How do I become a good muslim

[Sophiya]

I live in Britain and grew up in as a muslim. i never did the outwardly bad things but i didn't pray or missed some days of fasting, now i've tries sevral times to get back into the routine of being a good muslim, but i last a few days before it all becomes something i do out of knowing i have to do it. i know it is the right thing to do, but my heart won't take it on. plaese advise me on how to make a islam apart of my life for the better and so it doesn't feel like a chore. everyone thinks i am a good muslim on the oustide-(i dress the part) but i don't feel it, so how can i?
Any advice would be welcomed. thank you
Assalamu Alaikum

[AbuMubarak]

reflect upon death

reflect upon death

reflect upon death

look at Allah's creation, increase your awareness of who your Lord is, your purpose here, the fitnah in the world, the blessings of Allah upon you, daily miracles you encounter

read about the life of the prophet and the our righteous predecessors, read quran

then make the salat and beg Allah to increase you in knowledge and faith

and reflect upon death, the Last Day, and the Day of Judgement