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Ibn-e-Muslim
03-12-06, 02:46 PM
i was surprised how every 1 reacted over such a thing which needed to b dealt within Islamic boundries

im ashamed n disgraced, how many brothers n sisters reacted over it without knowing what the real thing is behind it n started fighting n making fun of me directly or indirectly apart from few who realy gave me a sincare help, may Allah reward them for their good help Ameen

i didnt discuss with any brother about any sister nor im too dumb to do so
bro Fais n i r a bit close, i asked him to help me overcome this situation, he told me to post it in anonymous section to get help from brothers n sisters from ummah unoticed, i liked that idea n did so, it was between me n him, and he him self doesnt know any thing coz i didnt disclose any info to him to b honest

that was my bad i wasnt bothered to read properly how to post in anonymous thread n got my name listed coz of my stupidity but still sis sunrise responded to sincarely and it was a good sign n i was amazed i got a positive response

bro irhab copied to marriage section to get the discussion go straight with real help coz my name was already disclosed and anonymous wasnt anonymous anymore but few brothers n sisters may Allah help em n love em Ameen didnt responded postivly n took it to the stage where any1 can think i disgraced this place

im sorry i seeked help n created fitnah and i will try to stay away from such questions in future for good inshaAllah

ur poor brother in islam
Ibn-e-Muslim
MMS
03-12-06, 02:50 PM
ibn-emuslim bhai i can have a word with binnu if u wish :embar:
ur_yusra
03-12-06, 03:02 PM
lol.. if it is a genuine dilemma which is what I sense then tell only those that you trust.. and in my opinion if you are sincere then PM the sister, ask her if she is interested in marriage and if so, how you can contact her wali insha'Allah :up:
puella
03-12-06, 03:03 PM
subhanAllah bhai ibn e muslim, so good of u to give ppl the opportunity to apologise to u...mashaAllah.

ur post has made me :(
puella
03-12-06, 03:04 PM
lol.. if it is a genuine dilemma which is what I sense then tell only those that you trust.. and in my opinion if you are sincere then PM the sister, ask her if she is interested in marriage and if so, how you can contact her wali insha'Allah :up:

i think it is best to go throu one of the mods inshaAllah rather than PMing the rs herself inshaAllah that way at least another person knows and it leaves less chance of shaytaan to get a toe hold iof the situation

i know if a br Pmed me like tha ti would tell him to rackk off...but if it ame througha third party it would be better inshaALlah
.: Anna :.
03-12-06, 03:04 PM
Look brothers we sisters get the feeling you are messing around with these posts, and we dont really appreciate it. No need to make a joke about marriage issues and cause a fuss and all this and that. That thread has been removed, and now you have done ur clarification so I think we need to finish this insha allah. Does it really need another thread?
ur_yusra
03-12-06, 03:05 PM
i think it is best to go throu one of the mods inshaAllah rather than PMing the rs herself inshaAllah that way at least another person knows and it leaves less chance of shaytaan to get a toe hold iof the situation

i know if a br Pmed me like tha ti would tell him to rackk off...but if it ame througha third party it would be better inshaALlah

Yep or the above.
Ebony
03-12-06, 03:05 PM
Close the thread. We don't need people commenting on this now...it'll run over 10 pages.

He's made his post. Whoever has anything to say, PM it to him.