why do men need to be taken care of ?

[dawa-i-dil]

First his mom takes care of him.

then 25-30 years later she tells his wife, take good care of my son.

seriously, do men really need to be taken care of that much?
like they need someone mom/wife to steer them in the proper direction all their life? they need mom/wife to "psycho" them to make them understand wats good for them? they need mom/wife to prepare their meals/clothes etc so they feel loved?
u know this whole thing makes me think that men will go astray in the worst possible ways if moms/wives fail to "take care" of them. honestly!!!!! men in reality are THAT weak?????
All ye gud ppl of GS, Plzz enlighten me!

PS: THIS IS NOT A MALE BASHING THREAD


http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=249231

[Tahiyah]

a mother raises her son, inshaa Allah, to be a caring, patient and strong provider for his family. his focus is to provide and maintain his wife and children. he takes care of them.

in return his wife respects him by taking care of him. a pious wife is a treasure to a man, she can help him with his emaan. if he is taken care of good, he becomes a good provider.

when a mother asks her sons wife to take care of her son, that doesnt mean that she should treat him like a baby. it means take care of him and he will take care of you. it may also mean that the mother is trusting you to love and care for what she loves most in this world. her child.

[Phoenix CG]

cas we can be pretty childish sometimes (self confession).

[Ebony]

Men dont "need" to be taken care of, same way as most people dont "need" to. Children need to be taken care of. But the care that an adult needs is different to that given to a child.

Best not to molly coddle your sons or your daughters.

[Khuzamah]

Sometimes they get very absorbed in their work and they need people around them to look out for them in some basic thngs like food as perhaps they get too enthralled in their work and wont feed themselves properly, by eating out all the time as its quicker and in keeping the place bit of a mess not so organised. They cant do everything, if they are working long hours its alot for them 2 organise and clean the home and cook nutricious meals for themselves... and sometimes stuff like keeping the house looking nice, its needs a woman 2 do it better than how the men do it themselves.
Well its not always but this can be the case.

[Raziel]

First his mom takes care of him.

then 25-30 years later she tells his wife, take good care of my son.

seriously, do men really need to be taken care of that much?
like they need someone mom/wife to steer them in the proper direction all their life? they need mom/wife to "psycho" them to make them understand wats good for them? they need mom/wife to prepare their meals/clothes etc so they feel loved?
u know this whole thing makes me think that men will go astray in the worst possible ways if moms/wives fail to "take care" of them. honestly!!!!! men in reality are THAT weak?????
All ye gud ppl of GS, Plzz enlighten me!

PS: THIS IS NOT A MALE BASHING THREAD


http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=249231

:D Well see sis, the same applies to Women in reverse...

both need each other...

hence why Allah created mates for us to Marry...

each has his/her duties and rights...

and they both complement each other...:)

:jkk:

[`asiya]

:jkk: akhi raziel masha Allah thats the fact of the matter.

[ADZ w3]

:D Well see sis, the same applies to Women in reverse...

both need each other...

hence why Allah created mates for us to Marry...

each has his/her duties and rights...

and they both complement each other...:)

:jkk:


:up: :up: :up:

coudnt put it in better my self bro:up:

[Raziel]

:jkk: brothers and Sisters, and May Allah reward you all with Jannat, give you the Best in this Life and the Akhira!

AL-Quran, Chapter 55 : Verse 60
--------------------------------
"Is there any Reward for Good - other than Good?"

Raziel

[Medievalist]

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cudda fooled me :rolleyes:

First his mom takes care of him.

then 25-30 years later she tells his wife, take good care of my son.

actually when I got married and we went to visit a relative who is her real uncle. He was telling her that normally we tell the son-in-law to take care of our daughter but niece Im telling you to look after him. You've got a good man - make sure you dont give him reason to complain.

And I say this without intention of bragging.

[MG]

cudda fooled me :rolleyes:



actually when I got married and we went to visit a relative who is her real uncle. He was telling her that normally we tell the son-in-law to take care of our daughter but niece Im telling you to look after him. You've got a good man - make sure you dont give him reason to complain.

And I say this without intention of bragging.

Bragger :outta:

men need looking after just as women need looking after, the care a wife gives to her husband is not the same care a husband gives to his wife, they both have different qualities in their own ways so lets not confuse the two.

[Medievalist]

Bragger :outta:

men need looking after just as women need looking after, the care a wife gives to her husband is not the same care a husband gives to hsi wife, they both have different qualities in their own ways so lets not confuse the two.

yes thats true.

[Lu'Lu]

And I say this without intention of bragging.


cudda fooled me :rolleyes:

[Ruprecht]

cudda fooled me :rolleyes:



actually when I got married and we went to visit a relative who is her real uncle. He was telling her that normally we tell the son-in-law to take care of our daughter but niece Im telling you to look after him. You've got a good man - make sure you dont give him reason to complain.

And I say this without intention of bragging.

Wait... you're married?!?!? :shock:

[Lu'Lu]

Wait... you're married?!?!? :shock:

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

It takes approximately 4 months to get over the shock of it...

[zaki]

First his mom takes care of him.

then 25-30 years later she tells his wife, take good care of my son.

seriously, do men really need to be taken care of that much?
like they need someone mom/wife to steer them in the proper direction all their life? they need mom/wife to "psycho" them to make them understand wats good for them? they need mom/wife to prepare their meals/clothes etc so they feel loved?
u know this whole thing makes me think that men will go astray in the worst possible ways if moms/wives fail to "take care" of them. honestly!!!!! men in reality are THAT weak?????
All ye gud ppl of GS, Plzz enlighten me!

PS: THIS IS NOT A MALE BASHING THREAD


http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=249231

which can be said for the females as well, if you just swap son for daughter, you would just get the same thing....mom will look after their children and so will the father, the husband will support his wife as much as the wife will support her husband, basically we all look after one another :)

[Medievalist]

Wait... you're married?!?!? :shock:

that is affirmative

[Supernova Nebula]

becoz, men are big babies lol

[Medievalist]

becoz, men are big babies lol

and ladies like it that way :up:

makes em feel useful :p

[Supernova Nebula]

and ladies like it that way :up:

makes em feel useful :p

ure one happy old baby, arent u:rolleyes:

[Medievalist]

ure one happy old baby, arent u:rolleyes:

see its from a british perspective that you see it as being babyish - if you were italian you'd see it as normal./

Hum aapne Maa-on ke laal hain - alhamdulillah

awr Biwiyon ke Sartaj/badshah :rotfl: