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Al-Irhaab
20-10-06, 08:53 PM
what would you do is u missed a brother, and he was no longer here and everything fealt empty without him, and you couldnt call or mail him :(
:crying2:
dunno my bros doing itiqaf in the Masjid, and im all alone. It doesn't really bother me much coz i see him almost every day.
PaGaL~LaDo0
20-10-06, 08:59 PM
ermmm id g0 c him :S vhreva e v0z
Al-Irhaab
20-10-06, 09:01 PM
what if hes gone back home and u not gonna see him again :(
PaGaL~LaDo0
20-10-06, 09:07 PM
den juz ermmmm y aint u g0nna c im gain u cn juz buy v0tdya cal dem plne ticktz :rofl1: :p lo00oo0l n den juz fly 0va n c him 0r he cn fly 0va n c u :D 0bzly ur g0nna c ech 0da pr0pa lez but if ur tie nufin cn cum btwn ya innit??! :D plz tel im 2 s0rt 0ut da net n gt msn 0r sumfin n get a f0ne :D:D:D N A WEBCAM w0o0oho00o den u cn c ech 0da evrydy :D:D:D:@)
then i would find it a problem because when my iman is very low and weak hes harsh and does strange things that get my attention and makes me get up to pray :) (May Allah have Mercy on him).
and i would miss him very much. Proberly go visit him once in a while.
Al-Irhaab
20-10-06, 09:21 PM
thats what i mean... i cant see the brother again he is far far farrrrrrr away and he doesnt come online and i cant phone him... and the masjid seems empty without him especially during ramadhan :crying:
i was searching for him at jummah even though he wasnt there and thinking some other bro was him... :(
life is strange u meet the best of brothers and then they go away... but i know hes doing duah for me inshallah and we will see each other again in jannah inshallah (ameen)
i know what you mean.
but i know hes doing duah for me inshallah and we will see each other again in jannah inshallah (ameen)
Ameen.
ur_yusra
20-10-06, 09:40 PM
thats what i mean... i cant see the brother again he is far far farrrrrrr away and he doesnt come online and i cant phone him... and the masjid seems empty without him especially during ramadhan :crying:
i was searching for him at jummah even though he wasnt there and thinking some other bro was him... :(
life is strange u meet the best of brothers and then they go away... but i know hes doing duah for me inshallah and we will see each other again in jannah inshallah (ameen)
You can't say insha'Allah - ameen together..
Anyways fasabrun jameelun.
Al-Irhaab
20-10-06, 09:41 PM
You can't say insha'Allah - ameen together..
Anyways fasabrun jameelun.
can you not? subhanallah i was not aware of this please can you state why?
ur_yusra
20-10-06, 09:46 PM
InshaAllah = destiny..
Aameen = duah..
Duah battles destiny - whichever is stronger wins.
MalikOne™
20-10-06, 09:51 PM
what would you do is u missed a brother, and he was no longer here and everything fealt empty without him, and you couldnt call or mail him :(
:crying2:
:rotfl:
pray to Allah that u see him again soon
Al-Irhaab
20-10-06, 09:55 PM
InshaAllah = destiny..
Aameen = duah..
Duah battles destiny - whichever is stronger wins.
inshallah means if god wills... then we say ameen to the duah we have just said that ...
so the whole saying is a duah ...
i will see my friend again if allah (Swt) wills... is taken as a duah ... and then i say ameen for allah (swt) to accept my wish and my duah....
also duah only tussles with destiny if they are against each other.... if they are the same there is no tussle...
ur_yusra
20-10-06, 10:00 PM
inshallah means if god wills... then we say ameen to the duah we have just said that ...
so the whole saying is a duah ...
i will see my friend again if allah (Swt) wills... is taken as a duah ... and then i say ameen for allah (swt) to accept my wish and my duah....
also duah only tussles with destiny if they are against each other.... if they are the same there is no tussle...
I have heard a shaikh say it and have read it in some books on ettiquettes of du'ah..
I told you what I know.. take it or leave it.
Al-Irhaab
20-10-06, 10:06 PM
I have heard a shaikh say it and have read it in some books on ettiquettes of du'ah..
I told you what I know.. take it or leave it.
i will check inshallah.. no need to be ahem
but i will check inshallah jazakallah khere i have no issue with being corrected just first time i heard it was querying it
MalikOne™
20-10-06, 11:35 PM
its cool man dnt cry jus cos u cnt call or mail me im still here on ummah :up:
.: Anna :.
21-10-06, 06:59 AM
aww Irharb bro I do understand how u feel. Its quite hard when those ppl who u really love 2 b around move away, especially its the ppl who u find always remind u of Allah and boost ur iman u feel so sad 2 loose them. It has happened 2 me too :( If u cnt contact with them, then all u can do is make dua for them in their absense and insha allah u see them in Jannah.. after a while u get more used to being without them, and u dnt feel sooo sad. Still when u think about that person n remember what they used to do, u might feel sad. May Allah lighten ur heart though and not make u feel too sad and lonely without his bro ameen. Try to feel happy, it is a mercy from Allah that we have these people in the first place, who we love for the sake of Allah. I'm sure u benefited a lot from this bro while he was around you (of course, or u wont feel this way) so alhamdulillah for that. Insha Allah maybe u can be a means for each other of attaining the shade of Allah on yawm al qiyama.. one of those catogories of ppl are two
who love each other purely for the sake of Allah, they meet on that and they leave on that.
Al-Irhaab
21-10-06, 12:25 PM
its cool man dnt cry jus cos u cnt call or mail me im still here on ummah :up:
man i missed u :(
but it wernt u i was talking abt :torture:
:salams
people leavin u is probably about the cruelest thing they can do especially if they know u care...
but ma mates always like people come people go... but i think thats sad once u know someone and like someone they should follow u no matter where u go :D
but just think that Allah only wanted u to be in his company for so long, and inshaAllah ul learn from the goodness he had and try and implement it in yaself... and so other 'al-irhaabs' end up makin posts sayin the same thing about u inshaAllah :p
ur_yusra
10-11-06, 10:19 PM
You can't say insha'Allah - ameen together
''When one of you is to supplicate he should do so with full confidence and should not say, 'Oh' Allah, grant me if thou will' for there is no power which can force Allah''
(Bukhari and Muslim)
InshaAllah = destiny..
Aameen = duah..
Duah battles destiny - whichever is stronger wins.
wow i used to say that alot. jazakAllah for teaching us something :up:
ur_yusra
10-11-06, 10:42 PM
wow i used to say that alot. jazakAllah for teaching us something :up:
Baraqallah Feek :)
Niqaabi
10-11-06, 10:44 PM
what if hes gone back home and u not gonna see him again :(
book myself on the next flight back home and go see him innit :p
Abu Muslim
10-11-06, 10:51 PM
Baraqallah Feek :)
Seeing as you taught someone something sis, here's me teaching you sometihng. Its Baraq'Allah hu feeki when addressing a female (as far as I know..)
RashidD
10-11-06, 11:21 PM
Assalamu Alaikum Al-Irhaab,
I know how you feel man... I dunno if you're talking about never seeing a brother again; i am. There's this one bro whom i would love to see again although the chances of us meeting again are very slight indeed! :(
We ask Allah (Azzawajall) that if we're not re-united in this dunya then to re-unite us in Jannat, ameen.
^Did i get the part about the "ameen" and not "InshaAllah" right? :p
ur_yusra
10-11-06, 11:27 PM
Seeing as you taught someone something sis, here's me teaching you sometihng. Its Baraq'Allah hu feeki when addressing a female (as far as I know..)
It seems you are correct.
Jazak'Allahu khayr.. someone told me this before but I forgot.
Assalamu Alaikum Al-Irhaab,
I know how you feel man... I dunno if you're talking about never seeing a brother again; i am. There's this one bro whom i would love to see again although the chances of us meeting again are very slight indeed! :(
We ask Allah (Azzawajall) that if we're not re-united in this dunya then to re-unite us in the Akhirah, ameen.
^Did i get the part about the "ameen" and not "InshaAllah" right? :p
Yeh you did.. alhumdulillah.
RashidD
10-11-06, 11:31 PM
Yeh you did.. alhumdulillah.
Ah JazakAllah, i've editted it ever so slightly :up:
Abu Muslim
10-11-06, 11:47 PM
It seems you are correct.
Jazak'Allahu khayr.. someone told me this before but I forgot..
Barak'Allah hu feeki. Teaching with practical examples :coolbro:
Al-Irhaab
11-11-06, 12:12 AM
Barak'Allah hu feeki. Teaching with practical examples :coolbro:
actually when u say it then it is barakallah feek for both male and female as u leek the kaf sakin....
only in proper grammer or writing will u pronounce the ka or ki depending on male or felame :D
Abu Mus'ab
30-08-07, 06:10 PM
actually when u say it then it is barakallah feek for both male and female as u leek the kaf sakin....
only in proper grammer or writing will u pronounce the ka or ki depending on male or felame :D
Aye :up:
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