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muslim_sis
22-12-06, 05:55 PM
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu

So, heres another quite random, strange question...

If you brothers were sisters , what would you want for your mahr (dowry) lol ?

Sister contribute too!

or maybe i should pose one at the sisters .. if sisters were brothers, what would u want to give [what would be too much do u think]? and brothers do u feel stressed when u think about mahr (dowry) , like is it a burden ?

nami
22-12-06, 05:58 PM
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu

So, heres another quite random, strange question...

If you brothers were sisters , what would you want for your mahr (dowry) lol ?

Sister contribute too!

or maybe i should pose one at the sisters .. if sisters were brothers, what would u want to give [what would be too much do u think]? and brothers do u feel stressed when u think about mahr (dowry) , like is it a burden ?

yes i do feel its a burden when its the parents who force the girl to ask for excessive amounts of dowry (10s of thousands of pounds).

and its worse when you want to get married and you dont have any money... :)

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:00 PM
yes i do feel its a burden when its the parents who force the girl to ask for excessive amounts of dowry (10s of thousands of pounds).

and its worse when you want to get married and you dont have any money... :)
yeh ok... but what u want , dont think like a man for a moment , forget its a burden, pretend ur a sis ... what would want as dowry !?

nami
22-12-06, 06:03 PM
yeh ok... but what u want , dont think like a man for a moment , forget its a burden, pretend ur a sis ... what would want as dowry !?

i know this will be hard for people to believe, but i would want nothing. its the way i am. i've never been able to accept money from anyone.

i used to work as a builder for a little while and the guy used to pay by cash. and i was unable to take it from him. so i said, if you want to pay me, pay it into my account, dont give it in hand.

ah yeah, in the end i quit the job, because he said im only gonna give you cash. so i worked for a month without pay! :D

MMS
22-12-06, 06:05 PM
erm an umrah trip would be nice

i dont feel it is asking too much :embar:
since i only want to get married so i can have a mehrem to travel with bwahaha user

puella
22-12-06, 06:11 PM
nice thread sis!

Kal-El
22-12-06, 06:14 PM
I wouldn't want anything.

The concept of the dowry is excellent, but parents put so much emphasis on alot of money to be given that it causes more issues than it solves.

Since when did marriage in Islam be just about money, and yet encourage people to marry when they're young...what are we supposed to do, thieve?

The women need to think about this. Do they want money for material things, or have their husbands just save up for when they actually need the money in their marriage? e.g. for children

Jeez :rolleyes:

nami
22-12-06, 06:15 PM
I wouldn't want anything.

The concept of the dowry is excellent, but parents put so much emphasis on alot of money to be given that it causes more issues than it solves.

Since when did marriage in Islam be just about money, and yet encourage people to marry when they're young...what are we supposed to do, thief?

Jeez :rolleyes:

maybe start drug dealing!
a lot of money in drug dealing apparently! :)

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:17 PM
I wouldn't want anything.

The concept of the dowry is excellent, but parents put so much emphasis on alot of money to be given that it causes more issues than it solves.

Since when did marriage in Islam be just about money, and yet encourage people to marry when they're young...what are we supposed to do, thief?

Jeez :rolleyes:
i didnt say it was just about that .. there is hadeeth to say that the most simplistic mahr is the best ... but i was just wondering what bros would want being in our seat ... also..its not for the parents , im asking about the individual sister, if u was a sis what YOU would want, pretend theres no family pressure for now lol...

nami
22-12-06, 06:19 PM
i didnt say it was just about that .. there is hadeeth to say that the most simplistic mahr is the best ... but i was just wondering what bros would want being in our seat ... also..its not for the parents , im asking about the individual sister, if u was a sis what YOU would want, pretend theres no family pressure for now lol...

nothing, im unable to accept money, presents whatever. but im sure there are people who find it easier to accept gifts unlike me. i dont think it is possible for a brother to sound unbiased about this.

Nusayba bint Ka'b
22-12-06, 06:19 PM
If I was a brother, I would take my wife to the Taj mahal. I would show her all the 7 wonders of the world and make her feel like a princess.

I would offer to come with me and pray in the most beautiful mosques on earth From Madina to Mecca, to Turkey, and India, Africa and Europe and Australia.

:embar:

nami
22-12-06, 06:21 PM
If I was a brother, I would take my wife to the Taj mahal. I would show her all the 7 wonders of the world and make her feel like a princess.

I would offer to come with me and pray in the most beautiful mosques on earth From Madina to Mecca, to Turkey, and India, Africa and Europe and Australia.

:embar:

the mahr is what she wants, not what you want to give :p

muslimah85
22-12-06, 06:23 PM
If I was a brother, I would take my wife to the Taj mahal. I would show her all the 7 wonders of the world and make her feel like a princess.

I would offer to come with me and pray in the most beautiful mosques on earth From Madina to Mecca, to Turkey, and India, Africa and Europe and Australia.

:embar:
:inlove: If you were a man Id marry you!


*ahem *

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:23 PM
nothing, im unable to accept money, presents whatever. but im sure there are people who find it easier to accept gifts unlike me. i dont think it is possible for a brother to sound unbiased about this.
well to tell the truth im like that too, thats why itd be such a difficult thing to decide... its fair enough to say to the husband to be , ''you choose'' innit !!??

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:24 PM
:inlove: If you were a man Id marry you!


*ahem *
lol , those lines sound familiar lol...

muslimah85
22-12-06, 06:25 PM
lol , those lines sound familiar lol...
hehehe ..........


Do they? :scratch:

Do tell? :D

Nusayba bint Ka'b
22-12-06, 06:25 PM
Nami Some Sisters don't know what they want, I've been in that situation myself:p:

sometimes the brothers come up with the idea...

and muslim sis did say this:) if sisters were brothers, what would u want to give

Awww M85 lol...:inlove:..:there:

Kal-El
22-12-06, 06:27 PM
maybe start drug dealing!
a lot of money in drug dealing apparently! :)

I'll take that into consideration :)

Are you free on weekends? *cough*

puella
22-12-06, 06:27 PM
maybe start drug dealing!
a lot of money in drug dealing apparently! :)

legal drug dealing = my job and yes lots of money :)

illegal drug dealing = not my job = loads of money= mum will throw juthees at u! :torture:

Kal-El
22-12-06, 06:30 PM
i didnt say it was just about that .. there is hadeeth to say that the most simplistic mahr is the best ... but i was just wondering what bros would want being in our seat ... also..its not for the parents , im asking about the individual sister, if u was a sis what YOU would want, pretend theres no family pressure for now lol...

I'd honestly want nothing.

Even if my husband was rich, or could afford anything that could to mind, i wouldnt want anything. Whilst we're married, then obviously my mind would be on things like that.

But if i was getting married, my mind would be on him and our future instead of green notes.

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:31 PM
brother nami, u can be biased in saying u wont ask for much , but not to abolish the whole of the idea of giving a mahr! its from our deen, subhanallah ! it has to be given purely not by haram earned money aouthubillah oil and water dont mix :rolleyes:

Ebony
22-12-06, 06:34 PM
If I was a sister...I'd want a Ferrari :1popcorn:

AbuIbtisaam
22-12-06, 06:35 PM
If i was a sis i would ask for Jannah

i mean if ur gonna ask big...Dont take me to the taj mahal...Take me to jannah to make dhikr to Allah where teverything is more beautiful things than here.

its fair enough to say to the husband to be , ''you choose'' innit !!??

thats not fair...not fair at all...leaving the husband to be to choose...*shakes head*...No No Nooo...not fair...*walks away mumbling not fair*

Kal-El
22-12-06, 06:36 PM
If I was a sister...I'd want a Ferrari :1popcorn:

I thought u were a girl

Ebony
22-12-06, 06:37 PM
And anothr thing, most often its not the girl who decides the amount of mahr, its her PARENTS who mull over it, and ask for an amount they perceive will be useful for her.

Unless you tell your momma and pops beforehand "I want X amount as my dowry"

:coolbro:

MWarrior
22-12-06, 06:39 PM
it depends...

if shes buff i would ask for less money.
if shes ugly i would ask for a lot of money

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:39 PM
If I was a sister...I'd want a Ferrari :1popcorn:
lol, well keep on if-ing sis haha

Lu'Lu
22-12-06, 06:40 PM
I'd honestly want nothing.

Even if my husband was rich, or could afford anything that could to mind, i wouldnt want anything. Whilst we're married, then obviously my mind would be on things like that.

But if i was getting married, my mind would be on him and our future instead of green notes.

Hmmmm...mahr doesnt always have to be money.I know a sister who married her husband for £50 and Surah Muhammad. The deal was that he would teach her Surah Muhammad. It is the woman's right, and of what I understand, it is meant to be a gift for the woman as she is 'giving' herself to her husband. So it really is her right to ask for what she wants. However, everyone knows that there is more barakah in the marriage with the smallest dowry, but it still is allowed to ask for more.

I've heard thats why most men find it hard to get married in Arab countries, especially Saudi etc because the women and their families demand such large dowries. They usually cant afford it.:(

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:41 PM
it depends...

if shes buff i would ask for less money.
if shes ugly i would ask for a lot of money
ur thoughts seem quite strange to me ? but then ur prob just joking around arghh!

Ebony
22-12-06, 06:41 PM
lol, well keep on if-ing sis haha

I like being able to "if" :(


:D

Al Qadr
22-12-06, 06:42 PM
in Dubai some women get a big mosque made for them as part of thier mahr :eek:

I havnt thought abt this mahr/dowry subject, whats the usual ppl ask for?

MWarrior
22-12-06, 06:42 PM
i meant
IF i was a sister then i would

ask for less money if he was good looking
ask for lots of money if he was ugly

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:45 PM
If i was a sis i would ask for Jannah

i mean if ur gonna ask big...Dont take me to the taj mahal...Take me to jannah to make dhikr to Allah where teverything is more beautiful things than here.



thats not fair...not fair at all...leaving the husband to be to choose...*shakes head*...No No Nooo...not fair...*walks away mumbling not fair*
well i think its a good idea... i had another type of mahr in mind but then , Allah forbid for all of us,but if a divorce was to happen and its a situation where it has to be given back n all that then , it wont be possible ... its the same with if it was knowledge passed over actually aswell coz u cant exactly shake the knowledge out ur brain back lol...

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:47 PM
i meant
IF i was a sister then i would

ask for less money if he was good looking
ask for lots of money if he was ugly
but u shouldnt marry someone that u think is ugly :embar: ?
and what u should look for in a wife [deen , beauty, wealth, linage] its another whole topic[take a walk to that thread, there should be many lol] ...

Lu'Lu
22-12-06, 06:49 PM
in Dubai some women get a big mosque made for them as part of thier mahr :eek:

I havnt thought abt this mahr/dowry subject, whats the usual ppl ask for?

I know a brother who married to someone from Dubai, and the nikah was in Dubai Courts where the mahr was a minimum of £1000. But here in UK, i have heard most people asking for a mahr in the hundreds, below 1 grand usually. But thats of the people that I know who have got married. One sister asked her husband for an Umrah trip within 2 years of marriage, another asked for an exercise bike!

MWarrior
22-12-06, 06:52 PM
I know a brother who married to someone from Dubai, and the nikah was in Dubai Courts where the mahr was a minimum of £1000. But here in UK, i have heard most people asking for a mahr in the hundreds, below 1 grand usually. But thats of the people that I know who have got married. One sister asked her husband for an Umrah trip within 2 years of marriage, another asked for an exercise bike!

:rubeyes: :rubeyes: :rubeyes:

in Dubai some women get a big mosque made for them as part of thier mahr
lol



but u shouldnt marry someone that u think is ugly ?
and what u should look for in a wife [deen , beauty, wealth, linage] its another whole topic[take a walk to that thread, there should be many lol] ...
yes ur right,....i was just joking when i said that

Mr_Jailer
22-12-06, 06:52 PM
I'd hate to be ripped off, so if i were the wife, I wouldn't demand much - jus a gud tranquil relationship.

With some of the responses i don't think sisters should contribute to the thread.

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:53 PM
in Dubai some women get a big mosque made for them as part of thier mahr :eek:


thats just extravagant !!!

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:55 PM
:rubeyes: :rubeyes: :rubeyes:




yes ur right,....i was just joking when i said that
bad joke coz people like me cant take jokes , lol , im just kiddin too , i really thought u couldnt be being serious, but then sometimes people are and then if u laugh they get offended so cant be too sure !!

Mr_Jailer
22-12-06, 06:55 PM
thats just extravagant !!!

Mahr to take care of their akhirah :up:

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 06:57 PM
Mahr to take care of their akhirah :up:
yes but if thats the norm, then the brother may be ready to get married but just not that 'ready' to be able to build a whole mosque , wouldn't it bring about more haram , because then gettin married will be expensive !?

Ice
22-12-06, 07:03 PM
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu

So, heres another quite random, strange question...

If you brothers were sisters , what would you want for your mahr (dowry) lol ?

Sister contribute too!

or maybe i should pose one at the sisters .. if sisters were brothers, what would u want to give [what would be too much do u think]? and brothers do u feel stressed when u think about mahr (dowry) , like is it a burden ?

:wswrwb:

sis, to be honest I've never really thought about the mahr! :scratch:

What are you supposed to ask for?

Do we have to ask for anything at all? :D

I'm confuzzled lol

well i think its a good idea... i had another type of mahr in mind but then , Allah forbid for all of us,but if a divorce was to happen and its a situation where it has to be given back n all that then , it wont be possible ... its the same with if it was knowledge passed over actually aswell coz u cant exactly shake the knowledge out ur brain back lol...

ooo and what did you have in mind sis? :)

Mr_Jailer
22-12-06, 07:05 PM
Depends if the bro can afford it.

What 'bout the mahr: 'that you go n fight jihad before the weddin' night' ?

yes but if thats the norm, then the brother may be ready to get married but just not that 'ready' to be able to build a whole mosque , wouldn't it bring about more haram , because then gettin married will be expensive !?

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:11 PM
:wswrwb:

sis, to be honest I've never really thought about the mahr! :scratch:

What are you supposed to ask for?

Do we have to ask for anything at all? :D

I'm confuzzled lol



ooo and what did you have in mind sis? :)

you meant to ask for what YOU want ... the best mahr is that one which is made simplistic , so obviously it shouldnt be where a brother has to borrow money and then havving to pay back while they are married, it doesnt add up subhanallah... its sunnah to ask tho some of us are hesitant ! me being one of them , i dont like to ask for things, but its sunnah , and so u know , what i had in mind is that.. it'd be so much more lovlier [is that even a word lol] to have ur husband-to-be for ur mahr :embar: lol and im sure it wouldnt be a burden for him , that is simplistic and such a wicked gift innit! ... but then u cant give him back if anything was to happen sorta thing like that , so erm inshallah my mahr will be my husband to bes decision on my mahr haha ! lol

Mr_Jailer
22-12-06, 07:18 PM
Masha'allah u seem to have got it all planned out... what if your parenst insist on s/t materialistic, but manageable by the hubby?

i'd be so much more lovlier [is that even a word lol] to have ur husband to be for ur mahr

Ice
22-12-06, 07:20 PM
you meant to ask for what YOU want ... the best mahr is that one which is made simplistic , so obviously it shouldnt be where a brother has to borrow money and then havving to pay back while they are married, it doesnt add up subhanallah... its sunnah to ask tho some of us are hesitant ! me being one of them , i dont like to ask for things, but its sunnah , and so u know , what i had in mind is that i'd be so much more lovlier [is that even a word lol] to have ur husband to be for ur mahr :embar: lol and im sure it wouldnt be a burden for him , that is simplistic but such a wicked gift innit! ... but then u cant give him back if anything was to happen sorta thing like that , so erm inshallah my mahr will be that my husband to bes decision on my mahr haha ! lol


:crying: thats mega shweet :love: SubhanAllaah! and InshaAllaah! :love:

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:26 PM
Masha'allah u seem to have got it all planned out... what if your parenst insist on s/t materialistic, but manageable by the hubby?
lol @ planned out ... well , erm .. as i mentioned it wouldnt really work if something bad was to happen [allah forbid-ameen] thats why i said the husbands decision his self should be the mahr ... but er i suppose i would come to some sort of decision if the husband couldnt decide, what ever Allah wills.. & if my parents were to request it be something material that is manageable , whats wrong with that? some sahaba gave materialistic things to their wives for their mahr..?

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:29 PM
:crying: thats mega shweet :love: SubhanAllaah! and InshaAllaah! :love:
alhamdulilah, pretend u was a bro , and then again pretend u was a sis from being a bro, and then what do u think u'd want for mahr ? [lol is what i said confusing ? @) ]

Mr_Jailer
22-12-06, 07:29 PM
I'd give a BIIIG box of choccies :inlove:

Ice
22-12-06, 07:31 PM
alhamdulilah, pretend u was a bro , and then again pretend u was a sis from being a bro, and then what do u think u'd want for mahr ? [lol is what i said confusing ? @) ]

:nuts: lol!

erm ...:scratch: as its Sunnah I guess I'm just gonna leave it to the hubby to decide, coz my head hurts thinking about it, hopefully his head won't :rolleyes:

:D did that make sense? :p

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:33 PM
:nuts: lol!

erm ...:scratch: as its Sunnah I guess I'm just gonna leave it to the hubby to decide, coz my head hurts thinking about it, hopefully his head won't :rolleyes:

:D did that make sense? :p
yep much more sense than mine did lol...
mashallah im not the only one with that sort of idea *wink*wink*

AbuIbtisaam
22-12-06, 07:33 PM
so the husband deciding what the mahr is...IS the Mahr

ie thats what u want as the mahr...

I like that idea cos its like a riddle...
A paradox...cos if the husband chooses no mahr then u get a mahr but u dont get one...lol
but if he does choose one the ...lol...i'll stop cos it'll confuse everyone...but i think thats mashAllah

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:35 PM
mashallah...
So if u get divorced then ur husband still belongs to u?...unless u get divorced before being alone with ur husband...in which case u have to give him back...
mashAllah
that confused me :scratch:
edit: just understood lol ... obviously , but then doesnt fit in with the rules of islam coz after a divorce u wouldnt be able to be alone islamically , u cant possess ur ex husband ? ... does that make sense ?lol

Guvna
22-12-06, 07:35 PM
that confused me :scratch:

id ask for like 10gs or somet! :up:

MWarrior
22-12-06, 07:36 PM
Depends if the bro can afford it.

What 'bout the mahr: 'that you go n fight jihad before the weddin' night' ?

actually why would she ask that ? 'coz you may just become shaheed when u go ....plus i doubt anyone would wanna come back once they go.

Na'eemah
22-12-06, 07:39 PM
Is that all bros think about 'wedding night'

:wacko:

Guvna
22-12-06, 07:43 PM
Is that all bros think about 'wedding night'

:wacko:

you dont wanna go there.. trust me sis!! :coolbro:

Ibn Khattab
22-12-06, 07:43 PM
£100 plus VAT

MWarrior
22-12-06, 07:44 PM
you dont wanna go there.. trust me sis!! :coolbro:
hah loool

Ebony
22-12-06, 07:46 PM
Sorry to break if to you brothers, but unless agreed otherwise, she is not obliged to have "relations" with you until you pay her the mahr in full

:rolleyes:

Back to the drawing boards for you all :coolbro:

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:47 PM
so the husband deciding what the mahr is...IS the Mahr

ie thats what u want as the mahr...

I like that idea cos its like a riddle...
A paradox...cos if the husband chooses no mahr then u get a mahr but u dont get one...lol
but if he does choose one the ...lol...i'll stop cos it'll confuse everyone...but i think thats mashAllah
lol yeh thats a good riddle ...
but yeh it would make sense to give the husband back if a divorce happened coz then u wont 'possess' him after the divorce looll

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:49 PM
Sorry to break if to you brothers, but unless agreed otherwise, she is not obliged to have "relations" with you until you pay her the mahr in full

:rolleyes:

Back to the drawing boards for you all :coolbro:
yeh goes with my point about extravagant amounts where a brother has to borrow the money and then pay back while hes married to her , doesnt add up ?

AbuIbtisaam
22-12-06, 07:50 PM
so how would that work if the husband is the mahr...lol

a paradox...haha

Ebony
22-12-06, 07:52 PM
Its a contract - therefore all the rules, procedures etc have to be adhered by.

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:52 PM
Is that all bros think about 'wedding night'

:wacko:
who said that ? a 'wedding night' as mahr ? what ?
brothers u dont get mahr , ur meant to be thinking from a sisters perspective!

AbuIbtisaam
22-12-06, 07:52 PM
brothers arent supposed to borrow money to pay for the mahr...it goes against the idea of a mahr...

muslim_sis
22-12-06, 07:54 PM
so how would that work if the husband is the mahr...lol

a paradox...haha
how would what work?

muslimah85
22-12-06, 07:54 PM
Sorry to break if to you brothers, but unless agreed otherwise, she is not obliged to have "relations" with you until you pay her the mahr in full

:rolleyes:

Back to the drawing boards for you all :coolbro:
:rotfl:


oOoOoOoOoOoOooH go get em tiger :p;)

AbuIbtisaam
22-12-06, 07:55 PM
lol...confuzzled myself...and then unconfuzzled myself...

Kal-El
22-12-06, 07:56 PM
Well the one i wanna marry inshallah doesn't want anything :D

I'm off the hook :up: lool.

A moment of silence for the unlucky brothers please....................

.................................................. .................................................. ..........................

All done :D

I'm only joking, if i could, i would contribute to helping a fellow brother out with his Dowry.

Ebony
22-12-06, 07:57 PM
:rotfl:


oOoOoOoOoOoOooH go get em tiger :p;)

Just educating some people who, otherwise are clueless :rolleyes:

:hidban:

Guvna
22-12-06, 07:59 PM
attta boy.. mashaallh... you got her trained well!!! mashallah.. well done bruvs!! :up:


Well the one i wanna marry inshallah doesn't want anything :D

I'm off the hook :up: lool.

A moment of silence for the unlucky brothers please....................

.................................................. .................................................. ..........................

All done :D

I'm only joking, if i could, i would contribute to helping a fellow brother out with his Dowry.

Eemaan
22-12-06, 08:18 PM
Dishwasher and a can of the good stuff :hidban:

puella
22-12-06, 09:01 PM
Dishwasher and a can of the good stuff :hidban:

awww bless...me?...well inshaAllah i shall tell him what i would like :)

nami
22-12-06, 09:21 PM
well to tell the truth im like that too, thats why itd be such a difficult thing to decide... its fair enough to say to the husband to be , ''you choose'' innit !!??

yeah i suppose so.

Nami Some Sisters don't know what they want, I've been in that situation myself:p:

sometimes the brothers come up with the idea...

and muslim sis did say this:)

Awww M85 lol...:inlove:..:there:

i thought the mahr was to safeguard her from divorce, so if a divorce situation was to arise she has the mahr to fall back on? how is she going to fall back on an idea like a trip around the world if there is a divorce?

thats what i have always thought anyway, maybe the mahr is not for that purpose?

I'll take that into consideration :)

Are you free on weekends? *cough*

*cough* dont forget the money! *cough*

legal drug dealing = my job and yes lots of money :)

illegal drug dealing = not my job = loads of money= mum will throw juthees at u! :torture:

mums juthee, astughfirullah! thapar from dads fat hands astughfirullah! scare thoughts. :D

brother nami, u can be biased in saying u wont ask for much , but not to abolish the whole of the idea of giving a mahr! its from our deen, subhanallah ! it has to be given purely not by haram earned money aouthubillah oil and water dont mix :rolleyes:

i cant answer that until i find out the purpose for the mahr if it has a purpose. is it simply a gift or is it to safeguard her against a divorce situation if it was to happen?
If I was a sister...I'd want a Ferrari :1popcorn:

ferrari's cool, just don't expect him to pay for the insurance too :p

I thought u were a girl

she is, she just gets confused sometimes! just messing Ebony. :up:

And anothr thing, most often its not the girl who decides the amount of mahr, its her PARENTS who mull over it, and ask for an amount they perceive will be useful for her.

Unless you tell your momma and pops beforehand "I want X amount as my dowry"

:coolbro:

wise words for the sisters, YOU decide and not your parents.

it depends...

if shes buff i would ask for less money.
if shes ugly i would ask for a lot of money

:rubeyes:

in Dubai some women get a big mosque made for them as part of thier mahr :eek:

I havnt thought abt this mahr/dowry subject, whats the usual ppl ask for?

people in dubai are rich, thats probably normal there.

i meant
IF i was a sister then i would

ask for less money if he was good looking
ask for lots of money if he was ugly

:rubeyes::rubeyes::coolbro:

MG
22-12-06, 09:26 PM
i would soooooo ask for a trip to hajj like asap,

(i cant stop thinking about hajj for some reason)

oh and a 1/4 of Pear Drops please - every week forever *grin*

nami
22-12-06, 09:29 PM
i would soooooo ask for a trip to hajj like asap,

(i cant stop thinking about hajj for some reason)

oh and a 1/4 of Pear Drops please - every week forever *grin*

but can the mahr be a trip to hajj? i was told its to safeguard her just in case there is a divorce so she has something to fall back on? its like I've been lied too...

sis you're not asking for much! but your future husband might be concerned about your teeth :D

MG
22-12-06, 09:32 PM
but can the mahr be a trip to hajj? i was told its for safeguard her just in case there is a divorce so she has something to fall back on? its like I've been lied too...

sis you're not asking for much! but your future husband might be concerned about your teach! :D


my dentist said my teeth are in very good condition alhumdulillah i shall have u know!!


P.S. worse comes to worse, we got false teeth these days -problem solved

Ebony
22-12-06, 09:33 PM
ferrari's cool, just don't expect him to pay for the insurance too :p

All inclusive - MOT, insurance, leather interior, NOS thingymajig - otherwise no deal :coolbro:

she is, she just gets confused sometimes! just messing Ebony. :up:


I like my confused, delirious states :nerdbro:
wise words for the sisters, YOU decide and not your parents

Much like everything else - the parents decide things related to the marriage. Which isn't bad per se, IMO- so long as you have input as/when required. But I supposed that would depend on what kind of relationship you have with your parents, how much you "trust" them to do the "right thing" etc

If you can't trust your parents - time to sort things out :rolleyes:

nami
22-12-06, 09:33 PM
my dentist said my teeth are in very good condition alhumdulillah i shall have u know!!


P.S. worse comes to worse, we got false teeth these days -problem solved

alhumdulillah! :)

nami
22-12-06, 09:36 PM
All inclusive - MOT, insurance, leather interior, NOS thingymajig - otherwise no deal :coolbro:

:rubeyes:

we got 2 completely different sisters here!

muslim_girl just wants 1/4 pear drops (http://www.aquarterof.co.uk/gfx/northernpeardropsstockleys.jpg) a week
Ebony wants a ferrari (http://www.new-dream.de/image/wallpaper/auto/ferrari/ferrari-08.jpg) + MOT + Insurance + leather interior + NOS

1 of these sisters could be asking for a little too much :D

MG
22-12-06, 09:39 PM
:rubeyes:

we got 2 completely different sisters here!

muslim_girl just wants 1/4 pear drops a week
Ebony wants a ferrari + MOT + Insurance + leather interior + NOS

1 of these sisters could be asking for a little too much :D

ok then , ill chop my pear drops to every alternate week *sad face*

P.S. ebony i wanna ride in your ferrari!

Ebony
22-12-06, 09:40 PM
Well if I was a sister- thats what I would want. :coolbro:

Not much to ask I think. I'll reconsider the NOS...if he's too skintomaximus :rolleyes:

nami
22-12-06, 09:41 PM
:rubeyes:

we got 2 completely different sisters here!

muslim_girl just wants 1/4 pear drops a week
Ebony wants a ferrari + MOT + Insurance + leather interior + NOS

1 of these sisters could be asking for a little too much :D

ok then , ill chop my pear drops to every alternate week *sad face*

P.S. ebony i wanna ride in your ferrari!

you're funny sis! lol that made me laugh.

MMS
22-12-06, 09:41 PM
lollll i always thought muslim_sis's avatar was a great big diamond :rubeyes:

its actually a trolley :smack:

MG
22-12-06, 09:43 PM
[quote=muslim girl;1516835]

you're funny sis! lol that made me laugh.

are u laughing at my Dowry list *sad face*

nami
22-12-06, 09:44 PM
Well if I was a sister- thats what I would want. :coolbro:

Not much to ask I think. I'll reconsider the NOS...if he's too skintomaximus :rolleyes:

i hope you mean this ferrari?


http://lib.store.yahoo.net/lib/trendtimes/nitroferrari.gif

:)

nami
22-12-06, 09:46 PM
are u laughing at my Dowry list *sad face*

no im laughing at the bit where you halved your dowry but it was already unbelievably minimal.

Ebony
22-12-06, 09:46 PM
[quote=nami;1516840]

are u laughing at my Dowry list *sad face*

Looks like it. Evil brother :torture:

i hope you mean this ferrari?


http://lib.store.yahoo.net/lib/trendtimes/nitroferrari.gif

:)

My thumb would just about fit in that :smack:

Does it fly? :1popcorn:

nami
22-12-06, 09:47 PM
lollll i always thought muslim_sis's avatar was a great big diamond :rubeyes:

its actually a trolley :smack:

but its a brand new trolley! :up:

nami
22-12-06, 09:49 PM
My thumb would just about fit in that :smack:

Does it fly? :1popcorn:

no but this looks like its flying! :D

http://www.rudystoys.com/images/products/Foam%20Toys/4900-Handi-Copter-Yellow-Helicopter_medium.jpg

MG
22-12-06, 09:53 PM
no im laughing at the bit where you halved your dowry but it was already unbelievably minimal.

yeh i know, im only messing wit u bro, get with the programme will ya akhi....hehehehe

Ebony
22-12-06, 09:54 PM
I so am not impressed :rolleyes:

nami
22-12-06, 09:56 PM
I so am not impressed :rolleyes:

why not? you getting a ferrari and a helicopter! :p

MG
22-12-06, 09:56 PM
I so am not impressed :rolleyes:

u and me both sis *sad face*

nami
22-12-06, 09:56 PM
yeh i know, im only messing wit u bro, get with the programme will ya akhi....hehehehe

lol, you got me!

Ebony
22-12-06, 09:58 PM
why not? you getting a ferrari and a helicopter! :p

If I was a sister - and I have many dealings with a few - that would not be impressive at all.

They all agree with me too :coolbro:

No-one wants a sponge helicopter.

nami
22-12-06, 09:58 PM
u and me both sis *sad face*

how about a house?

http://www.christianlindholm.com/photos/uncategorized/helsinki251.jpg

nami
22-12-06, 09:59 PM
No-one wants a sponge helicopter.

wow, you're way too demanding :p

Guvna
22-12-06, 09:59 PM
wow, you're way too demanding :p

shes just bonkers!! :wacko:

MG
22-12-06, 10:01 PM
how about a house?

http://www.christianlindholm.com/photos/uncategorized/helsinki251.jpg

now did u see a request for a house on my list :buttkick:

nami
22-12-06, 10:01 PM
shes just bonkers!! :wacko:

i know bro! a house, a ferrari, and a helicopter and shes not impressed? whats that all about? :rubeyes:

nami
22-12-06, 10:02 PM
now did u see a request for a house on my list :buttkick:

no but, why would anyone say no when you getting one for a mahr? :D

MG
22-12-06, 10:04 PM
no but, why would anyone say no when you getting one for a mahr? :D

hey as long as my 1/4 pear drops (differnt flavoured ones not the same flavour) and my tickets for m trip to hajj are their , i dont care what else comes, its a bonus......

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:06 PM
i know bro! a house, a ferrari, and a helicopter and shes not impressed? whats that all about? :rubeyes:

bruvs man.. shes just dreaming.. holdin onto these whims virtually.. wait till she get taken away... ball n chain!!
phir saraaaaa thikh thakh! :up:

nami
22-12-06, 10:07 PM
hey as long as my 1/4 pear drops (differnt flavoured ones not the same flavour) and my tickets for m trip to hajj are their , i dont care what else comes, its a bonus......

so 1/4 pear drops every other week and a trip to hajj. insha'allah you find a husband who will satisfy your mahr request. :)

MMS
22-12-06, 10:07 PM
okay ive changed my mind, the other thread has got me thinking

see if u ask a ridiculous amount for ur dowry, ur husband wont have enough money to support a second wife :hidban:

great idea :D

MG
22-12-06, 10:09 PM
so 1/4 pear drops every other week and a trip to hajj. insha'allah you find a husband who will satisfy your mahr request. :)


cut the "alternate" bit out akhi...he dont have to know about that bit!!

WEEKLY on the dot, at excatly 8pm, my pear drops should be placed on a dish with a rose next to it

nami
22-12-06, 10:09 PM
bruvs man.. shes just dreaming.. holdin onto these whims virtually.. wait till she get taken away... ball n chain!!
phir saraaaaa thikh thakh! :up:

bro...

just need that contract signed :D

MG
22-12-06, 10:09 PM
okay ive changed my mind, the other thread has got me thinking

see if u ask a ridiculous amount for ur dowry, ur husband wont have enough money to support a second wife :hidban:

great idea :D

what if he gets a 2nd job...... *shock*

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:10 PM
okay ive changed my mind, the other thread has got me thinking

see if u ask a ridiculous amount for ur dowry, ur husband wont have enough money to support a second wife :hidban:

great idea :D

you can forget about the "husband" being one after you annouonce the dowry!! hop skip and laters!!!
wife no 2... bring it on! ! :coolbro:

nami
22-12-06, 10:10 PM
cut the "alternate" bit out akhi...he dont have to know about that bit!!

WEEKLY on the dot, at excatly 8pm, my pear drops should be placed on a dish with a rose next to it

a rose too? :O

and at 8pm? I hope its an 8pm on the weekend because he might not make it back from work on time on the weekdays :p

Ebony
22-12-06, 10:11 PM
bruvs man.. shes just dreaming.. holdin onto these whims virtually.. wait till she get taken away... ball n chain!!
phir saraaaaa thikh thakh! :up:

You go back to your bog :torture:

nami
22-12-06, 10:11 PM
okay ive changed my mind, the other thread has got me thinking

see if u ask a ridiculous amount for ur dowry, ur husband wont have enough money to support a second wife :hidban:

great idea :D

MMS coming out with her evil plans! :torture:

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:12 PM
MMS coming out with her evil plans! :torture:

bruvvss man... dont worry bout it... we is got it allll boxed off!!! :up:

MG
22-12-06, 10:14 PM
a rose too? :O

and at 8pm? I hope its an 8pm on the weekend because he might not make it back from work on time on the weekdays :p

Friday 8PM, rose in hand, plate/packet of Pear drops, at the front door, if i dont hear that key turning.......better make sure theres a heater in the car..

MMS
22-12-06, 10:14 PM
what if he gets a 2nd job...... *shock*

then what u do right is also ask for housing and we know how much a house costs :hidban: he defo wont be able to afford it, and i also want to adopt 10 orphans as part of my dowry (fisibilillah ofcourse ;) ) so aherm lots of money going out :p

you can forget about the "husband" being one after you annouonce the dowry!! hop skip and laters!!!
wife no 2... bring it on! ! :coolbro:

im like l'oreal, coz im worth it :D

nami
22-12-06, 10:15 PM
bruvvss man... dont worry bout it... we is got it allll boxed off!!! :up:

bro!!!

"the plan" fool proof! :D

Lost_Princess
22-12-06, 10:18 PM
i want a bucket full of diamonds lol jking if i was a guy i would feel sorry for myself lol man i would be like im marring her because i like/love her and she wants this and inshallah all i want as my dowry is for my husband to treat me like a princess and ill be happy :D:D:D

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:18 PM
bro!!!

"the plan" fool proof! :D

thats it kidda.. let em plan... end of the day.. manz gotta do.. what a manz gotta do! :D

nami
22-12-06, 10:18 PM
Friday 8PM, rose in hand, plate/packet of Pear drops, at the front door, if i dont hear that key turning.......better make sure theres a heater in the car..

sis you're asking for too much. why too much traffic to make it back home at 8pm on fridays :p

Ebony
22-12-06, 10:18 PM
Plastic roses! :outta:

MG
22-12-06, 10:19 PM
Plastic roses! :outta:

NO PLASTIC ROSES *runs after ebony*

nami
22-12-06, 10:20 PM
then what u do right is also ask for housing and we know how much a house costs :hidban: he defo wont be able to afford it, and i also want to adopt 10 orphans as part of my dowry (fisibilillah ofcourse ;) ) so aherm lots of money going out :p



im like l'oreal, coz im worth it :D

you should write a book! "how to destroy your husbands life" :up:

MG
22-12-06, 10:20 PM
sis you're asking for too much. why too much traffic to make it back home at 8pm on fridays :p

do i look bovveerredd

nami
22-12-06, 10:21 PM
i want a bucket full of diamonds lol jking if i was a guy i would feel sorry for myself lol man i would be like im marring her because i like/love her and she wants this and inshallah all i want as my dowry is for my husband to treat me like a princess and ill be happy :D:D:D

masha'allah! finally a decent sis! :D

Ebony
22-12-06, 10:22 PM
NO PLASTIC ROSES *runs after ebony*

:outta:

masha'allah! finally a decent sis! :D

Cheapskate.

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:22 PM
do i look bovveerredd

awww facing reality now are we!?!!?! you aint gettin what you want innit!!! :hidban:

MMS
22-12-06, 10:22 PM
you should write a book! "how to destroy your husbands life" :up:

how is that destroying his life :rubeyes:

im only thinking about his aakhira imagine all the reward he'd get for looking after the orphans

rasoolAllah saw has said the person who looks after an orphan will enter jannah together with me

:embar: what a caring wife :D

nami
22-12-06, 10:22 PM
do i look bovveerredd

i cant see you, so i cant tell :coolbro:

nami
22-12-06, 10:23 PM
how is that destroying his life :rubeyes:

im only thinking about his aakhira imagine all the reward he'd get for looking after the orphans

rasoolAllah saw has said the person who looks after an orphan will enter jannah together with me

:embar: what a caring wife :D

theres lots of reward for caring for 4 wives too! :p

MG
22-12-06, 10:23 PM
awww facing reality now are we!?!!?! you aint gettin what you want innit!!! :hidban:

i wont be the one sitting in the car with my heater on *Shiny Smilie*

nami
22-12-06, 10:24 PM
:outta:



Cheapskate.

you just jealous! :p

nami
22-12-06, 10:25 PM
i wont be the one sitting in the car with my heater on *Shiny Smilie*

what if hes got a second key? :up:

MMS
22-12-06, 10:26 PM
theres lots of reward for caring for 4 wives too! :p

shaykh ithbaybee said those hadiths are daeef :outta:

Ebony
22-12-06, 10:26 PM
you just jealous! :p

of a cheapskate?

Yeah...im sure thats what it is :wacko:

nami
22-12-06, 10:27 PM
shaykh ithbaybee said those hadiths are daeef :outta:

lol, 4 wives are recommended from the quran :p

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:27 PM
i wont be the one sitting in the car with my heater on *Shiny Smilie*

on the way to wifey 2's pad!! *shinier smile*:D

nami
22-12-06, 10:27 PM
of a cheapskate?

Yeah...im sure thats what it is :wacko:

nah about the "decent" sister asking for a more worthwhile mahr! :D

bint
22-12-06, 10:29 PM
shiny diamonds...

MG
22-12-06, 10:29 PM
what if hes got a second key? :up:

he can four keys, wen the double lock goes on...thats it...


cheapskate cheapskate

u would rather not go out of your way to get a rose and some measly pear drops for your poor wife but have already pre-planned to have second key made....im getting worried about u akhi

nami
22-12-06, 10:31 PM
shiny diamonds...

what you gonna do with a diamond? :D

bint
22-12-06, 10:31 PM
what you gonna do with a diamond? :D
they look very pretty..:inlove:

nami
22-12-06, 10:33 PM
he can four keys, wen the double lock goes on...thats it...


cheapskate cheapskate

u would rather not go out of your way to get a rose for your poor wife but have already pre-planned to have second key made....im getting worried about u akhi

sis you getting worried about me NOW? :O you took your time. :shock:

MG
22-12-06, 10:34 PM
sis you getting worried about me NOW? :O you took your time. :shock:


dont worry i was worried fromt he time u admitted u were abnormal

Ebony
22-12-06, 10:34 PM
sis you getting worried about me NOW? :O you took your time. :shock:
^^Confession from a cheapskate :coolbro:

MG
22-12-06, 10:35 PM
^^Confession from a cheapskate :coolbro:

1st step to recovery

nami
22-12-06, 10:35 PM
dont worry i was worried fromt he time u admitted u were abnormal

^^Confession from a cheapskate :coolbro:

Guvna, i need some help, where you gone bro, heeeeeeeeelp!!!! :rubeyes:

MMS
22-12-06, 10:36 PM
okay now this is really sad since the girl has to give up her whole life, leave her cosy home n family behind n then the brothers wanna give her some cheap dowry :rubeyes:

nami
22-12-06, 10:36 PM
they look very pretty..:inlove:

so plastic ones will do? as long as they look pretty? :D

bint
22-12-06, 10:37 PM
like i said..

diamonds...

MG
22-12-06, 10:37 PM
so plastic ones will do? as long as they look pretty? :D


what is this? plastic roses, plastic diamonds, where the heck u work a plastics factory!!!

nami
22-12-06, 10:37 PM
like i said..

diamonds...

how many?

bint
22-12-06, 10:38 PM
so plastic ones will do? as long as they look pretty? :D
no i have an allergic reaction to fake jewellry..i have to have the real stuff..still its not an excuse but er..hmm

diamonds...:inlove:

nami
22-12-06, 10:38 PM
what is this? plastic roses, plastic diamonds, where the heck u work a plastics factory!!!

lol, i wasn't the one who said plastic roses and whats wrong with working in a plastic factory? its halaal income :p

nami
22-12-06, 10:39 PM
no i have an allergic reaction to fake jewellry..i have to have the real stuff..still its not an excuse but er..hmm

diamonds...:inlove:

lol, hmmm, there must be a cure for this allergic reaction :D

MG
22-12-06, 10:39 PM
lol, i wasn't the one who said plastic roses :p

i didnt see u disgaree - so u would get real ones for wifey?

bint
22-12-06, 10:39 PM
how many?
countles...

Kal-El
22-12-06, 10:39 PM
I cant wait to be a husband :)

bint
22-12-06, 10:40 PM
lol, hmmm, there must be a cure for this allergic reaction :D
nope..unfortunately the specialist at the hospital said there isnt..the obvious cure is..real diamonds..

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:40 PM
lol, i wasn't the one who said plastic roses :p

bruvs... we'll sort out the electronic soon enuff.. feed em some kerfuffle bout 21st century love!! :coolbro:

nami
22-12-06, 10:41 PM
i didnt see u disgaree - so u would get real ones for wifey?

all the time insha'allah! :D but maybe not if shes allergic to them, like hayfever. lol

nami
22-12-06, 10:42 PM
countles...

calm down sis! :O

MG
22-12-06, 10:42 PM
all the time insha'allah! :D but maybe not if shes allergic to them, like hayfever. lol

i give up- i can jus see u spray something on it, so she sneezes non-stop and then your off the hook...i know your game sunny jim

nami
22-12-06, 10:43 PM
I cant wait to be a husband :)


bro, im happy for you! :)

bint
22-12-06, 10:43 PM
calm down sis! :O
as u see...

diamonds are a girls best friend..

:inlove:

nami
22-12-06, 10:44 PM
nope..unfortunately the specialist at the hospital said there isnt..the obvious cure is..real diamonds..

lol, you need a second opinion sis.

Guvna
22-12-06, 10:44 PM
bro, im happy for you! :)

he missed out the "to 4 wifeys" bit..! :up:

MG
22-12-06, 10:45 PM
as u see...

diamonds are a girls best friend..

:inlove:

and pear drops

nami
22-12-06, 10:45 PM
bruvs... we'll sort out the electronic soon enuff.. feed em some kerfuffle bout 21st century love!! :coolbro:

i dunno bro, will it work?

nami
22-12-06, 10:45 PM
i give up- i can jus see u spray something on it, so she sneezes non-stop and then your off the hook...i know your game sunny jim

thats an amazing plan! :D why didnt i think of that?

nami
22-12-06, 10:46 PM
as u see...

diamonds are a girls best friend..

:inlove:

those friends of your are faking it, they just want to drain your future husbands money! :p

MG
22-12-06, 10:47 PM
thats an amazing plan! :D why didnt i think of that?

your plan C more like

MMS
22-12-06, 10:47 PM
arghh the famous quote

"ek bandi sambhal nahi sakte, aur chaar ke peeche baagte hein"

:banghead:

nami
22-12-06, 10:47 PM
he missed out the "to 4 wifeys" bit..! :up:

ahhhh man, thats vital information for any man! :D

bint
22-12-06, 10:48 PM
calm down sis! :O

those friends of your are faking it, they just want to drain your future husbands money! :p


oh aye..

nah they arent faking it..

see...im got em even when im not even married...my dear mother is my diamond..:love:

nami
22-12-06, 10:50 PM
your plan C more like

plan C with your help sis, thanks! :p

nami
22-12-06, 10:51 PM
arghh the famous quote

"ek bandi sambhal nahi sakte, aur chaar ke peeche baagte hein"

:banghead:

English translation please :o

MG
22-12-06, 10:51 PM
plan C with your help sis, thanks! :p

u better pray i dont "bump" into her...

nami
22-12-06, 10:51 PM
oh aye..

nah they arent faking it..

see...im got em even when im not even married...my dear mother is my diamond..:love:

thats ok then! :)

nami
22-12-06, 10:52 PM
u better pray i dont "bump" into her...

:O what you planning to do?

nami
22-12-06, 10:53 PM
and pear drops

diamonds and pear drops? thats 1 interesting combination! should you be worrying about me or should i be worrying about you sis? :p

bint
22-12-06, 10:54 PM
thats ok then! :)
yup:up:

MG
22-12-06, 10:54 PM
:O what you planning to do?



forget putting your heater on your car,your gonna be needing to fit a whole radiator in ther,after i make her aware of yuor plan C ...

nami
22-12-06, 10:55 PM
forget putting your heater on your car,your gonna be needing to fit a whole radiator in ther,after i make her aware of yuor plan C ...

why you doing this to me sis? what did i do to you? :(

MG
22-12-06, 10:56 PM
why you doing this to me sis? what did i do to you? :(

*sigh* oh stop the drama im only joking







(i think)

nami
22-12-06, 11:02 PM
*sigh* oh stop the drama im only joking







(i think)

lol

Ok, how about this?

muslim_girl - may allah grant you a husband who gives you roses, pear drops every friday at 8pm sharp and takes you to hajj.
Ebony - may allah grant you a husband who gets you a ferrari + MOT + insurance + NOS + helicopter + house
bint - may allah grant you a husband who gives you more shiny diamonds because they are pretty
Lost_Princess - may allah grant you a husband who treats you like a princess.
Guvna - may allah grant you 4 wives
for the brothers and sisters I didn't mension - may allah grant the husbands and wifes you want!

AMEEN

Guvna
22-12-06, 11:03 PM
lol

Ok, how about this?

muslim_girl - may allah grant you a husband who gives you roses, pear drops every friday at 8pm sharp and takes you to hajj.
Ebony - may allah grant you a husband who gets you a ferrari + MOT + insurance + NOS + helicopter + house
bint - may allah grant you a husband who gives you more shiny diamonds because they are pretty
Lost_Princess - may allah grant you a husband who treats you like a princess.
Guvna - may allah grant you 4 wives
for the brothers and sisters I didn't mension - may allah grant the husbands and wifes you want!

AMEEN

Ameeen...

Nami - May alllah give you some serious backbone to stand up to wifey one.. and onwards to 4!!! :coolbro:

Ebony
22-12-06, 11:04 PM
Mansion. Not house. And 4 butlers. And a cat

imran1976
22-12-06, 11:04 PM
arghh the famous quote

"ek bandi sambhal nahi sakte, aur chaar ke peeche baagte hein"

:banghead:

kis nay kaha kay nahi sambhal saktay?

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:05 PM
If I was a sister, I wouldn't want thousands of dollars. Thats just really cheap. I think it would be better to ask for something like a trip to do Hajj or Umrah. Better yet, there should be no dowry. I never got the point of dowry.

nami
22-12-06, 11:05 PM
Ameeen...

Nami - May alllah give you some serious backbone to stand up to wifey one.. and onwards to 4!!! :coolbro:

AMEEN!!!!

yeah i need it, my wife is probably gonna rule me!

MMS
22-12-06, 11:06 PM
forget putting your heater on your car,your gonna be needing to fit a whole radiator in ther,after i make her aware of yuor plan C ...

u know the cheapskates probably wondering if he can get one of them oil heaters for his car that charge 1p an hour :embar: mwahaha :p

nami
22-12-06, 11:07 PM
Mansion. Not house. And 4 butlers. And a cat

revised dua for Ebony

Ebony - may allah grant you a husband who gets you a ferrari + MOT + insurance + NOS + helicopter + mansion + 4 butlers and a cat

AMEEN!

imran1976
22-12-06, 11:07 PM
lol

Ok, how about this?

muslim_girl - may allah grant you a husband who gives you roses, pear drops every friday at 8pm sharp and takes you to hajj.
Ebony - may allah grant you a husband who gets you a ferrari + MOT + insurance + NOS + helicopter + house
bint - may allah grant you a husband who gives you more shiny diamonds because they are pretty
Lost_Princess - may allah grant you a husband who treats you like a princess.
Guvna - may allah grant you 4 wives
for the brothers and sisters I didn't mension - may allah grant the husbands and wifes you want!

AMEEN

why helicopter for ebony :scratch:

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:08 PM
....i want a helicopter.

nami
22-12-06, 11:08 PM
If I was a sister, I wouldn't want thousands of dollars. Thats just really cheap. I think it would be better to ask for something like a trip to do Hajj or Umrah. Better yet, there should be no dowry. I never got the point of dowry.

there must be a point to it, i just dont know what it is YET!

nami
22-12-06, 11:09 PM
u know the cheapskates probably wondering if he can get one of them oil heaters for his car that charge 1p an hour :embar: mwahaha :p

thats cold! :torture:
plus i dont think they make oil heaters which plug into the cigarette lighter! :p

nami
22-12-06, 11:10 PM
why helicopter for ebony :scratch:

lol, bro, im not sure!

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:10 PM
there must be a point to it, i just dont know what it is YET!

**Waiting for someone to give us THE POINT**

MMS
22-12-06, 11:11 PM
thats cold! :torture:
plus i dont think they make oil heaters which plug into the cigarette lighter! :p

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:he's already researched it

nami
22-12-06, 11:11 PM
....i want a helicopter.

bro, why do you want a helicopter? :D

nami
22-12-06, 11:12 PM
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:he's already researched it

no not yet, maybe i should! :up:
if you read carefully you will see i said " plus i dont think they make oil heaters which plug into the cigarette lighter!" :p

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:12 PM
bro, why do you want a helicopter? :D

so I can rescue people..duh!

and so I can go to uni in STYLE

bint
22-12-06, 11:14 PM
lol

Ok, how about this?

muslim_girl - may allah grant you a husband who gives you roses, pear drops every friday at 8pm sharp and takes you to hajj.
Ebony - may allah grant you a husband who gets you a ferrari + MOT + insurance + NOS + helicopter + house
bint - may allah grant you a husband who gives you more shiny diamonds because they are pretty
Lost_Princess - may allah grant you a husband who treats you like a princess.
Guvna - may allah grant you 4 wives
for the brothers and sisters I didn't mension - may allah grant the husbands and wifes you want!

AMEEN


omg...

:eek:

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:14 PM
i definately want my Mahr!!!!!!no doubt about it :p

nami
22-12-06, 11:14 PM
so I can rescue people..duh!

and so I can go to uni in STYLE

can't get more STYLEish than that! :up:

Ebony
22-12-06, 11:15 PM
there must be a point to it, i just dont know what it is YET!

http://www.al-islam.org/rightsofwomeninislam/19.htm

nami
22-12-06, 11:15 PM
omg...

:eek:

what happened, has the dua worked already! :O

nami
22-12-06, 11:16 PM
i definately want my Mahr!!!!!!no doubt about it :p

Masumah, what would you like as your Mahr?

nami
22-12-06, 11:19 PM
http://www.al-islam.org/rightsofwomeninislam/19.htm

i'll read that tomorrow insha'allah as its kind of long! jazak'allah for the link.

bint
22-12-06, 11:21 PM
what happened, has the dua worked already! :O
no but...

im not that greedy lol..cud have made a better dua man..
still diamonds..:inlove:

nami
22-12-06, 11:24 PM
no but...

im not that greedy lol..cud have made a better dua man..
still diamonds..:inlove:

lol, well thats what you asked for! :p you should have asked for what sis Ebony asked for e.g.:

ferrari + MOT + insurance + NOS + helicopter + mansion + 4 butlers and a cat.

I'm kind of confused about the cat!

Ibn-e-Muslim
22-12-06, 11:27 PM
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu

So, heres another quite random, strange question...

If you brothers were sisters , what would you want for your mahr (dowry) lol ?

Sister contribute too!

or maybe i should pose one at the sisters .. if sisters were brothers, what would u want to give [what would be too much do u think]? and brothers do u feel stressed when u think about mahr (dowry) , like is it a burden ?

i wud ask him the amount he wud pay it easily :hidban:

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:28 PM
Masumah, what would you like as your Mahr?


i dunno..never thort of it really!!!! maybe a few hundred :) pounds that is.

nami
22-12-06, 11:31 PM
i dunno..never thort of it really!!!! maybe a few hundred :) pounds that is.

another decent sister! :D

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:32 PM
how much do u want???

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:32 PM
ok dat was stupid js realised ur a lad!!!!

nami
22-12-06, 11:32 PM
how much do u want???

Nothing, but maybe because I'm a brother! :D

nami
22-12-06, 11:33 PM
ok dat was stupid js realised ur a lad!!!!

lol...

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:33 PM
js realised :p

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:33 PM
If my future wife asks for a dowry..ill be like.....Are you askin for this dowry, or is your mommy and daddy askin for this dowry?

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:33 PM
argh js repeated myself!!!!

nami
22-12-06, 11:34 PM
js realised :p

dont worry about it, im used to it... :)

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:35 PM
If my future wife asks for a dowry..ill be like.....Are you askin for this dowry, or is your mommy and daddy askin for this dowry?


:p....rightly u shud..sum parents ask not d girl....but then agin akhi wich sister wud marry u:rolleyes: u'l be too lazy to give her d dowry :p

nami
22-12-06, 11:35 PM
If my future wife asks for a dowry..ill be like.....Are you askin for this dowry, or is your mommy and daddy askin for this dowry?

i know how you feel bro! im going to sleep.

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:35 PM
dont worry about it, im used to it... :)


its ur name and pic..very motherfied :p

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:36 PM
:p....rightly u shud..sum parents ask not d girl....but then agin akhi wich sister wud marry u:rolleyes:

what u talking about......theres a line outside my door right now.:D hehe just jokin......

Im hurt.

Nobody Loves me.

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:37 PM
what u talking about......theres a line outside my door right now.:D hehe just jokin......

Im hurt.

Nobody Loves me.


Tis k..everybody will love u in pakistan..dat is if ur from der :p

nami
22-12-06, 11:37 PM
its ur name and pic..very motherfied :p

but in that pic is a father holding his childs hand! :p

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:37 PM
Tis k..everybody will love u in pakistan..dat is if ur from der :p

Whats a pakistan?

nami
22-12-06, 11:38 PM
Tis k..everybody will love u in pakistan..dat is if ur from der :p

they only love you there because of your uk passport...

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:39 PM
but in that pic is a father holding his childs hand! :p


is it???

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:40 PM
they only love you there because of your uk passport...


ofcourse..dats y dey'l love lambo..hes got a US pasport..me thinks

Lost_Princess
22-12-06, 11:42 PM
Whats a pakistan?

but lambo i thought u were from pakistan :D :D

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:44 PM
but lambo i thought u were from pakistan :D :D

dammit lol u blew me cover

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:45 PM
ofcourse..dats y dey'l love lambo..hes got a US pasport..me thinks

they love me cuz im soo lovable. Unlike you. :p

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:46 PM
:torture:

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:47 PM
:torture:

ur just jealous

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:48 PM
ur just jealous
:rolleyes: get off ur high horse.

Lost_Princess
22-12-06, 11:48 PM
dammit lol u blew me cover

mu hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha lol that was my plan mr nobody loves me

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:49 PM
:rolleyes: get off ur high horse.

why should i? Its my horsey!

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:50 PM
mu hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha lol that was my plan mr nobody loves me

the evil laugh. NOW who's evil huh?

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:50 PM
mu hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha lol that was my plan mr nobody loves me


lol sis :up:

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:51 PM
why should i? Its my horsey!


stay put and be doomed..get off quick and be saved :)..wise words for wise ppl.

Lost_Princess
22-12-06, 11:52 PM
they love me cuz im soo lovable. Unlike you. :p

wat happened to nobody loving u and trust me were all more lovable than ull ever be and ur jealous from us mu hahaha :D

Lambo5688
22-12-06, 11:52 PM
lol sis :up:
save the drama ok? lol




now bcuz of you, I will never get married. You broke my confidence and you said noone will marrry me. **almost crying, no tears tho, just a lump in throat**

imran1976
22-12-06, 11:53 PM
they only love you there because of your uk passport...

not every1 necessarily.....

Lost_Princess
22-12-06, 11:54 PM
the evil laugh. NOW who's evil huh?

im not as evil as u though scaring ur neigbour with a vaccum tut tut tut :torture: :torture: :torture: :torture:

Masumah
22-12-06, 11:54 PM
save the drama ok? lol




now bcuz of you, I will never get married. You broke my confidence and you said noone will marrry me. **almost crying, no tears tho, just a lump in throat**


now whose doing the drama????go to pak and eeryone will want to marry u trust me!! d experience is ugh..a bit scary.