Depressed

[female0001]

Salaams.
I live in a very close knit community. My parent sadly does very un-Islamic things publicly. I've tried telling them this is wrong. I have tried so many different ways of explaining this but I just get told off really badly and at some point my parent said very hurtful things to me. I do not agree with what they do at all. But people like my colleagues and "friends" don't understand that and treat me oddly like I'm doing that. Some of them talk and laugh behind my back, sometimes they say it to my face and most do not trust me because of this. I feel really confused, lost, hurt and depressed. I am a girl so I can't exactly move away and build my own life. I also feel I am going to have problems finding a good religious match because of this and everybody knowing about it. My parent is making my life difficult and I don't know what to do.

[Te'oma]

all that I can say is that Allah tests those that he loves. Those that mock and backbite you will have to answer to Allah for that as will your parent. Insha'allah you will find a good muslim to marry. One that doesn't listen to the whispers and backbiting. May he grant you patience and understanding and take comfort that Allah will not test you with anything that you cannot bear.

[abdalmajid]

Salaams.
I live in a very close knit community. My parent sadly does very un-Islamic things publicly. I've tried telling them this is wrong. I have tried so many different ways of explaining this but I just get told off really badly and at some point my parent said very hurtful things to me. I do not agree with what they do at all. But people like my colleagues and "friends" don't understand that and treat me oddly like I'm doing that. Some of them talk and laugh behind my back, sometimes they say it to my face and most do not trust me because of this. I feel really confused, lost, hurt and depressed. I am a girl so I can't exactly move away and build my own life. I also feel I am going to have problems finding a good religious match because of this and everybody knowing about it. My parent is making my life difficult and I don't know what to do.

Salaam my dear sister

Firstly may Allah (swt) make it easy for you and ease the tension I your household.

Secondly Allah (swt) says in His (swt) Book that He (swt) testes His (swt) servants with hardships form their own families. This is because they provide some of the hardest testes for any human being. In this case what we most not forget my sister is that they are still your parents and as you have just said you should carry on explaining to them the rights and wrongs of what they are doing. Allah (swt) will reward you for this and you my sister should reap it.

In the case of any parents doing something wrong all one can do is make dua to the One (swt) who guides whom He (swt) wills. Allah (swt) is watching and He (swt) knows what is in the hearts of the believers.

Is there not anyone else you can have a word with who would talk to your parents and correct them? That is the second best thing you can do. You see when it comes to things like this we are all in a corner, and It is very difficult to deal with it.

Im sorry but I really don’t know what to say here.

Wa Salaam

Your brother

Abdal Majid Ibn Muhammad Shafi

[muslimforever]

sorry to hear about this:( Insha'Allah i pray that they do become better muslims sorry i cant advise you about this as i havent been through this situation

Salaams and take care Be HaPPy:)

[amatullah_amina]

aslamu alaikum warehmatullah,

be patient sister....remember the difficult the test the higher the rank...aaakhirah is beautiful Alhumdulillah for the believers so have sabr...may Allah (swt) guide ur parents, u, me n the whole muslim ummah. Ameeeeeen

Allah has said that the believers should put ALL their trust in Him....(smile)
so be happy life is short ....rasoolAllah (SAW) said that religion is easy so do ur best and BE OF A GOOD CHEER. MAy Allah grant u good in this word n aakhirat...

remember me in ur pious duaz...
walaikum aslam warehmatullahi wabarakatu

[ABDELTAWWAB]

Salaams.
I live in a very close knit community. My parent sadly does very un-Islamic things publicly. I've tried telling them this is wrong. I have tried so many different ways of explaining this but I just get told off really badly and at some point my parent said very hurtful things to me. I do not agree with what they do at all. But people like my colleagues and "friends" don't understand that and treat me oddly like I'm doing that. Some of them talk and laugh behind my back, sometimes they say it to my face and most do not trust me because of this. I feel really confused, lost, hurt and depressed. I am a girl so I can't exactly move away and build my own life. I also feel I am going to have problems finding a good religious match because of this and everybody knowing about it. My parent is making my life difficult and I don't know what to do.

wa Alaykom as-salaam wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuh Ukhtee Female0001

May ALLAH Subhanahu wa Ta'ala make you Ukhtee Female0001 have the most extremely immense infinite amount of the most extremely wonderful magnificent delightful beautiful sweetest blessed happiest Happiness in this world and in the Akhirah in the most extremely wonderful magnificent delightful beautiful gardens on the river Kawther in the highest Jannatul. Aameen