Marriage quotes...

[ibn suleman]

Marriage quotes... :D

[ibn suleman]

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
Robert C. Dodds:

[imama]

AsslamOAlaikum

here's one ..
(1) And do not marry Al-Mushrikat (idolatresses, etc.) till they believe (worship Allah Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress, even though she pleases you. And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember. (Chapter #2, Verse #221)

there r more on this site >>> http://www.talkislam.com/iquotes/index.php?nCatId=288

Wsalam
Imama

[imama]

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
Robert C. Dodds:

isn't that what islam says aswell 8-)?

[ibn suleman]

isn't that what islam says aswell 8-)?

not sure...

[ibn suleman]

Man may be the head, but the woman is often the neck that turns it.

:D


(i dont necessarily agree with all the quotes :D)

[imama]

Man may be the head, but the woman is often the neck that turns it.

:D


(i dont necessarily agree with all the quotes :D)

haha :rolleyes:



I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't even
marry you because I loved you. I married you because you
gave me a promise. That promise made up for your faults.
And the promise I gave you made up for mine. Two imperfect
people got married and it was the promise that made the marriage.
And when our children were growing up, it wasn't a house that
protected them; and it wasn't our love that protected them - it was that
promise.
Thornton Wilder, The Skin of Our Teeth

hmmm

[bint]

ibn suleman..ure obsessed with marriage. tell me how many threads have u created on marriage? :p

[muslim_sis]

ibn suleman..ure obsessed with marriage. tell me how many threads have u created on marriage? :p
leave him lol... his threads contributing to the marriage section arent those silly ones ! mashallah !

[bint]

leave him lol... his threads contributing to the marriage section arent those silly ones ! mashallah !
:p

i think he may hinting something...:D

[muslim_sis]

:p

i think he may hinting something...:D
that he's possibly gettin married ? that what u mean ?

or if u just mean hes FOR marriage then, as muslims we should be anyway!!

[ibn suleman]

ibn suleman..ure obsessed with marriage. tell me how many threads have u created on marriage? :p

loool

i'm sure u got loads more posts here :p

leave him lol... his threads contributing to the marriage section arent those silly ones ! mashallah !

:up:
exactly its better than some of the threads in here

[Eemaan]

ibn suleman..ure obsessed with marriage. tell me how many threads have u created on marriage? :p

im on to it too sis ;)

over and out


:1popcorn:

[bint]

that he's possibly gettin married ? that what u mean ?

or if u just mean hes FOR marriage then, as muslims we should be anyway!!

hey now..im messin with ibn suleman..no need to get hyped :p

loool

i'm sure u got loads more posts here :p




no ways:D

[bint]

im on to it too sis ;)

over and out


:1popcorn:
:scratch:

[Guvna]

loool

i'm sure u got loads more posts here :p



:up:
exactly its better than some of the threads in here

ohhh surtaaaa.. s haaaadi kar! shaadi!! :D

[ibn suleman]

:p

i think he may hinting something...:D

that he's possibly gettin married ? that what u mean ?

or if u just mean hes FOR marriage then, as muslims we should be anyway!!

:smack:
why does this always happen.

[Eemaan]

:scratch:

:smack:

[ibn suleman]

im on to it too sis ;)

over and out


:1popcorn:

ohhh surtaaaa.. s haaaadi kar! shaadi!! :D

:smack:

[bint]

:smack:
:scratch:

[muslim_sis]

hey now..im messin with ibn suleman..no need to get hyped :p


no ways:D
im not hyped at all, dunno what u mean by that
keep a smile on ur face.

thats what im doing , im joking around too , but just not lying aswell !

[Eemaan]

:scratch:

*sigh* ibn suls gettin shaadied!!!! do i have to spell everything out around here :rolleyes:

[H_2]

that he's possibly gettin married ? that what u mean ?

or if u just mean hes FOR marriage then, as muslims we should be anyway!!

Yeh......but not 24/7.

[Fais]

*sigh* ibn suls gettin shaadied!!!! do i have to spell everything out around here :rolleyes:

Really? :D .. can i come ibn sul?

[H_2]

*sigh* ibn suls gettin shaadied!!!! do i have to spell everything out around here :rolleyes:

I doubt it.

[ibn suleman]

*sigh* ibn suls gettin shaadied!!!! do i have to spell everything out around here :rolleyes:

i am? :scratch:

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

Marriage is our last, best chance to grow up.
unknown

The challenge is to help couples turn "I Do" into "We Can."
unknown

They haven't found Mr. Right. Maybe there's just a Mr. OK or Mr. Pretty Good.Ibn Suleman

:D

[H_2]

Eemaan u dropped a clanger :rolleyes:

My my not paying much attention in class nowadays hey? :p

[muslim_sis]

They haven't found Mr. Right. Maybe there's just a Mr. OK or Mr. Pretty Good.Ibn Suleman

:D
lol *thumbs up*

[ibn suleman]

They haven't found Mr. Right. Maybe there's just a Mr. OK or Mr. Pretty Good.Ibn Suleman

:D

i never said that did i? :scratch:

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

i never said that did i? :scratch:

u r pretty good n experianced person bro think about it, may b u can recal it :up:

[ibn suleman]

u r pretty good n experianced person bro think about it, may b u can recal it :up:

:confused:

are u sure it was me :scratch:

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

then who is it :scratch: i thought only u cud such a quote :scratch:

[muslim_sis]

*BUMP*
here's some random, yet interesting marriage quotes from some ummah members re: marriage ...

seriously if the wife refuses to cook its still the husbands responsibility to feed her :D be that cooking it himself or getting take away or something

:hidban::hidban:

Purpose of marriage - Learn to share your hair straighteners

there's nothing wrong with a rusty nissan almera on your wedding day :up:



Most importantly a woman needs to feel loved and a man needs to feel respected.
Win the love of your husband by obaying him, respecting him and caring for him, win the respect and love of your wife by setting an excellent example, working to provide for your family and helping out with house work and cooking.



Marriage is overrated and proper missions.



marriage is such a thing.. you love it and you hate it at the same time..

compromise is part of marriage..and there may come a time when u do somethings reluctantly but u do it because u love ur spouse and because you love them u do it with a loving conviction.






Its waste of time thinking about marriage.


Allah made the woman the mans companion. not his maid. now it just so happens that the husbands pleasure is next to Allahs, so if hubby is pleased to come home to clean home, nice feast, a pretty wife etc so be it. she should pls him in what pleases him thats halal.

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brothers u have to love your women
respect ur women
honer ur women
protect your women

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fitra is due to nature and culture is due to nurture




so getting married means that your wife is entrusted to you by almighty Allah so as muslims we always have to bear this in mind, and treat our spouses well. Theres nothing wrong with getting married young at all, in fact it could be a source of so many blessings just take care to marry a good religious woman insha Allah :up:

getting married in uni is a good thing imo, i recommend it


culture is a way of life and so is ISLAM, if a couple live the life of the latter then culture is not needed, if we are truthful we will see all the good things our cultures offer us come from islam, examples, respecting parents and elders, being generous and kind to guests etc.
all the bad things it offers us, example nationalistic mindsets are against ISLAM.



if she cant cook u have to get takeaway or cook yerself or get a maid or summin coz it is obligitory on the husband to mek sure the wife is fed :D



Divorce over food. Thats unbelievable.

marriage is about compromise.

dear bro's ~

*newsflash* don't expect young sisters just getting married for the first time to cook like your mother. marriage and caring for a husband is new to them, just like caring for a wife is new to you. dont be demanding, if you demand she be this excellent cook, you might just put her off from it altogether.

most young wives do want to please their husbands, cook good, clean good, etc. but much of this comes in time, she will become experienced and learn new things the longer she is a wife and also when she becomes a mother. pushing her into it, being demanding, will only make her resent you.

when she does cook tell her how wonderful the food is..learn new recipes with her, cook with her in the kitchen...dont complain if the food tastes bad.

dont be selfish...i am sure your not perfect in all your "husband" duties yet either..... be patient..time, give it time.

Marriage is a two way street and one's way of thinking and executing has a lot to do with that.

Being at home is not a criteria for a wife to become a maid. Qur'anic injnction prevents her for that.

You'll never find a partner who has nothing that displeases you, but you just gotta overlook it.


There are TWO of you in the marriage, not one of you. So if it will affect you both, if you can resolve something together, if you can help one another, why would you leave this??? If you leave things, they tend to just build up under the surface, and its best to have things in the open and share things.

Marriage is a natural step in life.

Don't make it seem like a warrior being trained for a battle that he wont come back alive from, please :rolleyes:

I think thats enough for now :)

[ibn suleman]

*BUMP*
here's some random, yet interesting marriage quotes from some ummah members re: marriage ...


I think thats enough for now :)

some really good pearls of wisdom there, masha'allah :up: :D



we shud write a book...."the Ummah marriage manual" :D

[Ebony]

Ive got a book thats ready to be typed up:

How To Avoid a Matrimonial Falooda.

Some interesting case studies and pointers for everyone :up:

[ibn suleman]

Ive got a book thats ready to be typed up:

How To Avoid a Matrimonial Falooda.

Some interesting case studies and pointers for everyone :up:

lool..

i can see it being a bestseller :D

[Kubs]

There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends - Homer, Odyssey, ninth century B.C

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person - Mignon McLaughlin

The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent, and it must be equal - Frank Pittman

It is sometimes essential for a husband and a wife to quarrel - they get to know each other better - Goethe

Marriage is the foundation of the family and the family is the foundation of society: if we strengthen marriage, we strengthen the family, we strengthen the children and we strengthen the community. If your goal is to help improve the world, marriage is as good a place as any to start - Diane Sollee

When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory - Friedrich Nietzsche

You don't marry one person; you marry three:
the person you think they are,
the person they are, and
the person they are going to become
as a result of being married to you.
Richard Needham

[MMS]

shadi = barbaadi

-MMS

[sajid]

:D Marriage quotes... :D


"Im Married"

[cl@rity]

"This is my hubby!" (cant wait to say that one inshala!!)

[ibn suleman]

:D


"Im Married"

:rubeyes:

u are?

[seven]

on the wedding day...

upar sherwani, andar pareshani

[cl@rity]

^ lolzzz!!!

[muslim_sis]

whats that mean seven ??

[K@M]

some really good pearls of wisdom there, masha'allah :up: :D



we shud write a book...."the Ummah marriage manual" :D

Its already been done :D

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=104031

Still be completed though.

And jazak'Allah for the roundup of quotes, muslim_sis, woo, some cool people there :hidban: [wow, aint used that for tiiiime]

[muslim_sis]

Its already been done :D

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=104031

Still be completed though.

And jazak'Allah for the roundup of quotes, muslim_sis
edit: done K@m , funny funny funny :p

[K@M]

i thort it was a secret lol

:\'

It is, quick edit your post. no lie.

[muslim_sis]

edit my quote in urs too then :p

[K@M]

edit my quote in urs too then :p

Done, I left the other bit cos now people dont have a clue what we're on about :D

[muslim_sis]

Done, I left the other bit cos now people dont have a clue what we're on about :D
hahaha :p