I need help

[umm_huraiyrah]

I have posted now twice in the counsiling forum. First time a couple days ago and again now. I am being victimized, harrassed, My husbands been shot, two dead cats, upstairs bedroom window screen bent up and security cam unplugged, car scraytched up. When is this non sense going to stop??? I'm trying to buy a home in the city away from the red neck SOBS,my house is being broke into and the police will not do nothing. I'm almost at my wits end. Society has made it so hard to convert to Islam. People smirk and whisper and giggle at each other when they see me in my shaylas. I'M STRESSED!!!!! Why is Allah allowing this to happen to me?? The stress is effecting my health. Blood pressure was 157/122. anxiety attack after another one. I fell like giving up and in more ways then one.

Sadly
Habiba

[MMS]

asalaamu alaykum :(

i dont really know how to help u :(

" Certainly, We shall test you with fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits; but give glad tidings to the patient - those who, when afflicted with calamity say, "Truly to Allah we belong, and truly to Him shall we return." It is those who will be awarded blessings and mercy from their Lord; and it is those who are the guided ones." [ Soorah Baqarah (2):155-157 ]

Abu Hurayrah (radiallaahu 'anhu) reported that the Prophet (sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) said: " Whenever Allah wills good for a person, He subjects him to adversity." [ Bukharee and others ]

Abu Hurayrah (radiallaahu 'anhu) reported that the Prophet (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said: " Hardships continue to befall a believing man and woman's body, family, and property, until they meet Allah (swt) burdened with no sins." [ Tirmithee ]

[Al Qadr]

:(

do u have any sisters u can move in with?

or maybe move 2 ur mums house?

or rent near the city?

I don know what 2 say :(

[umm_huraiyrah]

:(

do u have any sisters u can move in with?

or maybe move 2 ur mums house?

or rent near the city?

I don know what 2 say :(

Yeah I'm working on buying a house in the city, but it's going to take time to find a house I want. I'm not buying the first house I see. I'm moving in January Inshallah to my sisters. She has a little RV that we can live in until we find a home to buy and really that will be better anyways so that way we can save money and it will at least get us away from my bad neighbors. But still why should I have to suffer all this harrassment. The police knows someone is harrassing us yet they don't watch my home. I'm not suppossed to catch the bad guys they are!!! Thats what my taxes are suppossed to pay for!! Really if anyone wants to know how corrupted this town is, read a book called the Innocent Man by John Grisham. It's a true story based on a town 20 minutes from me. A man was accussed of rape and murder and was innocent. was finally proved innocent by the Innocent project. Sad though the guy died 2004. And he had the same disease as my husband. I've had my gut full. I almost went outside and screamed LEAVE US ALONE WE'RE MOVING WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT? But I know what they want, they want my husband in prison or us dead or they are trying to plant drugs in my house.. come on my house was broke into and my laptop and TV and antiques was not taken? I feel very threatened. I done told the police and my doctor if I catch the SOB in my house he's dead I will shoot and I will shoot to kill. Thank God for the make my day law and stand your ground law in my state. I don't want to hurt anyone but I'm not going to allow us to get hurt either.

Assalam Alaikum
Habiba

[TEH]

We are all doing Dua for you sis, and dont forget, Allah doesnt give you more than you can handle...

:)

[umm_huraiyrah]

:(

do u have any sisters u can move in with?

or maybe move 2 ur mums house?

or rent near the city?

I don know what 2 say :(

Just had to say cute pic!!!! I love kittys

Habiba

[Tahiyah]

dana, you have been going thru this for along time now havent you? i ve read your story a few times over the last year or so? arent things getting any better? nothing should ever stop you from accepting Islam. if you know the truth, and the truth is Allah (swt) what on earth could possibly make you not accept that?

i think its time for you to move ASAP. go the masjid that is closest to you and your husband and tell them your situation and ask them for help, also contact CAIR...they are an organization that helps muslims who are victims of discrimination. contact the dept of homeland security and tell them you are victims of hate crimes. take action. most of all submit to Allah, obey him and make lots of duaa, Inshaa Allah.

[Cashew]

Since I don't know what state you're in, it's difficult to offer advice. (I don't know what provisions your state's criminal law has made for hate crimes.)

If you truly believe that the local police are not investigating these matters because you are Muslim, then you should probably contact the state attorney general's office.

If you truly believe that you are being persecuted because you are Muslim, then you should probably also call the ACLU office nearest you.

[al_idrus]

I symphatise with Dina and her dilemma.
Though Allah permits divorce, it's something He dislike.
With Allah anything is possible. Submit and ask.
I happen to be involved in healing. I'll see what I can do with His Blessings.

[bint]

sheesh dana im ever so sorry to hear that..really..but im goingt to pray for u and also ask my mum to pray for u.

remember..

Allah only tests those he loves..and he loves u surely:)

[umm_huraiyrah]

dana, you have been going thru this for along time now havent you? i ve read your story a few times over the last year or so? arent things getting any better? nothing should ever stop you from accepting Islam. if you know the truth, and the truth is Allah (swt) what on earth could possibly make you not accept that?

i think its time for you to move ASAP. go the masjid that is closest to you and your husband and tell them your situation and ask them for help, also contact CAIR...they are an organization that helps muslims who are victims of discrimination. contact the dept of homeland security and tell them you are victims of hate crimes. take action. most of all submit to Allah, obey him and make lots of duaa, Inshaa Allah.

Assalam Alaikum
Yes this non sense is still going on. Police are not helping. Have contacted CAIR and another group and the FBI. No I will NEVER give up my faith in Islam or Allah. I pray all the time for protection and to help us find a home to buy very quickly. So we can get away.

Habiba

[umm_huraiyrah]

I symphatise with Dina and her dilemma.
Though Allah permits divorce, it's something He dislike.
With Allah anything is possible. Submit and ask.
I happen to be involved in healing. I'll see what I can do with His Blessings.


Who's getting divorced??? Certainly not my husband and I. But Thank you anyways. Jazak'Allah Khair!! Ameen!

Habiba

[umm_huraiyrah]

sheesh dana im ever so sorry to hear that..really..but im goingt to pray for u and also ask my mum to pray for u.

remember..

Allah only tests those he loves..and he loves u surely:)

yeah Allah surely loves us a lot.

Habiba

[umm_huraiyrah]

Since I don't know what state you're in, it's difficult to offer advice. (I don't know what provisions your state's criminal law has made for hate crimes.)

If you truly believe that the local police are not investigating these matters because you are Muslim, then you should probably contact the state attorney general's office.

If you truly believe that you are being persecuted because you are Muslim, then you should probably also call the ACLU office nearest you.

Bint I live in the State known as the Home of the red man. Indian Territory.

Habiba

[Emelianenko]

Sis Habiba sorry to hear about this but it seems uve contacted all the necessary authorities, but all i can say is to "sabr and salat" as advised to us by Allah in the Quran, be patient and turn to Allah in salat. Allah swt only loves those whom he loves and though we dont see it now, but these tests in this life are a means of elevating us in the hereafter. Allah swt grant u and ur hubby patience and remove all ur worries inshaAllah. ameen.

[Khubaib]

Bint I live in the State known as the Home of the red man. Indian Territory.

Habiba

:sub:

MMS listed the most appropriate ayah/hadith for your situation. It makes me happy to see you are firm in your faith. You have our du'as. :insha: you will be rewarded for your patience. Of course it is your duty to fight those who oppress you and are trying to drive you from your home. Contacting the attorney general as Cashew suggested is excellent advice. If you need specific help let us know or the Muslim community nearest to you. Like you said buying a new home/hijrah would be best but in the interim do not sit back, arm and protect yourself. May Allah strengthen you and bring shameful defeat to those who wish to harm you, your family, and your property. Ameen.

[amatullah_amina]

aslamu laikaum warehmatullahi wabaraktu,

may Allah (SWT) make it immensely easy for u inshaAllah. AMeen.

put all ur trust in Allah..its SURELY works Alhumdulillah...plus patience and remember aakhirah for the believers is beutiful this life is full of trials...

MAy Allah grant u and ur family good in this world and aakhirat inshaAllah and forgive u and guide u. Ameen

walikum alsam warehmatullahi wbarakatu