****I need ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!on how to matchmake****

[Lady_Mujahideen]

Asalamu alaykum

SOoooooooooooooooooooo.....
I have friend who wants to get married.....
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaand, she wants me to find her a husband..........
She says she trusts me to find someone good...
Things is.... I haven't a clue where to start...

And I need some SERIOUS help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Al-ghurabah]

you got nice writing style looks like a ignature..
well best is to ask people if they now someone.. like elders etc.. or local masjid may help..

[meer]

I think better you find some one in you'r releatives,friends or neibours...difenetly you will get some one who are interested to do marriage with you'r friend...

Jazak allah khair...:up:

[alld]

Asalamu alaykum

SOoooooooooooooooooooo.....
I have friend who wants to get married.....
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaand, she wants me to find her a husband..........
She says she trusts me to find someone good...
Things is.... I haven't a clue where to start...

And I need some SERIOUS help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:wswrwb: :)

are you married and experianced enough in marriage making to help your friend ?:rubeyes:

[sunrise]

ask people who are married already if they know anyone

or sign her up2 a marriage site (kidding) sorry that one is the only one i could think of

also tell her to make dua and inshAllah Allah swt will bring her a pious mu'min man who will benefit her in her deen inshAllah ameen...

[Lady_Mujahideen]

:wswrwb: :)

are you married and experianced enough in marriage making to help your friend ?:rubeyes:
That is why I need advice...
Coz I have no experience, I have no idea.

[Talib]

Most Marriages are done through i know someone or they know someone that knows someone etc.

So best thing to do is ask your friends and family if they are aware of anyone or even the local masjid...

This is the best and easiest way inshaAllaah.

[Al-ghurabah]

That is why I need advice...
Coz I have no experience, I have no idea.


best way like sis sunrise said.. ask peoplewho are married they will have contacts and once you get married you atomatically become like a agency.. people start asking you..
even elders.. so ask someone who is married or stick to family relatives to find someone

[alld]

I think better you find some one in you'r releatives,friends or neibours...difenetly you will get some one who are interested to do marriage with you'r friend...

Jazak allah khair...:up:

Good advice akhi :up:

Lady Mujahideen , please have a look here and hope it helps .:)

[Al-Irhaab]

That is why I need advice...
Coz I have no experience, I have no idea.

if uve got no experience then dont do it :smack:

find someone who knows wot they doing... u might just end up putting her with a monster :outta:

[Raziel]

if uve got no experience then dont do it :smack:

find someone who knows wot they doing... u might just end up putting her with a monster :outta:

:eek: I hope this Doesn't happen...:o

[.: Anna :.]

I was gonna say if you have no experience then dont do it.
If you dont have any one in mind then you cant really help... you'll just be looking to find someone that will do, to suggest to her but its not the best thing.
Why is ur friend asking you anyway when you dont have a clue? Just tell her you dont know of anyone

[bint]

i dont think..that..

i duno..

im not the type that match makes people..i just find it all to much..and what if that marriage doesnt work out the guilt wud stay with me forever..

my only advice to you is..dont do it.

[muslimah85]

WOW! Mash'Allah you guys are oh so negative!

You dont have to be maried to matchmake nor have previous experience. How does one have previous experience?/ it begins from somewhere! :p

Alhmdullilah I have matchmade twice with success and I am not married so thats not really the problem. Its having the skill and will to want to get two people you feel are suited together if they wish :)

[.: Anna :.]

WOW! Mash'Allah you guys are oh so negative!

You dont have to be maried to matchmake nor have previous experience. How does one have previous experience?/ it begins from somewhere! :p

Alhmdullilah I have matchmade twice with success and I am not married so thats not really the problem. Its having the skill and will to want to get two people you feel are suited together if they wish :)

yeah but if you have an idea of someone is suitable for each other, then its kind of different than having no idea then u jst look around to try n find someone..

[umm_huraiyrah]

Umm no being smart butt or anything but seriously leave it in Allahs hands. Inshallah her husband will come soon. When me and hubby both gave up on meeting someone was when we met each other. And we both believe Allah put us togather and we are soulmates. I pray Allah brings her a good husband soon, Ameen!

Habiba

[bint]

WOW! Mash'Allah you guys are oh so negative!

You dont have to be maried to matchmake nor have previous experience. How does one have previous experience?/ it begins from somewhere! :p

Alhmdullilah I have matchmade twice with success and I am not married so thats not really the problem. Its having the skill and will to want to get two people you feel are suited together if they wish :)


lol..i guess its each to their own innit..cos like..id seriously feel unfomfortable ..i cant see myself doing that...

its that voice at the back of ure head..'what if it doesnt work out..':o