Food and Marriage...

[ibn suleman]

.....seem to be the favourite topics of late here on ummah :D :D

[seven]

my fault... blame me :(

[qwickmalik]

... what did food do to marriage?:D

[Eemaan]

man not being fed thus marriage unhappy. is that the connection :scratch:

how will man survive ugga ugga

[puella]

man not being fed thus marriage unhappy. is that the connection :scratch:

how will man survive ugga ugga

club them!

[Al-Irhaab]

man not being fed thus marriage unhappy. is that the connection :scratch:

how will man survive ugga ugga

man no get fed woman no get to go shopping with mans credit card... nag nag nag :rolleyes:

[Eemaan]

man no get fed woman no get to go shopping with mans credit card... nag nag nag :rolleyes:

man no want to talk to vooman about responsibility man play on playstation

man want food on table, bang fist hard. vooman cry. ugga ugga

club them!

vooman club man? :scratch:



vooman no club man.man to drive to Harvey Nichols saturday morning. club on sunday ugg ugg.

[Fais]

man no get fed woman no get to go shopping with mans credit card... nag nag nag :rolleyes:

LOL .. a women best friend ... the credit card :rolleyes:

[Nusayba]

We need to talk more about death and stop joking, and get real. :up:What if we actually die while we're on ummah? wouldn't you want your last sentence to be something that ALlah will be pleased with?:D

Not that joking is bad...I do too much of it myself, but some people do only that:nervous:

[Eemaan]

you right sis, start a thread! theres already one with contributing hadith and ayahs but on folks experiences and method of ensuring they remember death on a dailey basis is a good idea. thanks sis :inlove:

[Al-Irhaab]

man no want to talk to vooman about responsibility man play on playstation

man want food on table, bang fist hard. vooman cry. ugga ugga



vooman club man? :scratch:




vooman no club man.man to drive to Harvey Nichols saturday morning. club on sunday ugg ugg.

vooman no make food man get angry and marry second vooman who make good food :D

[`asiya]

vooman no make food man get angry and marry second vooman who make good food :D

*sigh* lets not turn taking a second wife into a punishment now insha Allah, thats why some sisters dont "allow" their husbands to do it anymore and the husbands are "too scared" to marry again. you marry to take care of them and love them, not to punish the first, second, or third wife.

(there are hadiths that mention that sometimes the wifes of the sahabba and the prophet salallahu alleyhi wa salam were not the best cooks or couldnt cook at all and got other women to bake bread for them or other women would send food over its no big deal )

[Al-Irhaab]

*sigh* lets not turn taking a second wife into a punishment now insha Allah, thats why some sisters dont "allow" their husbands to do it anymore and the husbands are "too scared" to marry again. you marry to take care of them and love them, not to punish the first, second, or third wife.

(there are hadiths that mention that sometimes the wifes of the sahabba and the prophet salallahu alleyhi wa salam were not the best cooks or couldnt cook at all and got other women to bake bread for them or other women would send food over its no big deal )

if my wife can get one of her friends to cook the food i eat throughout the day i wont complain either.... :D

[ur_yusra]

dhaal chawal everyday..

[Al-Irhaab]

dhaal chawal everyday..

she can eat what she wants no one gonna stop her :D

[Nusayba]

Edit: I have better things to do

[Al-Irhaab]

Edit: I have better things to do

then :scratch:

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

*sigh* lets not turn taking a second wife into a punishment now insha Allah, thats why some sisters dont "allow" their husbands to do it anymore and the husbands are "too scared" to marry again. you marry to take care of them and love them, not to punish the first, second, or third wife.


*agree* mashaAllah

where im from, there is a tribe next to us, that tribe women r way stronger than any other women, they dont let their husband stick to 1 wife, if a woman see his husband is only stick to her for a while and not geting marry to other women she calls him a coward/a stain on being a man and keeps on teasing him untill he gets married to other women. :rubeyes:

may Allah reward those women :up:

:coolbro:

[Fais]

*agree* mashaAllah

where im from, there is a tribe next to us, that tribe women r way stronger than any other women, they dont let their husband stick to 1 wife, if a woman see his husband is only stick to her for a while and not geting marry to other women she calls him a coward/a stain on being a man and keeps on teasing him untill he gets married to other women. :rubeyes:

may Allah reward those women :up:

:coolbro:

Mashallah, :rotfl: .. the poor guys proberly cant handle 1 headache let alone 2 :rubeyes:

[Al Qadr]

This thread integrates marriage n food :D
http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=98865

[Fais]

This thread integrates marriage n food :D
http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=98865

All that does is ask how you want to get fat ...

[Al Qadr]

lol, but people tend to get fat after they get married neway

[Zahyrah]

you lot get on my nerves, dont any of u guys cook??
dont u think women can earn money??
and dont you know credit cards are RIBA????????

mashallah!

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

you lot get on my nerves, dont any of u guys cook?? YES i can cook
dont u think women can earn money?? I do
and dont you know credit cards are RIBA???????? i dont use cradit card

mashallah! :jkk:

[Fais]

you lot get on my nerves, dont any of u guys cook??
dont u think women can earn money??
and dont you know credit cards are RIBA????????

mashallah!

I CAN COOK! .. IVE SAID IT ABOUT A MILLION TIMES ALREADY!

Credit cards are riba? ... Aww comiserations for some of the sisters.

Whats riba again? ... i hear it so often but keep forgetting.

[Fais]

lol, but people tend to get fat after they get married neway

Yea thats true .. dunno why. Proberly all the Hanafi's though .. making there wives cook for them :p

[Al-Irhaab]

you lot get on my nerves, dont any of u guys cook??
dont u think women can earn money??
and dont you know credit cards are RIBA????????

mashallah!


no i dont
she can if she wants to but i know shed prefer to spend mine :rolleyes:
credit cards are not riba the transactions within them might be.... plus it was just used for effect.. im sure shed prefer cash :D

[`asiya]

mashaAllah

where im from, there is a tribe next to us, that tribe women r way stronger than any other women, they dont let their husband stick to 1 wife, if a woman see his husband is only stick to her for a while and not geting marry to other women she calls him a coward/a stain on being a man and keeps on teasing him untill he gets married to other women. :rubeyes:

may Allah reward those women :up:

:coolbro:

thats the way it should be if u have a good husband the first thing u would want to do is let one of your unmarried sisters have a good husband too, and see her taken care of as you are taken care of, and any man who said he "couldnt handle it" in my opinion is weak, masha Allah may Allah ta ala reward those husbands who protect and care for the women of the ummah amin

( no offence to any brother reading this who couldnt handle it btw im sure theres good reason for that, and its just my personal opinion )

[Mushtanda]

It has alot to do with the fact that marriages nowdays are all about food.

:wacko:

[ur_yusra]

It has alot to do with the fact that marriages nowdays are all about food.

:wacko:

Yeh pathetic really..

The women at the time of the prophet (SAW) never spent their life cooking.

[Mushtanda]

Yeh pathetic really..

The women at the time of the prophet (SAW) never spent their life cooking.


I was referring to weddings and how people pay more attention to food than marriage.

I am pro wife cooking.

[ur_yusra]

I was referring to weddings and how people pay more attention to food than marriage.

I am pro wife cooking.

Even women are pro wife cooking.

But cooking is something you do to live.. you don't live to cook.

[bint]

gordan ramsay's f kitchen. :outta:

[Ibn-e-Muslim]

bump

[Buthaynah]

bump
Food & Marriage.
How much percent would you all say food plays in a marriage , if any?

[ibn suleman]

Burnt Food: An Opportunity
http://www.ilmfruits.com/burnt-food-an-opportunity/

Common reactions among many types of people when their spouse burns their food, or forgets the salt, or oversalts, or otherwise destroys it, are statements such as “what’s wrong with you, don’t you know how to cook” and “didn’t your mother/father ever teach you anything” and so on.

Remain patient, as the Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) remained when his wives cooked food he didn’t like. He sat, and said nothing at all, nor did he eat from it.

Realize the person is more important than the meal, and take the opportunity to say to yourself “You know what, this person and their feelings are more important–it’s ok, it’s just burnt food.” Positive and encouraging statements correct painlessly. Acknowledge the effort, regardless of the results.

May Allah grant us all wisdom in our da’wah and patience in our afflictions.

[muslim_sis]

Remain patient, as the Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) remained when his wives cooked food he didn’t like. He sat, and said nothing at all, nor did he eat from it.

Realize the person is more important than the meal, and take the opportunity to say to yourself “You know what, this person and their feelings are more important–it’s ok, it’s just burnt food.” Positive and encouraging statements correct painlessly. Acknowledge the effort, regardless of the results.

May Allah grant us all wisdom in our da’wah and patience in our afflictions.
ameen ameen
mashallah jazakallah for bumping one of the top of ur collections and contributing more beneficial reminders to it!!!

[Eemaan]

ooh another marraige thread started by ibn sulemaan :D


*rings aunty rishta jee*

[bint]

ooh another marraige thread started by ibn sulemaan :D


*rings aunty rishta jee*


:rotfl: let me know when u find a match:D