturally :love:, Mash'Allah your wife will be very lucky! :)
As for spiteful digs, well only he who gives them will know it's results :rolleyes:
dont ask her too many questions. you dont need to know everything :nono:
women dont like to be inconvinienced by idle chit chat either :torture:
It should come naturally Akhi, theres nothing specific you say. It is dependant on where you are and what your doing.
Thats why its good to get away somewhere and be by yourselves. Travel really enables to people to get to know each other properly. Tasks, going out etc they all significantly show you the person for whom they really are and what they like etc.
Depends also how well you know them, if you have known each other before hand (and yes I know br's and sis's are not suppose to, so please don't start throwing digs etc :rolleyes: but FACT is some couples do), if so topic will come naturally if not get to know them. joke about stuff, dicscuss things, discussion is one of the most intimate things I think more then anything :inlove:, it is priceless, free, and can last for ages :p plus its fun :D
Dont worry too much! :)
what if it doesn't come natually? some people *cough* me *cough* are not very good at making conversation.
how exactly do you start off, you can't just jump to "tell me about your interests".
tell hers shes put on weight and that shes turned mean all of a sudden :D
lol, bro, thats not me...
Al-Irhaab
08-04-07, 02:14 PM
lol, bro, thats not me...
ok man forget it ill just tell u what u want to hear :smack:
errr well actually not ..... go to the bros forum man :outta:
you are a bro right.... if i remember correctly im sure u are :S
dont ask her too many questions. you dont need to know everything :nono:
women dont like to be inconvinienced by idle chit chat either :torture:
so whats left to talk about? :rubeyes:
dont really like the idea of talking about current affairs, bit boring isnt it?
so whats left to talk about? :rubeyes:
the germs at ur house :( bacteria killer, mattress bugs :(
Bint Yusuf
08-04-07, 02:18 PM
can't really comment on that yet, but even if her food was not nice, i wouldn't complain.
awww id like a hubby with the same atittude, boy i cant cook! even ma pupz pretends its nice not to set me off with my temper tantrums bahahaha
i'd probably be too busy disinfecting the new place i have to stay in :crying:
the germs at ur house :( bacteria killer, mattress bugs :(
wont your hubby/wife find that offensive? telling him/her that the house needs disinfecting? :coolbro:
ok man forget it ill just tell u what u want to hear :smack:
errr well actually not ..... go to the bros forum man :outta:
you are a bro right.... if i remember correctly im sure u are :S
ok, i'll create a thread their in a bit.
wont your hubby/wife find that offensive? telling him/her that the house needs disinfecting? :coolbro:
maybe but its something that needs to be done :crying:
i believe my health is more important than his feelings
i refuse to have these http://www.uky.edu/Ag/Entomology/entfacts/images/bedbugmp.jpg suck out my blood while i sleep :crying:
I guess its gonna have to strt off with the usual soooooooo...
no no no, i hate the soooooooo....wellll........
let things flow...im sure if u dont start the convo she will...as a femal i wouldnt want o be sat with my husband after we jus got married in silenmce...things will go with the flow...
Phoenix CG
08-04-07, 02:27 PM
Talk about extreme sports and road trips :cool:
wont your hubby/wife find that offensive? telling him/her that the house needs disinfecting? :coolbro:
Id be offended considering im a bit of a clean freak...id be intimidated if my spouse is more of a cklean freak than me:D
maybe but its something that needs to be done :crying:
i believe my health is more important than his feelings
i refuse to have these http://www.uky.edu/Ag/Entomology/entfacts/images/bedbugmp.jpg suck out my blood while i sleep :crying:
if you put it that way, then i guess its ok, but what will you talk about when you house is disinfected? :D
I guess its gonna have to strt off with the usual soooooooo...
no no no, i hate the soooooooo....wellll........
let things flow...im sure if u dont start the convo she will...as a femal i wouldnt want o be sat with my husband after we jus got married in silenmce...things will go with the flow...
hmmm
Talk about extreme sports and road trips :cool:
i dunno about extreme sports, but road trips sound interesting.
if you put it that way, then i guess its ok, but what will you talk about when you house is disinfected? :D
beards, hot beards :outta:
Id be offended considering im a bit of a clean freak...id be intimidated if my spouse is more of a cklean freak than me:D
lol, would you marry someone the opposite? in your case, someone messy?
Talk about extreme sports and road trips :cool:
gonna bare that in mind...spesh if he dont start the convo...lol, just imagine:rolleyes:
Abu Mus'ab
08-04-07, 02:34 PM
ok man forget it ill just tell u what u want to hear :smack:
errr well actually not ..... go to the bros forum man :outta:
you are a bro right.... if i remember correctly im sure u are :S
Yeah go to the brothers section, i aint gonna say no 'mushy' things here *Roll Eyes*
beards, hot beards :outta:
beards? is that gonna be a long interesting conversation?
lol, would you marry someone the opposite? in your case, someone messy?
well i doubt i male potential would present himself to anyone as messy...that goes for females too..
beards, hot beards :outta:
whats that book by roald dahl...twits:rotfl:
beards? is that gonna be a long interesting conversation?
yeh, because then u ask if u can groom it, but before that u have to disinfect it
and then u can straighten it or braid it and make funky ponytails out of it or tie it to the door handle n slam the door shut and lots of other stuff :D
yeh, because then u ask if u can groom it, but before that u have to disinfect it
and then u can straighten it or braid it and make funky ponytails out of it or tie it to the door handle n slam the door shut and lots of other stuff :D
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
summer786
08-04-07, 02:39 PM
Urrrrr.....you should get on well enough not to be asking that question.
Otherwise somethings not right........unless they're super shy and/or need time to adjust.
If you're really stuck, get some flash cards ready on the wedding night....but make sure your spouse dont see em or theyll be like :wacko: :outta:
Khuzamah
08-04-07, 02:41 PM
It should come naturally Akhi, theres nothing specific you say. It is dependant on where you are and what your doing.
Thats why its good to get away somewhere and be by yourselves. Travel really enables to people to get to know each other properly. Tasks, going out etc they all significantly show you the person for whom they really are and what they like etc.
Depends also how well you know them, if you have known each other before hand (and yes I know br's and sis's are not suppose to, so please don't start throwing digs etc :rolleyes: but FACT is some couples do), if so topic will come naturally if not get to know them. joke about stuff, dicscuss things, discussion is one of the most intimate things I think more then anything :inlove:, it is priceless, free, and can last for ages :p plus its fun :D
Dont worry too much! :)
I agree alot with m85. Really you dont need to worry too much. Even the shy people who dont always talk much, it just comes naturally.
yeh, because then u ask if u can groom it, but before that u have to disinfect it
and then u can straighten it or braid it and make funky ponytails out of it or tie it to the door handle n slam the door shut and lots of other stuff :D
lol, never thought about all that stuff for the beard...
plus muslim men dont need to disinfect their beards, we already have clean beards :p
Abu Mus'ab
08-04-07, 02:42 PM
yeh, because then u ask if u can groom it, but before that u have to disinfect it
and then u can straighten it or braid it and make funky ponytails out of it or tie it to the door handle n slam the door shut and lots of other stuff :D
Then you'd best not marry a metrosexual that has a stubble that he calls a beard *Roll Eyes*
Urrrrr.....you should get on well enough not to be asking that question.
Otherwise somethings not right........unless they're super shy and/or need time to adjust.
If you're really stuck, get some flash cards ready on the wedding night....but make sure your spouse dont see em or theyll be like :wacko: :outta:
not that i will be using flash cards, but lets imagine i do. what do i write on them?
Then you'd best not marry a metrosexual that has a stubble that he calls a beard *Roll Eyes*
ziaullah khan- ''guys who have stubble...''im gettin a lil' islamic''
Im sure the first few days it would be awkward...but after that it gets better. Making small talk is very annoying, I agree.
There may be times when you have nothing to say to one another. Its quite normal to be honest.
So dont worry about it too much :up:
summer786
08-04-07, 02:47 PM
not that i will be using flash cards, but lets imagine i do. what do i write on them?
hmmmm....well, depends on your level of shyness. if your really really shy, you would write 'hi, my name's ......, whats your name? nice to be married to you. are you having a good time? :rolleyes:
Im sure the first few days it would be awkward...but after that it gets better. Making small talk is very annoying, I agree.
There may be times when you have nothing to say to one another. Its quite normal to be honest.
So dont worry about it too much :up:
ok, i feel i need to change the topic a little, as a wife, would would you want your husband to talk to you about and would you not want him to talk about.
im sure you would want him to make you feel safe, secure, happy, loved, get encouragement and complements from him, but how does he do all that? with words???
If you're married, what did you talk about when you were newly married?
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
The first thing I will say is, 'I am going to lay down some ground rules, so listen up and listen good!'
I am sure most parents let their children talk to each other before marriage or if the nikah is done, I am sure they can talk before the actual marriage!
You will never know someone until you actually live with them!
hmmmm....well, depends on your level of shyness. if your really really shy, you would write 'hi, my name's ......, whats your name? nice to be married to you. are you having a good time? :rolleyes:
ok moving on from the first night, what kind of stuff would you talk about after that i.e. the second day/night for about a month? any specific topics?
Talk about the things you have in common. Talk about the things you found interesting/weird today..talk about the weather and then relate it to you, your past, ask her about the same subject etc..what you like to do in a certain weather..what kind of clothes she likes during that weather..etc
Simple.
Phoenix CG
08-04-07, 02:51 PM
loolz @ avatar ^
Abu Nuh AMW
08-04-07, 02:52 PM
the germs at ur house :( bacteria killer, mattress bugs :(
you forgot the worst bug out of them all........You :)! .how you planning on dis-infecting that?? :D
Allow the talking akhi go have some fun! go play football walk in the park have ice cream go on a boat or something! wrestling sounds fun!
The first thing I will say is, 'I am going to lay down some ground rules, so listen up and listen good!'
I am sure most parents let their children talk to each other before marriage or if the nikah is done, I am sure they can talk before the actual marriage!
You will never know someone until you actually live with them!
not sure what you mean, the nikah is the actual marriage.
ok, i feel i need to change the topic a little, as a wife, would would you want your husband to talk to you about and would you not want him to talk about.
im sure you would want him to make you feel safe, secure, happy, loved, get encouragement and complements from him, but how does he do all that? with words???
Nami, you can't get encouragement, security and feeling of being safe overnight. :rolleyes: its a work in progress.
You can talk about whatever you like! What would you talk about when you meet someone for the first time? Its usually small talk. Which can revolve around anything. So it would depend on you, and the other person. You can usually tell if things of a personal nature are something the other person either wants to talk about or not when you perhaps introduce some random story about maybe your childhood...or school days. If they feel comfortable enough, they may talk to you about theirs...or perhaps not say anything.
There's no set/standardised foolproof method for these things.
So long as you dont scream/shout at her, you'll be fine :)
Talk about the things you have in common. Talk about the things you found interesting/weird today..talk about the weather and then relate it to you, your past, ask her about the same subject etc..what you like to do in a certain weather..what kind of clothes she likes during that weather..etc
Simple.
simple for you bro, i would never have thought of that. :coolbro:
Nami, you can't get encouragement, security and feeling of being safe overnight. :rolleyes: its a work in progress.
You can talk about whatever you like! What would you talk about when you meet someone for the first time? Its usually small talk. Which can revolve around anything. So it would depend on you, and the other person. You can usually tell if things of a personal nature are something the other person either wants to talk about or not when you perhaps introduce some random story about maybe your childhood...or school days. If they feel comfortable enough, they may talk to you about theirs...or perhaps not say anything.
There's no set/standardised foolproof method for these things.
So long as you dont scream/shout at her, you'll be fine :)
i wasnt talking about the first night, i mean for first few days upto a month. the topics would probably change after the first month...
ok, no screaming/shouting. got that! :up:
Same goes for first few days/months :p
You'd probably have more to talk about as the weeks go by...what with meeting the bizarre extended family members and laughing at their quirky behaviour to name a few things... lool.
Same goes for first few days/months :p
You'd probably have more to talk about as the weeks go by...what with meeting the bizarre extended family members and laughing at their quirky behaviour to name a few things... lool.
i won't have any of that.
Khuzamah
08-04-07, 03:20 PM
yeah i think people can become offended if their spouse laughs at their extended families "quirky behaviour" so that might be one to avoid?
yeah i think people can become offended if their spouse laughs at their extended families "quirky behaviour" so that might be one to avoid?
Not when you think they're bizarre yourself :D :p
But honestly Nami, its nothing to worry over. Can't have a manual for everything.
Khuzamah
08-04-07, 03:28 PM
but not to be a spoilsport but its kind of backbiting though?
muslimah85
08-04-07, 04:05 PM
Talk about anything.
The good old days, growing up, school, funny stuff, if you see something you have in common chat about it.
Activities help, both of you go bike riding in the country, go on a cruise, paintballing, horse riding! Anything. These will help you build a bond and chatting will come easily! :D
I want my hubby to talk about anything and EVERYTHING to me, and im sure would think the same. You can't plan this. this is where personality comes in. :)
Talk about anything.
The good old days, growing up, school, funny stuff, if you see something you have in common chat about it.
Activities help, both of you go bike riding in the country, go on a cruise, paintballing, horse riding! Anything. These will help you build a bond and chatting will come easily! :D
I want my hubby to talk about anything and EVERYTHING to me, and im sure would think the same. You can't plan this. this is where personality comes in. :)
jazak'allah
any other activity suggestions?
Ask her what she thought the first days of marriage would be like when she was younger :D Then tell her how you thought it'd be..and then finish off saying "this is better" ;)
I should start charging :rolleyes:
muslimah85
08-04-07, 04:26 PM
jazak'allah
any other activity suggestions?
Anything!
bro what are you interested in? do that and do what she is interested in! Some brothers like sports and think sisters dont. Ask and go together and you will find out!
My mum thought my dad would never like cooking and when they first got married she would go to the kitchen and he would go after her and say why did you leave me alone? :p, he said if you can cook then so can I :p, and even now they awlays cook together on the weekends, side by side and chat away :inlove:, and he is actually better :eek: (ps dont tell mum!)
Similarly he would do all the DIY but they both do it together and chat away and she is actually better! makes me laugh :D
muslimah85
08-04-07, 04:28 PM
Pack a picnic, go to a discovery centre, explore wildlife, make a picnic in the garden, anything :p
Pack a picnic, go to a discovery centre, explore wildlife, make a picnic in the garden, anything :p
discovery center!!! i love that idea. :D
heaven2002
08-04-07, 04:44 PM
u could talk about ur rights and responsibilites as husband and wife by sharing a good book on the subject together
u could ask her questions about her family, her work, her study, her friends, what kind of hobbies/things interest her
travel is one of the best ways to get to know someone
Discovery channel is better IMHO
Bint Yusuf
08-04-07, 05:33 PM
Have fun, jokes! Make him/her laugh. Laughing makes me feel comfortbale around a person I'm not familiar with.
obviously too much is jarrin and would just make me think, did i marry a clown/wananbe comedian...uh oh..
muslimah85
08-04-07, 07:13 PM
http://travel.uk.msn.com/AA/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4627678
Supernova Nebula
08-04-07, 07:38 PM
talk about American Foreign Policy, Jewish lobby in the White House, The Future of the Ummah, Islamic Financial Capital Market, the meerkats, cats, Liger then your wifey will go
http://www.domania.us/BRATTROUBLE/CAT/BORED-KITTY-FR.jpg
:p
talk about American Foreign Policy, Jewish lobby in the White House, The Future of the Ummah, Islamic Financial Capital Market, the meerkats, cats, Liger then your wifey will go
http://www.domania.us/BRATTROUBLE/CAT/BORED-KITTY-FR.jpg
:p
Way too political for the first night/month
You usally meet your spouse before marrige( with someone else to keep an eye on you ofcourse) But if that does'nt make you any comfortable then just talk about the marriage itself. How was the food, guests, etc etc. Then maybe plan the trips, places you're gonna go etc. Take it cool, cause remmeber, your spouse will be feeling the same thing you are
So brother nami...do we hear a takbir???
getin married eh?
The weather is always a good topic to start with :p
U cud flatter her and tell her how beautiful she looked in her bridal attire (ull earn loadsa brownie points unall ;)
umm_huraiyrah
09-04-07, 12:04 AM
assalamu alaikum
Hmmm when we first married we talked about what we liked and what we didn't like. Our hopes and dreams and fears. And now that we have been married 7 years we talk about anything and everything. :inlove:
journey2jannah
09-04-07, 04:43 AM
It is desirable, when one goes into his wife on his wedding night, to show her kindness, such as presenting her with something to drink, etc. This is found in the hadith narrated by Asmaa' bint Yazid ibn As-Sakan who said: "I beautified 'As'ishah for Allaah's Messenger, then called him to come to see her unveiled. He came, sat next to her, and brought a large cup of milk from which he drank. Then, he offered it to 'Aa'ishah, but she lowered her head and felt shy. I scolded her and said to her: "Take from the hand of the Prophet." She then took it and drank some. Then, the Prophet said to her, "Give some to your companion." At that point, I said: "O Messenger of Allaah, rather take it yourself and drink, and then give it to me from your hand." He took it, drank some, and then offered it to me. I sat down and put it on my kness. Then, I began rotating it and following it with my lips in order that I might hit the spot from which the Prophet had drunk. Then, the Prophet said about some women who were there with me: "Give them some." But, they said: "We don't want it." (ie. we are not hungry). The Prophet said: "Do not combine hunger and fibbing!" [Ahmad and al-Humaidi. Ahmad reports it with 2 isnaads - one of which supports the other, and it is supported...]"
Lambo5688
09-04-07, 05:26 AM
Double post
Lambo5688
09-04-07, 05:27 AM
dont worry nami bro...it'll all come naturally.
Dont go in there with an agenda. :D
Sulaiman Harun
09-04-07, 05:29 AM
shouldn't these things be kept a secret?
Lambo5688
09-04-07, 05:31 AM
shouldn't these things be kept a secret?
He means what should he talk to his wife about when he is newly married. He is just looking for ideas. He is not asking what everyone actually talks to their spouses about :up:
Barracuda
09-04-07, 05:35 AM
If you're married, what did you talk about when you were newly married?
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
I talked about weather, then gossip about neighbors and then went to sleep.
Sulaiman Harun
09-04-07, 05:36 AM
If you're married, what did you talk about when you were newly married?
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
you seem to be a shy person.
Supernova Nebula
10-04-07, 06:53 AM
Way too political for the first night/month
You usally meet your spouse before marrige( with someone else to keep an eye on you ofcourse) But if that does'nt make you any comfortable then just talk about the marriage itself. How was the food, guests, etc etc. Then maybe plan the trips, places you're gonna go etc. Take it cool, cause remmeber, your spouse will be feeling the same thing you are
i was just jokin bro!
Songbird
10-04-07, 07:05 AM
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
If I ever I get hitched, first question to hubby will be:
Habib, is breakfast ready yet?
:inlove:
Songbird
10-04-07, 07:07 AM
can't really comment on that yet, but even if her food was not nice, i wouldn't complain.
:there:
Medievalist
10-04-07, 07:22 AM
u talk abt how fat she is - how she's a burden upon yr neck - how u made a mistake getting married ;)
If I ever I get hitched, first question to hubby will be:
Habib, is breakfast ready yet?
:inlove:
LOL so you are one of those women who are confined to making reservations for dinner :p
Songbird
10-04-07, 07:41 AM
LOL so you are one of those women who are confined to making reservations for dinner :p
If I can squeeze him in between my daily pedicure and hair appointment, he will have the privilege of my company over dinner, yes.
RashidD
10-04-07, 07:46 AM
How about answering the brother's question instead of unnecessary idle chat... eh...
Songbird
10-04-07, 07:56 AM
How about answering the brother's question instead of unnecessary idle chat... eh...
RashidD = not a very fun husband eh :D
Um Abdullah
10-04-07, 08:01 AM
I actually don't really remember what we spoke about when we first got married
those days pass by so fast.
Medievalist
10-04-07, 08:03 AM
How about answering the brother's question instead of unnecessary idle chat... eh...
bro dont stress - it'll be alright. :D
past, present and future...
Ignatius F. Peace
10-04-07, 08:31 PM
My wife does all the talking ... I can see her lips moving ... but I can't hear anything but blah, blah, blah ...
Al-Irhaab
10-04-07, 08:34 PM
If I ever I get hitched, first question to hubby will be:
Habib, is breakfast ready yet?
:inlove:
the reply will be no so get ur lazy self downstairs and make it :torture:
umm_yusuf
10-04-07, 09:00 PM
the reply will be no so get ur lazy self downstairs and make it :torture:
:rotfl:
My wife does all the talking ... I can see her lips moving ... but I can't hear anything but blah, blah, blah ...
aww...thats so funny yet so not nice tut tut tut
junaidb
11-04-07, 09:09 AM
chillax.....the moment u get that nikah certificate you just both wana dissappear.......catch up on just abt everything that goes thru ur mind.....positive communication, being playfull or serious if you listening (which is as important)...
hold hands look into the maghrib sunset read ur maghrib Salaah and make dua together that Allah aceept ur nikah for his sake (ibadat), fill you lifes with lotsa muhabbat n grant us all Jannah.
then u live happily ever after...lol...
:up: :up: :up:
chillax.....the moment u get that nikah certificate you just both wana dissappear.......catch up on just abt everything that goes thru ur mind.....positive communication, being playfull or serious if you listening (which is as important)...
hold hands look into the maghrib sunset read ur maghrib Salaah and make dua together that Allah aceept ur nikah for his sake (ibadat), fill you lifes with lotsa muhabbat n grant us all Jannah.
then u live happily ever after...lol...
:up: :up: :up:
:inlove: how romantic that would be....
junaidb
11-04-07, 12:15 PM
:inlove: how romantic that would be....
my sister it really is an Alhamdulillah im living it.......:inlove:
10years later n it feels like yestereday...lol
:coolbro:
my sister it really is an Alhamdulillah im living it.......:inlove:
10years later n it feels like yestereday...lol
:coolbro:
ah bless...masha'allah!
If you're married, what did you talk about when you were newly married?
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
use sarcasm in a funny way in conversations (luckily i good the good sarcasm not the nasty one) gets a laugh most of the time.
Crack jokes,
and more jokes :D
i dont think u can pick specific topics, cos its jus gonna flow naturally isnt it>?
praying salat together would bring u closer, so no need to worry about the "how to show your love and affection) although it helps to say "i love u" now and again
LiveIslam
11-04-07, 03:44 PM
tell hers shes put on weight and that shes turned mean all of a sudden :D
ur mean i wonder who wud marry u:torture:
ur mean i wonder who wud marry u:torture:
someone who can hold her own against him
If you're conversing with someone who's language isn't your 1st language...and your fluency in that lingo is next to nil..then you're in huge trouble :o
If you're conversing with someone who's language isn't your 1st language...and your fluency in that lingo is next to nil..then you're in huge trouble :o
wat about if they draw diagrams to communicate
u just flutter ure eyelashes and do the freshy thing and giggle like a hyena
wat about if they draw diagrams to communicate
:rotfl:
u just flutter ure eyelashes and do the freshy thing and giggle like a hyena
Use the pallu of your dupatta and go "heehee..han jee..na jee"? :rotfl:
:rotfl:
Use the pallu of your dupatta and go "heehee..han jee..na jee"? :rotfl:
u ever watched mein prem ki deewani hoon?
oh bwoy what she does in there got me in laughter..hey i still do that...plan to do that to every guy that comes to see me:rubeyes:
LiveIslam
11-04-07, 03:56 PM
someone who can hold her own against him
lol :D
Lambo5688
11-04-07, 05:18 PM
"heehee..han jee..na jee"?
:smack:
junaidb
19-04-07, 12:52 PM
ah bless...masha'allah!
shukran for your blessed duas my dearest sis...May Allah keep u happy, content and always smiling.....insha-Allah ameen
:coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro:
limotha1
20-04-07, 08:24 AM
there lots of things one can talk about with a wiefy , religous issues ,current affairs and any topic of her interst one has to change topic it will keep the fire burnning
AnZ4evaiA
20-04-07, 09:06 AM
If you're not married, what do you think you will talk about in the first few days, weeks, months?
If he is interested to go to hajj.
Is he alleRgic to any food [dont want to make the poor man sick]
How much of the Quran does he know or memorized
Likes and dislikes
How about a trip to the bahamas hehe:D
And how do you show you love and affection with words?
hOw about being yourself around him/her and let Allah take care of the rest inshallah:D
assalamu aleikum
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