whyyyyy????

[ibn suleman]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....

[bint]

cos men are just :wacko:

[nami]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....

deleted.
nevermind.

[miss-ali]

cos men are just :wacko:
ditto...

[bint]

but i cant live without em..i need someone to hold my shopping :eek:

[ibn suleman]

:smack:

ur not meant to prove the point.

[-Shamil-]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....


have they?????

where?

i aint really seen it

[Medievalist]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....

cos some people have been blessed with the gift to recognise people?

[nami]

:smack:

ur not meant to prove the point.

im a brother, and i was about to prove the point... so i deleted.

[Chained_Water]

cos some people* have been blessed with the gift to recognise people**?
*read: women
**read: men for what they really are

:D

[ibn suleman]

:wacko:

[Medievalist]

*read: women
**read: men for what they really are

:D

she's a bit confused - poor lass :wacko:

[.: Anna :.]

I dont know, I think its quite silly when people have these kind of views it seems like some kind of extreme feminism or male chauvinism :S. We know many good examples from the males and from the females from history until now, and we dont need to make a gender war. Its suprising why people do think like this as dont they know members of the opposite sex in their own family so they would know that they are good and normal like their own gender. Its a bit immature 2 feel that a gender war type attitude is always necessary. Males n females were created 2 work in a complementary way 2 each other as companions not as enemies 2 try n cuss each other all the time.

[miss-ali]

she's a bit confused - poor lass :wacko:
me think your the confused one bro....cause CW appeared to be making perfect sense

[-Shamil-]

ibn suleman you just started what you were seeking to avoid :smack:

[RaNdOm]

ibn suleman you just started what you were seeking to avoid :smack:

:salams

looooool so true but he probably dint realise that :p

[Chained_Water]

ibn suleman you just started what you were seeking to avoid :smack:
Men :rolleyes: ..just typical of them to make something out of nothing!

:D

[ibn suleman]

I dont know, I think its quite silly when people have these kind of views it seems like some kind of extreme feminism or male chauvinism :S. We know many good examples from the males and from the females from history until now, and we dont need to make a gender war. Its suprising why people do think like this as dont they know members of the opposite sex in their own family so they would know that they are good and normal like their own gender. Its a bit immature 2 feel that a gender war type attitude is always necessary. Males n females were created 2 work in a complementary way 2 each other as companions not as enemies 2 try n cuss each other all the time.

:up:

ibn suleman you just started what you were seeking to avoid :smack:

i know :(

[-Shamil-]

Men :rolleyes: ..just typical of them to make something out of nothing!

:D

u cant bait me - im unbait-able :D

i know :(

well dont just stand around moping - do something! quick before al-irhaab gets here and all hell breaks loose :torture:

[ibn suleman]

u cant bait me - im unbait-able :D



well dont just stand around moping - do something! quick before al-irhaab gets here and all hell breaks loose :torture:

im thinking, i'm thinking.......(might be here a while)

[Guvna]

Irhaab has been duly notified..! :outta:

[`asiya]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....

barakAllahu feek, absolutely right akhi far too much poison being spread in the ummah in this regard.

Abu Hurayrah narrated the messenger of Allah salallahu alleyhi wa salam said

"do not envy one another, do not turn away from one another and do not offer a lower price against one another so that you can sell your goods instead of the other, but be bondsmen of Allah and brethren. A Muslim is the brother of another Muslim, he should not opress him, nor lie to him, nor should he despise him, righteousness is here (he pointed to his heart three times) despising a Muslim is extremely evil. Everything that belongs to a Muslim, either his blood, property or fame, is forbidden to any other Muslim."

Sahih Muslim

thats for men and women were all muslims after all.

[Abu Muslim]

Its because men and women both smell.

But honestly, its because deen is not there, if it was, then they'd acknowledge Allah created both to live side by side, one with the other, or possibly...one with the four others *smiles*

[Irfan GBH]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....

What have you gone and created? :rolleyes:

[Hafsah]

i think deep down all anti-men/men-are-losers siss' know that there are good brothers out there, and similarly all anti-women/men-are-far-superior bros' know that there are good siss' out there

i guess it comes down to our high expectations, and the fact of the matter not matter people meet these expectations, leavings us kind of disillusioned

[Eemaan]

men are so demanding :(

[Medievalist]

WOmen are so demanding :(

I AGREE:up:

[scribble]

Face it, it's simple.

Women just so totally rawk.
Men have lurgies. :up:

[bint]

women have emotions
men dont *im so hard dont mess with me* *yeah man yeah yeah yeah*

[sis_sarah]

*read: women
**read: men for what they really are

:D

lol

[Al-Irhaab]

Irhaab has been duly notified..! :outta:

i actually always quantify my remarks by saying SOME women or SOME men... its the height of ignorance when someone says men are like this or women are like that :rolleyes:

[MG]

i actually always quantify my remarks by saying SOME women or SOME men... its the height of ignorance when someone says men are like this or women are like that :rolleyes:

ditto, excellent point

[GuCcI]

women have emotions
men dont *im so hard dont mess with me* *yeah man yeah yeah yeah*


salaam

excellent imitation! :up: haha.. *applause*

[bint]

salaam

excellent imitation! :up: haha.. *applause*
see i live with men. so know ..

u get me?:coolbro:

[Medievalist]

having trouble here :scratch:

see i live with men. so know ..

u get me?:coolbro:

and


women have emotions
men dont *im so hard dont mess with me* *yeah man yeah yeah yeah*

aint u a gujji? what gujji men say the bits in bold? :scratch:


:rotfl:

[bint]

aye and so do the pakis n begalis that live round my area..what problem to u have? absorbing info? :D

[Medievalist]

aye and so do the pakis n begalis that live round my area..what problem to u have? absorbing info? :D

gujji women are probably tougher than gujji men :rotfl:

:rotfl:

[bint]

aye you got that right:inlove:


flexes muscles*

[ibn suleman]

i actually always quantify my remarks by saying SOME women or SOME men... its the height of ignorance when someone says men are like this or women are like that :rolleyes:

:up:

[Benyamin]

barakAllahu feek, absolutely right akhi far too much poison being spread in the ummah in this regard.

Abu Hurayrah narrated the messenger of Allah salallahu alleyhi wa salam said

"do not envy one another, do not turn away from one another and do not offer a lower price against one another so that you can sell your goods instead of the other, but be bondsmen of Allah and brethren. A Muslim is the brother of another Muslim, he should not opress him, nor lie to him, nor should he despise him, righteousness is here (he pointed to his heart three times) despising a Muslim is extremely evil. Everything that belongs to a Muslim, either his blood, property or fame, is forbidden to any other Muslim."

Sahih Muslim

thats for men and women were all muslims after all.

:jkk: Ukthi

[faishaan]

aye you got that right:inlove:


flexes muscles*wow i never seen a skeleton trying flex muscles before :D

[bint]

wow i never seen a skeleton trying flex muscles before :D
ure seein one now:D

[Te'oma]

Men :rolleyes: ..just typical of them to make something out of nothing!

:D


I'd call that quite a skill

now my wife and daughters have this other skill...my wallet can be nice and full and if I'm not real careful with them, pretty soon that nice full wallet will have nothing at all in it :D

[Quest]

Its because men and women both smell.

But honestly, its because deen is not there, if it was, then they'd acknowledge Allah created both to live side by side, one with the other, or possibly...one with the four others *smiles*


lol:rolleyes:

[Redmist]

gujji women are probably tougher than gujji men :rotfl:

:rotfl:

Ey ey ey........watch ur mouth mate. Im a guji and ive took on a few pakis in my time so av some respect!

Not all gujis are softies, just like not all pakis are hard as ****

[Quest]

whats a gugii?

[Medievalist]

Ey ey ey........watch ur mouth mate. Im a guji and ive took on a few pakis in my time so av some respect!

Not all gujis are softies, just like not all pakis are hard as ****

u have my sympathies mate.

:rotfl:

[bint]

med as usual laughin at his own jokes :wacko:

[.: Anna :.]

whats a gugii?gujerati, theyre a type of indian

[Na'eemah]

gujerati, theyre a type of indian

whats a gugii?

A guji (Gujrati) is a term used for a person from/originating from Gujrat in India.

[Redmist]

u have my sympathies mate.

:rotfl:

Better than being a paki innit :torture:

[sis_sarah]

well i dnt have no problems... at all

[Jigsaw]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....insecurities, bad experiences, and surrounding culture

ive noticed...the people who hate women or men, has to change himself before he/she expects the mass around them to change for them

because of our bad experiences and opinions, we feed of the negativity we see around us in the women and men, and form opinions, we act and say things

but we just need to see the good in people, because yourself is not perfect

i suppose when you get older, you actually realise what a in-perfect thing a human you can be

[Al-Irhaab]

I'd call that quite a skill

now my wife and daughters have this other skill...my wallet can be nice and full and if I'm not real careful with them, pretty soon that nice full wallet will have nothing at all in it :D

tell me about it :rotfl:

i meet my sis in the town centre whilst im getting some food and shes at the bank and shes like i need some money for lunch so im like i havent got any cash but i got my card if u want some money... shes like nah cant be bothered i got 5 pound i was like :rubeyes: why did u say u needed money she was like whateva :rolleyes:

[beardsong]

im thinking, i'm thinking.......(might be here a while)

Why? Are you blond?

[$HugoBoss$]

Better than being a paki innit :torture:

Gujus= Indian Jews :D

[ghanamuslima]

cos unfortunately so many brothers these days don't FEAR ALLAH, you would not believe what so called brothers are doing out there, and i mean ones with big beard, going around dressed sunnah and so on.

[muslim_sis]

cos unfortunately so many brothers these days don't FEAR ALLAH, you would not believe what so called brothers are doing out there, and i mean ones with big beard, going around dressed sunnah and so on.
true...but i guess, from the question [below]...

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

its usually in reference to marriage and well i guess people must not see good examples around theirselves, but then again we have the best example of the prophet (saw), so inshallah that will help such people get over it !

[RashidD]

Face it, it's simple.

Women just so totally rawk.
Men have lurgies. :up:

What's a lurgy/ lurgie? :rubeyes:

[muslim_sis]

What's a lurgy/ lurgie? :rubeyes:
jetsies, lurgies ... u knw ...

[Zesty]

What's a lurgy/ lurgie? :rubeyes:

Germs :)

[Kubs]

why have some Muslims got such bad opinions about members of the opposite sex?

what happened to avoiding suspicion, thinikng the best of a Muslim etc....

I agree - though most of the time my opinions of certain people are proved correct. I'm not judgemental but sometimes people/things aren't always what they seem.