a multiple choice question ......

[dawa-i-dil]

a man leaves/ seems that he plans to leave/ & calls your 'honest call to love', useless 'emotions' without facing you, because

1.his mom and the rest of the family do not approve of you, even though they have not met you

2.he is confused about you, even after a good time of having communicated with you, but due to ill-will & inflated ego does not talk to you to clear up things

3.he is truly cheap and is creating the drama of brutal pleasure by indirectly making you come after him
he is truly sorry and is not strong enough to face you

4.ALL OF THE ABOVE
based on your answer, should you forget him or wait for him?



http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=248022

[Abu Baraa]

a man leaves/ seems that he plans to leave/ & calls your 'honest call to love', useless 'emotions' without facing you, because

1.his mom and the rest of the family do not approve of you, even though they have not met you

2.he is confused about you, even after a good time of having communicated with you, but due to ill-will & inflated ego does not talk to you to clear up things

3.he is truly cheap and is creating the drama of brutal pleasure by indirectly making you come after him
he is truly sorry and is not strong enough to face you

4.ALL OF THE ABOVE
based on your answer, should you forget him or wait for him?



http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=248022

She should talk to him and see if there is a way to work thing out. Make a lot of dua i suggest and then the brother should brainstorm and see who are the people his parents give authority and respect, he should try yo meet and discuss his predicament so he' s parents understand but the sister should be a good muslima. Insha'Allaah well keep him in our thoughts and duaas.

[Asmara]

Forget him. Plenty more fish in the sea :rolleyes: He's not worth it in my opinion.

[Al-Irhaab]

this is the reason why people should go to ulema ... firstly this website that hes linking from you need to understand the thinking of people on it....

secondly no one has asked the details of the discussion.... are the people in question practicing? are the parents practicing? why have the parents objected to the marriage.... etc etc

i mean take for example if the parents have objected because they asked the son does she pray or does she cover and he has said no then its better for him not to marry her etc etc

these paki website are just :rolleyes:

[Al-Irhaab]

to prove my point ... this is how the deranged pakis think

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?p=4919551#post4919551

not deranged pakis not all pakis are like this only the deranged ones :rolleyes: and yes the deranged ones are the ones posting