My brother needs a wife in london any ideas

[algharib]

Assalamu alaikum. Would like to ask for help. I have this kid brother who is 21 and is one of the exceptional brothers i know that fears Allah so much, beautiful muwhid brother. He is presently studying in london and we want him married fast because it's for his own good and were really worried for tha fasad that surrounds him.He is mentally and off course physically prepared to get married,he is in his second year studying engineering and he'll be able to afford to maintain a wife and family but the girl must be a GOODSISTER with the right aqeedah and must be fully hijabed and have al wala wal bara. I am so sure that any goodgirl who marrys my brother will be happy beacuse we that are much older than him love sitting around him to acquire ilm and hikmah. Was informed they are good muslims in this forum so i seek ur assistance real fast. Jazakumulahu khairon.

[Abu Hanif]

Salam alaikum

May Allah (swt) reward you for trying to help your brother insha'Allah

Brother, what kind of person is your brother, is he righteous and pious?
what about his personality and character, ethnicity, status in the country?

I may know some sisters but i cannot refer them without being 100% sure about the potential brother

[algharib]

very righteous and upon the right aqeedah. Humble,kind,generous,patient and love muslims alot.

[Abu Hanif]

very righteous and upon the right aqeedah. Humble,kid,generous,patient and love muslims alot.

what is his background as in ethncity etc...and status in England?

[neelu]

Abu Hanif, if you live in the UK, I suggest that you go and meet the brother yourself so that you can feel assured as to whether you'd be happy to introduce him to a sister. It's up to you.

[muslima_89]

shaddi.com :D

[ADZ w3]

Assalamu alaikum. Would like to ask for help. I have this kid brother who is 21 and is one of the exceptional brothers i know that fears Allah so much, beautiful muwhid brother. He is presently studying in london and we want him married fast because it's for his own good and were really worried for tha fasad that surrounds him.He is mentally and off course physically prepared to get married,he is in his second year studying engineering and he'll be able to afford to maintain a wife and family but the girl must be a GOODSISTER with the right aqeedah and must be fully hijabed and have al wala wal bara. I am so sure that any goodgirl who marrys my brother will be happy beacuse we that are much older than him love sitting around him to acquire ilm and hikmah. Was informed they are good muslims in this forum so i seek ur assistance real fast. Jazakumulahu khairon.

:salams

aki pm ur brothers details if ur serious..n live in the uk ( london).and ill give sme details of brothers who are married and can help yah out inshallah...

[Eemaan]

aww this thread is sweet :love:

*gets new idea on how to get rid of faislu*

[Al-Irhaab]

aww this thread is sweet :love:

*gets new idea on how to get rid of faislu*

faislu cant marry the bro :nono:

[Eemaan]

faislu cant marry the bro :nono:

oh. so what do i do now?

[algharib]

Originally posted bt Abu Hanif
what is his background as in ethncity etc...and status in England?


Jazakumulahi khayran for your help. Abu Hanif my brother is african, and is currently in london studying.So i guess he has a student visa, and he has no problems in regards to being issued visas because he has tbeen travelling to london fosince he was like 3 years old and dad has investments and a house in london.

muslima_89
shaddi.com

Hell no don't want my brother going close to that site.

I am working in another country and its only 2 of my brothers that study in the uk, though the other is 2 years older but i do'nt trust him in finding for his brother a potential wife. I assure you this brother of mine has a good character and i can arrange for him to meet you and carry on subject to if he and the sister find compatability and are physically atrracted to each other. Anybody that wants to help can send me a pm, one other thing well prefer if the sister is a young lady like age 19 to 21 and is not a widow or divorcee( did'nt mean to hurt anyones feelings and if i did sorry then).Im willing to give the best of my co-operation in regards to this issue.

[Fais]

aww this thread is sweet :love:

*gets new idea on how to get rid of faislu*

:0:

faislu cant marry the bro :nono:

:eek:

oh. so what do i do now?

:outta:

[Abu Baraa]

Akhii Algharib have u thought it's possible that your brother does not mind marrying a much older sister,widow or divorcee u never can tell. He might not mind cuz a mumin is always smart and when he finds an amazing rare kind of girl he goes for her despite the odds cuz he's searching for a good mother for his kids as well as a good wife for himself. That's my honest perspective but i also respect ur's as well since Nabiy Muhammad salal lahu alaihi wa salam advised to go for the young virgin is better. It's up to u just allow him to tell u what he really wants in a wife, like i said its just a suggestion and Allaah knows best. May Allaah give ur brother and all of us including our sisters pious companions that will be of khayr and benefit in dunya wal akhirah.Allahumma amin.

[fatony]

yeh emotionally and physically capable, now adays Financially is also important. I don't mean to intrude in this lovely conversation, but I really advice that your brother finishes his last 2 years of university first, then at least inshallah he will be to devote his time to his wife and the household.

[algharib]

Jazakhallahu khairan to everyone.Thank you for your help and advises.Originally posted by Abu baraa
Akhii Algharib have u thought it's possible that your brother does not mind marrying a much older sister,widow or divorcee u never can tell. He might not mind cuz a mumin is always smart and when he finds an amazing rare kind of girl he goes for her despite the odds cuz he's searching for a good mother for his kids as well as a good wife for himself. That's my honest perspective but i also respect ur's as well since Nabiy Muhammad salal lahu alaihi wa salam advised to go for the young virgin is better. It's up to u just allow him to tell u what he really wants in a wife, like i said its just a suggestion and Allaah knows best. May Allaah give ur brother and all of us including our sisters pious companions that will be of khayr and benefit in dunya wal akhirah.Allahumma amin.

I understand you it's just that i thought it would be better for my brother to start his martrimonial home with a young wife but we shall talk later with me by Allah's permission so i'll ask him if he wants to go for the older,widow etc....it's up to him and i'll try to make our parents understand it's just that he their favorate son and they want the best for him.

Originally posted by fatony
yeh emotionally and physically capable, now adays Financially is also important. I don't mean to intrude in this lovely conversation, but I really advice that your brother finishes his last 2 years of university first, then at least inshallah he will be to devote his time to his wife and the household.

About the financial aspect no problem since he can even afford to maintain 4 wives comfortably, yeah he's in university but he is capable because the family and people from our country are business orientated. Since he has the means and is mentally and physically fit for marriage why wait? assumuing he could not afford it but since he can khalas! he should go for it since its fard that he protects his chastity. Another thing he was the one that first brought up the issue and our folks gave him the go ahead and i felt is my duty to really help him out and i will by Allah's permission.