question 4 sistaz n brudaz

[JiHaDiYa]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:

[Na'eemah]

Ask someone of the same gender to ask them?

Get a mahrem/guardian to ask them.

[Umm 'Umarah]

Ask someone that knows them

[Eemaan]

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you get one of these and real em in :D

*ahem, serious face*

you need an intermediary

[-T-]

I'm not married.

Tahirrrrrrrrrrrrrr :up:

[Al-Irhaab]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:

and why do you want to know if theyre married :rolleyes:

[Lambo5688]

Just walk past, and glance at her hand...if she isn't wearing a ring.....ur light is green.

If she is, then ur stuck in traffic.

[Abu Mus'ab]

If you're a man get your sister to ask

If you're a woman get your brother to ask.

[muslim_sis]

Ask someone of the same gender to ask them?

Get a mahrem/guardian to ask them.
agreed!

[uhkt_al'muminun]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:

ya bint trust it 2 b u 2 ask such a random q's man :D

what would i do... hmm alllahuailm. knowing me i'd probably just shtoom and not say a word nd play as cool as kn b :coolsis:

so no dnt take my advvise :D

[Masumah]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:


the sensible way wud be to ask sumone who knows dem..the unsensible way wud be to stalk them and watch der evry move using binoculars :p

[Masumah]

Just walk past, and glance at her hand...if she isn't wearing a ring.....ur light is green.

If she is, then ur stuck in traffic.


wot has a ring got to do with this??? we shudnt folow the kaafir tradition of wearin rings to symbolise wedlock.

[muslim_sis]

ya bint trust it 2 b u 2 ask such a random q's man :D

what would i do... hmm alllahuailm. knowing me i'd probably just shtoom and not say a word nd play as cool as kn b :coolsis:

so no dnt take my advvise :D
boo ! [lol]
shes asking for a way to tackle it , a way to go about it , lol .. [ur a flight huh , wheres da fight ?!!]

[uhkt_al'muminun]

boo ! [lol]
shes asking for a way to tackle it , a way to go about it , lol .. [ur a flight huh , wheres da fight ?!!]

every little helps ;)

[muslim_sis]

every little helps ;)
course ! MashAllah !

[Abu Muslim]

So basically you're saying someone's seen a brother at talks and they are interested in him but don't know if hes married.

Ask your brother/a sisters brother to find out for you, and use the same source to find out more about him and take things from there..

[Kal-El]

If you ask someone of the same gender, then how do you know if they're not interested in him too? :rolleyes: They could just lie to you and say "yes, he is married...dont bother" whereas in fact he is not married, and they want him for themselves.

*goes back to watch Spiders and drugs*

[Abu Muslim]

If you ask someone of the same gender, then how do you know if they're not interested in him too? :rolleyes: They could just lie to you and say "yes, he is married...dont bother" whereas in fact he is not married, and they want him for themselves.

*goes back to watch Spiders and drugs*



That's why you ask his sister..which I'm pretty sure won't be interested in him. If they reply, "dont bother"..you know theres some competition going on.

Theres no one you should be asking except his blood, mother or sister of the same gender, or you could ask his cousin I guess. If he has friends who are girls..then there's obviously a problem there.

[Chained_Water]

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:
This is why many sisters I know chose to wear niqaab especially for islamic events or jummah etc :rolleyes:

I think it can be a good idea..

Where there a hige bunch of bros and sisters tgthr.. you get this.

..as for your question: Ask your mum/dad (depending if it's a bro or sis) to go and find out. If you ain't gonna do that, don't bother wasting the persons time innit.

[Rameez]

Hmm thas a hard one, I personally would never have the guts to go and ask the person by myself, maybe ask a random person to ask em?

[Nusayba]

Dial Ur Mahrams #

and I think it's best u know more about the person before u fall for their looks only, not that u do but u know what i'm saying.:afro:

[Niqaabi]

yup just get someone of the same sex as them (but not YOUR ghayr mahram, like dont pull out a random and ask them to ask :rolleyes: ) and get them to ask if they are, easy.
And if your too shy to do that, then i dont know, i dont see any other way.

[Rameez]

yup just get someone of the same sex as them (but not YOUR ghayr mahram, like dont pull out a random and ask them to ask :rolleyes: ) and get them to ask if they are, easy.
And if your too shy to do that, then i dont know, i dont see any other way.

or be a Soldier and do it youself :P

[`asiya]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:

just get your muslim walli to go and find out, and to ask about them, thats what the walli is for Alhamdulillah :up:

[Medievalist]

I think Jihadiya meant to ask - how do u find out if they're married FOUR times. If not then no problem for ya .

:rotfl:

[Muttaqi]

Just a thought, I thought it would be difficult for a sister to want to propose to a brother just by seeing him at an event.....I mean what about his (potential) ugly personality?

[Lambo5688]

wot has a ring got to do with this??? we shudnt folow the kaafir tradition of wearin rings to symbolise wedlock.

yea but admit it. nowadays everyone is wearing a ring to "symbolise".

[leela]

yea but admit it. nowadays everyone is wearing a ring to "symbolise".

Not everyone, no. My mum doesn't wear a wedding ring (she is married) and I wear one even though I'm not.

[Lu'Lu]

Not everyone, no. My mum doesn't wear a wedding ring (she is married) and I wear one even though I'm not.

Some people recommend wearing it in societies where it may avoid you unnecessary hassle. Sometimes if men see a woman in the workplace with a wedding band on her finger, it earns her a bit more respect and people distance themselves from her.

I know of sisters who were single living in Egypt who wore wedding bands to ward off any leering Arab men who would otherwise pop the question.:o

As long as your intention is not to imitate the kuffar..i.e dont wear it thinking that it will strengthen your marital bond and if you take it off your marriage is void etc., then maybe its ok?

Allahu Alam

[Lost_Princess]

Just walk past, and glance at her hand...if she isn't wearing a ring.....ur light is green.

If she is, then ur stuck in traffic.

lmao :D well many ppl dont wear rings if they are married majority being men ;) so u cant really tell by just walking past and looking at their fingers lol:D:D:D:D

[OBL]

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it?

u been going to many events..

[`asiya]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:

in the case of a brother, even if he is married then masha Allah as long as he has less then 4 wives no problem. send the walli to enquire masha Allah :up:

[Al Qadr]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:

I'm not married.

Tahirrrrrrrrrrrrrr :up:

Is this a hint :outta:

[Fais]

I'm not married.

Tahirrrrrrrrrrrrrr :up:

lol.

[Lambo5688]

Is this a hint :outta:

Indeed it was.

[Kal-El]

I'm not married.

Tahirrrrrrrrrrrrrr :up:

:D

[ghanamuslima]

send ur wali to ask them:)

[Quest]

There is a sister i know, saw a da'i quite often she liked him but didnt know much, i dont think going the wali way was simple for her there was some complication.

anyways one day she went to the dawah table when the brother wasnt there, and asked his friend whether or not he was married the friend replied "No he isnt, and he had his eye on u sister" (not literally):rolleyes:

i dont know exactly what happened next, but a few months later they were married.

moral? Go figure.

ok what would i do if i wanted to know a particular bro was married?

honestly am a sly one, i always get my information with my intention remaining inconspicous. muhahaha

[Medievalist]

moral? Go figure.

:scratch:

they were checking each other out?

:rotfl:

:asta:

tawbah tawbah :o

[Quest]

:scratch:

they were checking each other out?

:rotfl:

:asta:

tawbah tawbah :o


:rotfl: :rotfl: nothing gets passed u does it:rolleyes:

[bintadam]

get sum1 hu is da same gender 2 ask

[Medievalist]

:rotfl: :rotfl: nothing gets passed u does it:rolleyes:

alhamdulillah not much - I've always been inquisitive and curious and intelligent - alhamdulillah :rotfl:

[Quest]

alhamdulillah not much - I've always been inquisitive and curious and intelligent - alhamdulillah :rotfl:

lol talk abt blowing ur own horn:D

[sunrise]

As, hope all r good inshallah (tala)

well, my question is:

If there is a random sista/bruda u see often lyk lets say at events, and u wanna no if there married, how wud u go about it? :rolleyes:


do what i'd do

Go up to them and say brother your wife is waiting for you outside she told me to give you teh message and if he says "No i'm not married" then wooo hoo for you but then you gotta find an excuse for why you went up him randomly:scratch: 'like oh sorry i thought u were sum1 else" aheem lol


And if he is married then khayr inshAllah Allah (swt) brings you some1 better:inlove: :inlove: :inlove:

[Quest]

do what i'd do

Go up to them and say brother your wife is waiting for you outside she told me to give you teh message and if he says "No i'm not married" then wooo hoo for you but then you gotta find an excuse for why you went up him randomly:scratch: 'like oh sorry i thought u were sum1 else" aheem lol


And if he is married then khayr inshAllah Allah (swt) brings you some1 better:inlove: :inlove: :inlove:

:rotfl:
the high lighted part would be considered a lie therefore that option goes out the window.

the idea in general is real smart lool u seem like a pro how many ppl have u tried that with loool

[Medievalist]

lol talk abt blowing ur own horn:D

no1 else does :(:(

[muslim_sis]

do what i'd do

Go up to them and say brother your wife is waiting for you outside she told me to give you teh message and if he says "No i'm not married" then wooo hoo for you but then you gotta find an excuse for why you went up him randomly:scratch: 'like oh sorry i thought u were sum1 else" aheem lol


And if he is married then khayr inshAllah Allah (swt) brings you some1 better:inlove: :inlove: :inlove:
lol sis :rotfl: one way of going about it huh ! lol

[sunrise]

:rotfl:
the high lighted part would be considered a lie therefore that option goes out the window.

the idea in general is real smart lool u seem like a pro how many ppl have u tried that with loool


Okay then, just say 'woopsi" and walk away:D