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Okay well..my question is pretty NOT straightforward more of a..discussion...
i have this student in my class..and well..part of the programme is to talk about ureself..etc..
shes a muslim..but this is what she told me..
"My fathers an atheist..and my mothers a practising muslim..I used to wear the hijab at uni but the muslim bros felt they had a 'right' or 'hold' over me..But I still kept it on..cos i wanted to..at the end..my dad told me..'Daughter' take ure hijab off..Im scared for you' ..I said 'no' and i still kept it on..then Bros wud approach me..saying they have a right to marry me if they want to..and due to that i nearly got kidnapped...I found it hard to display my muslim identity//so i just took my hijab off..and found it easy..as i walked into the uni hall..the old man just said..'geez u look more approachble' i just got angry and shouted at him..'dyu think i have a bloody bomb under my hijab?' i was upset that people would judge me so..but i found it easy at work.."
Guys im so confused, she said because of the hijab she nearly got kidnapped..i was shocked..and i quickly said..ive never had that problem..:rubeyes:
the non muslims..howevr werent convinced..i feel bad that i cudnt say much..i was more gobsmacked..
is it that if we wearthe hijab..muslim men think they have a right to pick n choose who they marry?
Im so lost..
Ibn Khattab
13-03-07, 09:35 PM
Okay well..my question is pretty NOT straightforward more of a..discussion...
i have this student in my class..and well..part of the programme is to talk about ureself..etc..
shes a muslim..but this is what she told me..
"My fathers an atheist..and my mothers a practising muslim..I used to wear the hijab at uni but the muslim bros felt they had a 'right' or 'hold' over me..But I still kept it on..cos i wanted to..at the end..my dad told me..'Daughter' take ure hijab off..Im scared for you' ..I said 'no' and i still kept it on..then Bros wud approach me..saying they have a right to marry me if they want to..and due to that i nearly got kidnapped...I found it hard to display my muslim identity//so i just took my hijab off..and found it easy..as i walked into the uni hall..the old man just said..'geez u look more approachble' i just got angry and shouted at him..'dyu think i have a bloody bomb under my hijab?' i was upset that people would judge me so..but i found it easy at work.."
Guys im so confused, she said because of the hijab she nearly got kidnapped..i was shocked..and i quickly said..ive never had that problem..:rubeyes:
the non muslims..howevr werent convinced..i feel bad that i cudnt say much..i was more gobsmacked..
is it that if we wearthe hijab..muslim men think they have a right to pick n choose who they marry?
Im so lost..
that is completely not right. us men do not have a right over who we marry in the sense that we cant just go up to any hijabi sister and think we can marry her straight away with no permission or anything.
anyone who thinks that needs to be drowned.
yeah but cmon man..she lives in my area..and ive never experienced that :S
and well..i dunno..i just found the whole thing bizzare :S
Umm 'Umarah
13-03-07, 09:39 PM
Guys wouldn't seriously do that would they? why would she almost get kidnapped just because of her Hijab...sounds a bit odd to me...
plenty of Hijabi sisters about no-one gets hassled like that..
and we're in a kuff country..it would be easier for the kuffar to approach us without our hijabs, they're the ones who make it awkward not the Hijabi.
she sounds a little paranoid to me.
Medievalist
13-03-07, 09:41 PM
sounds like a load of BS to me.
ur_yusra
13-03-07, 09:41 PM
No offence.. but I don't think she knows what shes talking about..
Either that or she lives in some weird neighbourhood :S
ibn suleman
13-03-07, 09:41 PM
erm im :scratch: whos asking the question..which bits are u and which bits are her..
but its a tricky situation...if shes scared of wearing hijab...try abd get those that do to hang around with her and make her feel more comfortable.
as for men have the right to pick and choose like that...thats completely wrong
No offence.. but I don't think she knows what shes talking about..
Either that or she lives in some weird neighbourhood :S
oi i live in that neighbourhood..deff cant be that :p
i feel she was just misleading the non muslims..they got a bit put off when they heard that:(
erm im :scratch: whos asking the question..which bits are u and which bits are her..
but its a tricky situation...if shes scared of wearing hijab...try abd get those that do to hang around with her and make her feel more comfortable.
as for men have the right to pick and choose like that...thats completely wrong
shes not scared...shes very hmmm she knows what shes doing typa woman..
Umm 'Umarah
13-03-07, 09:52 PM
Binty, now's the perfect time for you to befriend her and give her da'wah.
Binty, now's the perfect time for you to befriend her and give her da'wah.
see i cant..kamz..
she sounds messed up..but i feel she knows what shes doing..cmon he dads n atheist..
she has a lifestyl eof a non muslim..i cant..i mean what wud i say to her?:S
i dont think im the right person to give dawah..id proll just mess it up.
.: Anna :.
14-03-07, 12:16 AM
It sounds like she is talking rubbish as some people said :S
Bint, dont underestimate urself Im sure u could be great in giving dawah insha allah
junaidb
14-03-07, 07:40 AM
could also be the athiest father having a certain amount of mental hold on her.....hence the confusion going on in her head....
just a tawt...
:coolbro:
ghanamuslima
14-03-07, 11:42 AM
eeeerrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmmm sorry sis but sounds a bit far fetched.she nearly got kidnapped because of her hijab??????
It sounds like she is talking rubbish as some people said :S
Bint, dont underestimate urself Im sure u could be great in giving dawah insha allah
tbh..call me naive..but she didnt sound like she was chattin rubbish..shes 27 yrs old..a doctor..and she was very serious..
could also be the athiest father having a certain amount of mental hold on her.....hence the confusion going on in her head....
just a tawt...
:coolbro:
yeah true..maybe..
Al-ghurabah
14-03-07, 11:46 AM
ajeeb indeed..
why would any brothers say that ask her to whow you which brothers stated these thigns and get people to speak to them..
seems very weird story indeed..
father a atheist?? worrying fact indeed
allah knows best
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 11:54 AM
its sad..but kidnapping cases like this for weird reasons do happen...maybe it was not necessarily because of her hijab...
but as advice to me first and everyone else, do not doubt what she is saying unless there is sufficient reason for that.. u shud trust what another muslim says unless their credibility has been proven otherwise.
just imagine if what has happened to her is true..yet everones shes told has given a response dismissing her...how wud she be feeling????
its sad..but kidnapping cases like this for weird reasons do happen...maybe it was not necessarily because of her hijab...
but as advice to me first and everyone else, do not doubt what she is saying unless there is sufficient reason for that.. u shud trust what another muslim says unless their credibility has been proven otherwise.
just imagine if what has happened to her is true..yet everones shes told has given a response dismissing her...how wud she be feeling????
exactly!
im glad u understand my point..
i dont want to label her a liar..
ive never met her in my life..and i shudnt be saying this..but it may be true..shockingly she is very pretty..never know..maybe in the coming weeks.
Shockingly she is pretty?!!?!? :rofl1: ookkkk
Shockingly she is pretty?!!?!? :rofl1: ookkkk
lol zesty dont be so cruel!
i meant ..shockingly it may be true..cos she has natural beauty.
lol zesty dont be so cruel!
i meant ..shockingly it may be true..cos she has natural beauty.
looolll! i'll reply to this thread properly abit later on inshaAllah, have to go otu for now! xx
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 12:04 PM
exactly!
im glad u understand my point..
i dont want to label her a liar..
ive never met her in my life..and i shudnt be saying this..but it may be true..shockingly she is very pretty..never know..maybe in the coming weeks.
i guess first u have to establish whether she is telling the truth..
and these things do happen..its not as far fetched as it seems
yeah, just give it some time..
junaidb
14-03-07, 12:19 PM
sis bint if she is 27 and a doc then this is what we would call a modernist......dnt get me wrong im not judging her imaan thats between her and Allah....but just telling it like i see it....
:coolbro:
sis bint if she is 27 and a doc then this is what we would call a modernist......dnt get me wrong im not judging her imaan thats between her and Allah....but just telling it like i see it....
:coolbro:
shes actually looking into islam..shes not had an islamic upbringing..but i like the fact that she hasnt dimissed it totally knowing her father..he is quiet keen that she doesnt look into islam..so maybe calling her a modernist is drastic..she doesnt stay stuck to one view..
junaidb
14-03-07, 12:31 PM
shes actually looking into islam..shes not had an islamic upbringing..but i like the fact that she hasnt dimissed it totally knowing her father..he is quiet keen that she doesnt look into islam..so maybe calling her a modernist is drastic..she doesnt stay stuck to one view..
this is then an ideal oppertunity to get her to join you at various lectures and at the same time get some pious person or Aalim to counsel her using hikmah......
its good that she hasnt completely dismissed it....Allahu A'Lam....
May Allah Guide her and keep us steadfast on siraatalmustaqeem.....ameen.....
:coolbro:
Umm 'Umarah
14-03-07, 02:40 PM
see i cant..kamz..
she sounds messed up..but i feel she knows what shes doing..cmon he dads n atheist..
she has a lifestyl eof a non muslim..i cant..i mean what wud i say to her?:S
i dont think im the right person to give dawah..id proll just mess it up.
I think you're the perfect person to give Da'wah, it seems she has little knowledge of true Islam, and due to her bad experiences she has a lack of faith, her father is an atheist so it goes without saying that this will have a huge affect on her perception of islam...and since you're a niqaabi (Masha'Allah:inlove:) if you haven't done your introduction already..basically just counteract everything she has said through your own experiences, that may inspire her to look more into Islam.
over the weeks, if it's not too difficult, make friends with her...and subtly give her da'wah I'm sure she herself may at some point ask you how it feels to wear hijab/niqaab.
Kamz..i cant do it..i dont have enough knowledge to give dawah..and what if she asks me a question and i stutter? that will show her im unsure of islam..id rather not say anything..lessaize faire..?
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 03:53 PM
Kamz..i cant do it..i dont have enough knowledge to give dawah..and what if she asks me a question and i stutter? that will show her im unsure of islam..id rather not say anything..lessaize faire..?
worst excuse ever :p
2. “I don’t have enough knowledge”
We don’t need to know the whole of the Qur’an or Bukhari before we can give da’wah. Having the basic knowledge of Islam is enough. Look at Abu Bakr (r.a) when he first embraced Islam, he didn’t wait until the whole Qu’ran had been revealed, rather he went out and called people to Tawheed, and 5 out of the 10 sahaba (r.a) promised paradise entered Islam at his hands. He took what little knowledge he had at the time and started spreading the message.
And the questions normally asked to us are not difficult ones, we will not be asked what are the opinions of the 4 madaahib on the issue of……… Rather they are usually simple questions which we should know.
Umm 'Umarah
14-03-07, 04:23 PM
Kamz..i cant do it..i dont have enough knowledge to give dawah..and what if she asks me a question and i stutter? that will show her im unsure of islam..id rather not say anything..lessaize faire..?
of course you do sis, don't say that..it's our job to give da'wah, people like that are better off learning about hijab through people like you rather than the biased stories they hear and learn of through the kuffar media.
I feel like that too,I don't have confidence in myself, I find it really really hard giving Da'wah to my own sisters and to friends who I have grown up with all my life.
our main duty living in Dar Al-harb..is to give Da'wah in situations such as this.
If things are awkward, give her some literature for her to read through in her own time.
Strict2TheSunna
14-03-07, 04:29 PM
She just wants attention.
worst excuse ever :p
2. “I don’t have enough knowledge”
We don’t need to know the whole of the Qur’an or Bukhari before we can give da’wah. Having the basic knowledge of Islam is enough. Look at Abu Bakr (r.a) when he first embraced Islam, he didn’t wait until the whole Qu’ran had been revealed, rather he went out and called people to Tawheed, and 5 out of the 10 sahaba (r.a) promised paradise entered Islam at his hands. He took what little knowledge he had at the time and started spreading the message.
And the questions normally asked to us are not difficult ones, we will not be asked what are the opinions of the 4 madaahib on the issue of……… Rather they are usually simple questions which we should know.
mashaALlah..i like that..very encouraging indeed..jazakAllah anna..:) :up:
of course you do sis, don't say that..it's our job to give da'wah, people like that are better off learning about hijab through people like you rather than the biased stories they hear and learn of through the kuffar media.
I feel like that too,I don't have confidence in myself, I find it really really hard giving Da'wah to my own sisters and to friends who I have grown up with all my life.
our main duty living in Dar Al-harb..is to give Da'wah in situations such as this.
If things are awkward, give her some literature for her to read through in her own time.
yup i think i will give her literature..
problme is anna n kamz..i dont think shes looking for or seeking some help..it feels to me that shes made up her mind..of how shes gonna be and spend the rest of her life..
she said she wont wear the hijab..because it interferes her work..etc..but she does want to..:(
She just wants attention.
guess thats ure opinion..but if u spoke to her..and listened to her..i dont think she was doing it for attention.:)
Kamz..i cant do it..i dont have enough knowledge to give dawah..and what if she asks me a question and i stutter? that will show her im unsure of islam..id rather not say anything..lessaize faire..?
Binty- sweetheart :) you dont have to be a big scholar or anything to give da'wah. For a muslim even their conduct and day to day behaviour should be da'wah (if we aim to conduct ourselves in the right manner inshaAllah). YOu can help and thats the truth! You know alot Alhamdullilah- ive read some of your posts. You might not know everything but then how many of us do?
You know enough probably to help this lady and answer the questions that may be of concern to her.
If you dont know, then just be honest! its the best policy. You can say- "i dont know the answer to that or im un-sure but i can definitely try and find out for you."
She probably doesnt want to be overloaded with info anyway (and that wouldnt be a good idea) but subtle and simple pointers will be beneficial. Whether this is true or not, or whether she is attention seeking- inshaAllah you do what you can, try and help and inshaAllah leave the rest to Allah. YOur intentions are good and may Allah (swt) reward you for that. Ameen :)
As Abdur Raheem Green once said to me, "every drop raises the ocean." Thats what da'wah is about. You can help- however little it might seem to you.
zesty thanx for ure kind works..im still wondering if i shud speak ore just give her literature..
:smack:
zesty thanx for ure kind works..im still wondering if i shud speak ore just give her literature..
:smack:
Maybe both? :) Dont overload- as in dont talk soo much that she ends up more confused than before. Just give her the basics, start off slow and also giveher some basic but GOOD literature inshaAllah.
$HugoBoss$
14-03-07, 07:52 PM
She just wants attention.
Exactly, some sisters these days would do anything to get it, so far fetched and unreal.
Exactly, some sisters these days would do anything to get it, so far fetched and unreal.
Aslong as youre willing to take the risk of not believing someone thats up to you. But even if she is attention seeking, wheres the harm in talking to her? maybe she has issues and has problems and just desperately needs someone to talk to? How is it going to harm anyone if you just sit and listen to someone? IM not saying be gullible and beieve everything- be sceptical and assess the whole situation ofcourse- by all means, but you could damage someone more by accusing them of something that is not true and might potentially be doing very wrong by not listening to someone's concern.
Each to their own- id atleast hear the person out and inshaAllah try and help in whatever way i could- and leave what i dont think is within my control or ability.
panther
14-03-07, 08:18 PM
sis bint if she is 27 and a doc then this is what we would call a modernist......dnt get me wrong im not judging her imaan thats between her and Allah....but just telling it like i see it....
:coolbro:
Wow... the whole thread is amazing... don't you people think you are being a little bit too judgemental? Does crap like this happen, sure it does and even worse! You guys automatically dismissed the story, and it says a lot more about your sheltered lives, than it does for her honesty (or the lack of). It could've happenned to her, and her fears could've been genuine. My advice Binty, is to be a good friend to her, and be there for her through good and bad as you would with your own brother/sister... and she may put her confidence back into her Muslim identity. :rolleyes:
And b.t.w. guys, leaflet pushing doesn't = d'awah.
Wow... the whole thread is amazing... don't you people think you are being a little bit too judgemental? Does crap like this happen, sure it does and even worse! You guys automatically dismissed the story, and it says a lot more about your sheltered lives, than it does for her honesty (or the lack of). It could've happenned to her, and her fears could've been genuine. My advice Binty, is to be a good friend to her, and be there for her through good and bad as you would with your own brother/sister... and she may put her confidence back into her Muslim identity. :rolleyes:
And b.t.w. guys, leaflet pushing doesn't = d'awah.
u know what? it my sound funny to u.but i got a whole load of leaflets..with mini lectures on em..and i used to read em as my bedtime story..and it put alot of iman in my heart..
i still rummage thru em..i think it was from mo saleem dhorats academy..but yeah its some good stuf..and thers alot of reality in it as well..so literature does work..:up:
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 09:28 PM
mashaALlah..i like that..very encouraging indeed..jazakAllah anna..:) :up:
what does jazak allahanna mean? :scratch:
And b.t.w. guys, leaflet pushing doesn't = d'awah.
true..it is only a part of daw'ah but it shudnt be discouraged, neither is it a replacement for face to face daw'ah eithr
what does jazak allahanna mean? :scratch:
:wacko:
:wacko:
and you differ how!??!?! :rolleyes:
and you differ how!??!?! :rolleyes:
oi do not turn this into binty bashing thread:mad:
:1popcorn:
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 09:34 PM
:wacko:
:scratch:
sorry its meant to be jazak'Allah anna....<- does it mean sumthing in arabic??
cos at first i thought u meant Anna..but that wudnt make sense :scratch:
panther
14-03-07, 09:34 PM
u know what? it my sound funny to u.but i got a whole load of leaflets..with mini lectures on em..and i used to read em as my bedtime story..and it put alot of iman in my heart..
i still rummage thru em..i think it was from mo saleem dhorats academy..but yeah its some good stuf..and thers alot of reality in it as well..so literature does work..:up:
what may work for you bint,wouldn't necessarily work for others, what I'm saying is that the following statement:
im still wondering if i shud speak ore just give her literature..
worries me... that giving a leaflet would somehow compensate talking to someone and getting to know them on a personal level.
:scratch:
sorry its meant to be jazak'Allah anna....<- does it mean sumthing in arabic??
cos at first i thought u meant Anna..but that wudnt make sense :scratch:
lol are u for real?
okay i mean..Anna is her name..u know Anna the mod :p
oi do not turn this into binty bashing thread:mad:
:1popcorn:
lool... how can we ever resist!!! :rolleyes: thats the whole point of having the forum here!!! :torture:
anyways... stop bein such a softy.. and be as you are with others.. regardless of religion.. remmeber.. it;s ONLY and issue.. if you MAKE It one...
if you don;t know the answer to something.. sya you don;t know.. but you will find out and let em know!!!
but DON;T let that be a barrier... and also... don;t go off on one... remember to take things peicemeal!!
:scratch:
sorry its meant to be jazak'Allah anna....<- does it mean sumthing in arabic??
cos at first i thought u meant Anna..but that wudnt make sense :scratch:
hahahahaa :rofl1: sorry-its funny! :p
what may work for you bint,wouldn't necessarily work for others, what I'm saying is that the following statement:
worries me... that giving a leaflet would somehow compensate talking to someone and getting to know them on a personal level.
yeah but sod it i cant talk to her, man id close up..
hell! talk to her about what? shes reading into islam..must be a good timing if i give her the dawah to new muslims or practising muslims book?:rubeyes:
lool... how can we ever resist!!! :rolleyes: thats the whole point of having the forum here!!! :torture:
anyways... stop bein such a softy.. and be as you are with others.. regardless of religion.. remmeber.. it;s ONLY and issue.. if you MAKE It one...
if you don;t know the answer to something.. sya you don;t know.. but you will find out and let em know!!!
but DON;T let that be a barrier... and also... don;t go off on one... remember to take things peicemeal!!
nah la tane hamajh nath partee..
this lass is a very 'i know what im doin, dont tell me what to do' kinda woman..so ...me yapping on at her..i dont think it will do much difference..
i think my main question out this thread wasnt ust dawah it was the fact that she said she was controlled by men when she was wearing the hijab..lets just say..ive never herd of it and it seemed so bizzare..so i wanted to know if anyone else has heard of this?..:o
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 09:39 PM
lol are u for real?
okay i mean..Anna is her name..u know Anna the mod :p
lool..i know Anna's a mod..but why say that after quoting my post..hence the it doesnt make sense part :p and why im asking if it means something in arabic :p
hahahahaa :rofl1: sorry-its funny! :p
no its not :p
lool..i know Anna's a mod..but why say that after quoting my post..hence the it doesnt make sense part :p and why im asking if it means something in arabic :p
no its not :p
but ibn suleman.......arrghhh u fillin me head with kachrumar :(
i dont understand..
i know why ure playng with my mind..its cos i was picking on u today innit?:torture:
nah la tane hamajh nath partee..
this lass is a very 'i know what im doin, dont tell me what to do' kinda woman..so ...me yapping on at her..i dont think it will do much difference..
i think my main question out this thread wasnt ust dawah it was the fact that she said she was controlled by men when she was wearing the hijab..lets just say..ive never herd of it and it seemed so bizzare..so i wanted to know if anyone else has heard of this?..:o
bintle masi... badheee hamaj parayt!!! :rolleyes: you;re bein a sorty and bonaw karayt!!!
just be yourself!!! yap yap karwanu koi nat kaytu!!! but striike convo with her!!!
pan pachi.. mathu nah khai jateee!! :smack:
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 09:45 PM
but ibn suleman.......arrghhh u fillin me head with kachrumar :(
i dont understand..
lool..now u dont understand :p
go look at ur post-post 31
u quote me..and read what u say after.. :p
i know why ure playng with my mind..its cos i was picking on u today innit?:torture:
nah.. i wudnt do that..thats not me :p
bintle masi... badheee hamaj parayt!!! :rolleyes: you;re bein a sorty and bonaw karayt!!!
just be yourself!!! yap yap karwanu koi nat kaytu!!! but striike convo with her!!!
pan pachi.. mathu nah khai jateee!! :smack:
shes older than me man..seriously i aint maing excuses..i just i dunno..Yeah ill give it a try..lets see..Make duas.:o
lool..now u dont understand :p
go look at ur post-post 31
u quote me..and read what u say after.. :p
nah.. i wudnt do that..thats not me :p
lol okay okay..so i qoted u? and i said thnx to anna..
sorry my bad my mistake..maaf karna :smack:
shes older than me man..seriously i aint maing excuses..i just i dunno..Yeah ill give it a try..lets see..Make duas.:o
atta gurl!! :up:
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 09:49 PM
lol okay okay..so i qoted u? and i said thnx to anna..
sorry my bad my mistake..maaf karna :smack:
lool..i was actually just wondering if it meant sumthing in arabic..and u had to go complicate things for me :p
anyway back to thread topic...
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 09:50 PM
shes older than me man..seriously i aint maing excuses..i just i dunno..Yeah ill give it a try..lets see..Make duas.:o
:up:
lool..i was actually just wondering if it meant sumthing in arabic..and u had to go complicate things for me :p
anyway back to thread topic...
no ways u made it all sound like 'outta space' but then thats always expected from ibn sule the dreamer:D
yes back to the topic.:D
anti-minger
14-03-07, 09:51 PM
i miss ucl days
:(
i miss ucl days
:(
Its a beautful university :) i was in awe when i saw it and visited it.
anti-minger
14-03-07, 09:53 PM
Its a beautful university :) i was in awe when i saw it and visited it.
init. its true what they say..uni is the best experience!
(i gota say though i also loved school :P)
:(
init. its true what they say..uni is the best experience!
(i gota say though i also loved school :P)
:(
LOL! i agree with you- i loved undergrad days! man the memoriesssss :D but college was the best! school was good too youre right, im still in touch with a few friends ive known since i was like 13!
init. its true what they say..uni is the best experience!
(i gota say though i also loved school :P)
:(
Uni rawwwwwwwwwwwwwkkkeedddddd!!! (obviously.. coz i rawwwked it!!) :hidban:
Umm 'Umarah
14-03-07, 09:54 PM
She sounds like a bit of a feminist, I don't mean to be judgemental...but the "controlled by men" comment makes her come across that way...alot of women view hijab as it's some huge restriction on them and not the men..and they feel controlled by that.
Best thing binty, is just be yourself, If you do happen to get chatting to her...just be yourself..:up: show her what a lovely person you are, what a liberated Muslimah you are, and all the God given rights you have. the benefits of protecting your chastity and honour which will benefit you ...not just in this world but in the hereafter.
Uni rawwwwwwwwwwwwwkkkeedddddd!!! (obviously.. coz i rawwwked it!!) :hidban:
:rolleyes: yeh whatever.
anti-minger
14-03-07, 09:56 PM
Uni rawwwwwwwwwwwwwkkkeedddddd!!! (obviously.. coz i rawwwked it!!) :hidban:
same here!!!
Oh uni days. what fun days they were!
*sniff*
lol can u guys stop crying please! sheesh i dont have that many tissues..:smack:
ibn suleman
14-03-07, 09:57 PM
i went ucl :D
but thats :icon_offtopic:
oh wait a min..its not..is it :scratch:
i went ucl :D
but thats :icon_offtopic:
oh wait a min..its not..is it :scratch:
NOPE! talking about uni and uni memories is never off topic! aahh those were the daysss! sighh i wana go back! I want my isoc back.
anti-minger
14-03-07, 10:00 PM
NOPE! talking about uni and uni memories is never off topic! aahh those were the daysss! sighh i wana go back! I want my isoc back.
so do zesty!
:(
ibn suleman you also went to ucl?wow
im kinda surprised at how many exuni/uni students are on this forum
so when did you finish uni?
its been nearly a year for me :(
NOPE! talking about uni and uni memories is never off topic! aahh those were the daysss! sighh i wana go back! I want my isoc back.
ahhhhh so do i!!! (i was president!!! :D )
they were the dayyyss!!! :coolbro: all that studying!!! maannn!! :D
*passes round tissues*
please stop crying...those tears are splattin on moi-*gulps*
ahhhhh so do i!!! (i was president!!! :D )
they were the dayyyss!!! :coolbro: all that studying!!! maannn!! :D
hahaha mashaAllah! What uni did you go to?
the studying?! hahahahaha im not sure i know what that was about :p actually wait- we turned the library into our hangout too! second floor was famous for the asians! :rofl1:
Anti- yeehh good old days.. i only finished undergrad in 2005 :) im still a student! lol but the experience is nothing like undergrad. I had soo much fun! and met some great people too!
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