niqab?

[rukayya]

salam alaikum,
i want to know, are there any sisters in niqab here in the forum living in western countries?
subhanAllah my desire is to wear it, but i am a bit weak at the moment. :zzz: yeah, i live in germany. problem, my husband doesn't want me to wear it in the west! so please make du'a. i got my first niqab on our trip to magreeb to my husbands family, ALLAH u akbar! :hidban: i told his aunt - she is munaqaba - that i love it.
and my sisters? how do you wear your niqab?
wa'salam:hidban:

[Umm 'Umarah]

:wswrwb:

Masha'Allah sister...go for it!! dont worry about being in the west, Allah is your protector.

[sunrise]

Salam

Sis i have already made a similar post/poll in the sisters area which is currently active which answers your questions, check it out

Sunrise

[Na'eemah]

Salam

Sis i have already made a similar post/poll in the sisters area which is currently active which answers your questions, check it out

Sunrise

she needs 100+ posts to get access to sis area.

[Umm 'Umarah]

I was going to refer her there too..can she get temporary access or something?

[RashidD]

Assalamu Alaikum sister, May Allah (Azzawajall) give you strength in this affair and make it easy for you :)

Props to the niqaabis! :hidban:

[sunrise]

she needs 100+ posts to get access to sis area.


oh rigth sorry oh well niqaabi sisters get posting:D

[MalikOne™]

heres a piece a sista wrote about the struggles we niqaabis/hijabis face

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1452257#post1452257

[.: Anna :.]

insha allah after 100 posts n a month membership u cn apply for sisters access.
i dnt wear niqaab... i am considering it, but i feel a bit confused @ the moment :(

[muslima_89]

i wear it ...:) it rocks... but yeah its hard at the beginning....but the greater the struggle the more the reward then you jus get used to it...and you love it :)...jus remember if your gono wear it do it properly that includes cousins...and all :)

[Umm 'Umarah]

hey Sis, muslima 89, i find it hard to maintain purdah on front of my cousins its because of my family...no one else wears niqaab and my mums like "its only such and such..." and if we ge a lot of people coming, the outsiders go into the living room but some of the male relatives (bro in laws) come into the family room..coz im the youngest my mums like it doesnt matter, sometimes i get told off incase they think im being stuck up and everyone thinks im being extreme.

[MalikOne™]

insha allah after 100 posts n a month membership u cn apply for sisters access.


:jkk:

think ive been here a bit longer so if u cud sort the access out that'd be cool Insha'Allah

[.: Anna :.]

:jkk:

think ive been here a bit longer so if u cud sort the access out that'd be cool Insha'Allahnot u malik....
btw ur avatar is not that pretty.
:p

[nami]

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[MalikOne™]

btw ur avatar is not that pretty.
:p


Im sorry it was early morning was a bit tired... :hidban:

[Nusayba bint Ka'b]

I want to wear one too..I bought it even, I'm just waiting for the right moment, because once I put it on, there is no way i'm ever going to take it off:up:

[Hayati]

Assalaam aleikum

Go for it sister! InshAllah your husband will change his mind about it.

I wear it and i love it even though im sweating like crazy some times:D

[bint]

yeah ill post u a link my thread i started..(one of the first few when i was new)

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=73424:)

[Abu Muslim]

It's all about the Niqaab *cool bearded bro emoticon*

Go for it sis and may Allah reward you.

[Don't know how that fits in but I'll leave you to it]

[umme ahmed]

hey Sis, muslima 89, i find it hard to maintain purdah on front of my cousins its because of my family...no one else wears niqaab and my mums like "its only such and such..." and if we ge a lot of people coming, the outsiders go into the living room but some of the male relatives (bro in laws) come into the family room..coz im the youngest my mums like it doesnt matter, sometimes i get told off incase they think im being stuck up and everyone thinks im being extreme.

i know what you mean sis, it can be awkward sometimes with family, but if you just stick at it, they'll eventually get tired of asking you to take it off and back off. remember, there's no obedience to man in disobedience to Allah Ta'ala. may Allah Ta'ala make it easy for you. ameen

[.: Anna :.]

yeah ill post u a link my thread i started..(one of the first few when i was new)

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=73424:)

oh i remember that thread.

:eek: when i went 2 Holland with my mum recently, we took the boat from Hull accross to Holland... I think mainly taking the boat was actually those proper low class sun reader type ppl, cos dnt they go over n do that "booze cruise" or something by going to europe for a weekend and coming back?
well anyway... some stupid chav idiot from those people made a really sickening comment to me. Normally I just ignore comments, n this one I did ignore it aswell but cos my mum was also with me n she had to hear it I felt really :mad: The actual comment I cnt type it up n post cos it is THAT disgusting. Astaghfirullah some people are actually the **** of the earth :rolleyes: :(

[amatullah_amina]

aslamu alaikum warehmatullahi wabrakatu,

MAy Allah (SWT) make it soo easy for u sis to wear it inshaAllah...

its my desire to wear it tooo ishaAllah..but if u donot have support frm ur family then it gets soo difficult but Alhumdulillah Allah is All-Sufficient. I know that even if i start wearing it most likely my parents are never gonna find out ( inshaALlah Allah Willing)....but e again if u have support frm ur family then Alhumdulillah its easy ...

I know a sister ( i'm mashaAllah reallyly impressed by her) may Allah (SWT) reward her immensley...i just wana share that when the 11 or 13 kids were arrested ( may Allah make it easy for them and forgive them inshaAllah) then i was like subhanAllah the sisters who wear niqaab its going to beee soo difficult for them cuz the newspaper was showing women with niqaabi pics as if they were the culprits ( may Allah reward these women). But Alhumdulillah this sis subhanAllah is soo strong especially wen pple are giving u the stares and passing comment on u and esp wen it is a critical time ....Alhumdulillah

i'm just waiting to get married inshaAllah and then start wearing it...
walaikum aslam warehmatullahi wabrakatu

P.S: most sholars say that niqqaab is not faridah ( or fard) ( as said by Dr Monzer kahf anfd other scolars may Allah perserve them)...but subhanAllah there is such a beauty in seeking the pleasure of Allah (SWT) by being modest and protecting ur chastity....(smile)

Therez a hadith that says (three things i'll share two cuz m not soo sure abt the third)...it says that if a women guards her modesty, is nice to her husband, (and a third one too which i think is related to religion thou m not soo sure)...then she can enter jannah frm whichever gates she want to Alhumdulillah...and remember Abu BAkr (RA) was told by prophet of Allah (PBUH) that he (SAW) hopes that it is Abu Bakr(RA) who all the gates of jannah would call....and Alhumdulillah in this hadith women are also given this privilegde...Islamm is sooooo beautiful and easy Alhumdulillah.

[muslima_89]

hey Sis, muslima 89, i find it hard to maintain purdah on front of my cousins its because of my family...no one else wears niqaab and my mums like "its only such and such..." and if we ge a lot of people coming, the outsiders go into the living room but some of the male relatives (bro in laws) come into the family room..coz im the youngest my mums like it doesnt matter, sometimes i get told off incase they think im being stuck up and everyone thinks im being extreme.

hey hey...at least your wearing it man...i know its hard ....but mashallah....espcially when familys not practising....proud that uve come this far...may allah make it easy for you :)

dont loose hope and faith in allah

[NaBiiHa]

I want to wear one too..I bought it even, I'm just waiting for the right moment, because once I put it on, there is no way i'm ever going to take it off:up:


Masha allah sis:up:

May allah (swt) make it easy for you.:)

I love them too, but i am not that ready yet:rolleyes:

[Umm 'Umarah]

hey hey...at least your wearing it man...i know its hard ....but mashallah....espcially when familys not practising....proud that uve come this far...may allah make it easy for you :)

dont loose hope and faith in allah

my family are practising Alhamdulillah, its just that no one wears niqaab, theyr really proud of me because i wear it and respect me for it, its just that they are more cultural/compromising at times...:rolleyes: like in the house when relatives/cousin brothers come.

[Nusayba bint Ka'b]

Masha allah sis:up:

May allah (swt) make it easy for you.:)

I love them too, but i am not that ready yet:rolleyes:

oh i remember that thread.

:eek: when i went 2 Holland with my mum recently, we took the boat from Hull accross to Holland... I think mainly taking the boat was actually those proper low class sun reader type ppl, cos dnt they go over n do that "booze cruise" or something by going to europe for a weekend and coming back?
well anyway... some stupid chav idiot from those people made a really sickening comment to me. Normally I just ignore comments, n this one I did ignore it aswell but cos my mum was also with me n she had to hear it I felt really :mad: The actual comment I cnt type it up n post cos it is THAT disgusting. Astaghfirullah some people are actually the **** of the earth :rolleyes: :(


How dare they sis..If only I was there I would've *************:torture:
I remember one time someone said something to me and guess what happened, I saw this morrocan bro running towards the guy and he kicked him, the guy was soo terrified, and the bro gives me salam and jumps into his train..like nothing happened oh well..kick and checks his watch and waves at me.:D

[Nusayba bint Ka'b]

Masha allah sis:up:

May allah (swt) make it easy for you.:)

I love them too, but i am not that ready yet:rolleyes:

Jezekelah khayr dear sis:):love:
InshaAllah u'll know when ur ready..:D

my family are practising Alhamdulillah, its just that no one wears niqaab, theyr really proud of me because i wear it and respect me for it, its just that they are more cultural/compromising at times...:rolleyes: like in the house when relatives/cousin brothers come.

Aww sis, I understand what your saying. I respect you for being so strong and being such a nice example for your family:up:, May Allah guide our fmailies ameen:love:

[.: Anna :.]

How dare they sis..If only I was there I would've *************:torture:
I remember one time someone said something to me and guess what happened, I saw this morrocan bro running towards the guy and he kicked him, the guy was soo terrified, and the bro gives me salam and jumps into his train..like nothing happened oh well..kick and checks his watch and waves at me.:Dhehehe masha allah @ morrocan bro lol :D
i jst ignored n like did nothing but inside i was :mad: